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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 3.5 years recently went on a weekend away to Europe with his friends. When he came back I found text messages from a girl he had slept with. He was drinking for 12 hours and he took 3 E tabs that night and remembers nothing at all, only wakening up the following morning and she was there. He says he is so sorry for what he has done to us and to what he has put me through, and only wants me. What do I do? I love him, but don't want to waste the rest of my life.
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reader, dazzleberry  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 hya hun,
Well firstly i think i'd be equally concered about the use of extacy tablets, is this a common occourance? a one off? or a really bad excuse?.
As for the girl he slept with it is possible to regain tust if there is enough love and respect in the relationship, it may be that he is undeniable sorry but what you need to work out is, is he sorry for what he did or is he sorry he got caught. either way i hope you get the outcome the to of you deserve.
Shine on, dazzle x
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reader, help mee +, writes (29 July 2008):
Hi i was a cheat myself,u only cheat if ur not getting satisfied at home i would also like to add if he was so out of it and it was a huge mistake why swap numbers and text.Sorry but get rid of this guy he does not know what loving someone is all about i know i was with a girl 6 years and cheated once i told her as i felt bad we split up.In heinsight i had already fallen out of love and the sex was not often enough for me,hope u get it sorted.
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