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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

"How can I find someone nice who will at least give me a chance?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a nice guy and very good-looking but I have not had any luck meeting anyone. I have not had a girlfriend before and I have not been on a date either. My question is, "How can I find someone nice who will at least give me a chance?"... (51 words)

Why do women keep dumping me right after we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a big problem. Girlfriends keep dumping me after sex. Allow me to explain. I have had a total of 4 proper girlfriends to date. Every single one of them has dumped me just after we'd had sex for the first time. My first girlfriend, who I met in highschool, dump... (169 words)

Will I always think about me ex, even though we've broken up and she's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Just stopped talking to my first love about a month ago. Her drug abuse among other problems made it difficult for me to speak to her at all. Today I just found out that she's dating this dude who does cocaine...in my humble opinion that's not exactly a huge step up from ... (286 words)

His ex contacted him and now he's confused about us. Is he stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, me and my guy have been seeing eachother for 5 weeks, on the second date he asked me to be official with him but I told him we needed to get to know eachother better because it was so soon now last week I asked where this him and me thing was going and he said he wasn't ... (106 words)

I'm in love, but he's my best friend and we can NEVER be together. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im getting deeper and deeper into someone that i can NEVER HAVE. we were friends. then close friends. then we slept together. now we are best friends and we talk to each other on the phone and see each other all the time. but the thing is im investing alot of time t... (127 words)

I had unprotected sex. When should I get tested for STDs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I did something stupid and now have a little problem. I kinda fell for a guy and ended up having sex with him all weekend. I usually use condoms but didn't this time and just let him pull out each time. I know it was dumb. I want to get checked for std's but heard ... (77 words)

I love him so much, but it makes me scared, I don't want to get hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi just wanted to ask a question mostly to females. how do you cope with a relationship thats long distance and you have fallen head over heels and the first thing you think of is i dont want to get hurt because it seems so wonderful and i dont want to come crashing to the ... (264 words)

My penis bends a little to the left. Do girls care about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, this is a bit embarrassing and I hate to ask it but it's always been something in the back of my mind. I am fairly happy with my penis, it's nothing special but it's at a comfortable size and what not. The only problem is is that it curves slightly to the left... not a ... (130 words)

I think I'm in love with my step-brother, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the deal, I think I love my step-brother (I say I think I love him because I'm not 100% sure) We've fooled around before, but now I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried that he'll just think I'm an idiot . . . What should I do ??... (62 words)

How do I set up the right situation to get more intimate with a boy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, basically i like this boy. I got off with him a couple of weeks ago at a party and we've been talking loads ever since. i'm meeting up with him soon -- i really want to go further (ie fingering handjob etc) and so does he. but i don't know how to get into the right situat... (61 words)

Should I be worried about my girl's new male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well this is kind of a follow up but new problem. my girlfriend and i been having few problems of late. we still love each other but something obviously wrong though. i lied to her over something silly to avoid an argument over a new male friend she has had for 6 weeks. i know ... (203 words)

How can I get over the effects of prior sexual abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I have just found out that a guy who i met on holiday sexually abused (unwanted touching, comments etc.) i didnt know it was abuse until a recent event. since then my flashblacks have occured more often, and my reaction is much higher than it used to be. I'm a bit un-tru... (104 words)

Are we safe using pull-out for birth control? Is it normal to have several orgasms in a row?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a couple of questions. First and foremost, my fiance and I have only been having sex for a couple of weeks now. We were originally waiting to be married but it randomly kind of happened one night. That aside, he finds it less romantic and meaningful to use a condom-whi... (297 words)

Is my husband carrying on with a woman from his office?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for past 8 years. We dated for 3 yrs before getting married. In all these married years, my husband has always complained about me being overweight. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 140lbs when i got married. Now I'm 155 lbs and I have a 2.5 yr old daughter. I have ... (325 words)

How can I get rid of really bad breath?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi okay this is pretty embarassing, I have had really bad breath for a while maybe like a week or something... anyways I have tried so many remedies like tongue scraping, mouthwash, chewing parsley, and many others and it just isn't working!! My sister told me I had really bad ... (111 words)

How do I stop cheating with my friend, when I have a boyfriend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend and a really great friend! I have an affair with this friend how can i stop it? he knows I hav a BF and doesnt want to say anything that will ruin my BF and I..how can i stop the love life with my friend, i dont think i need it if i have a BF, i mean he'll ... (79 words)

He didn't believe me when I told him "no". How can I trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my ex about 3 months ago but he wont 'give up on me' he insists that it would still work and that i should give him another chance. he is nice enough and i kind of believe him when he tells me he loves me. but i cant trust him. i told him i didnt want to go al... (160 words)

I have boyfriends, but find myself looking at women too. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im really confused. am i straight?! i this normal? im 16 and since i was 13 i have had boyfriends, in real i think boys are very attractive, i always comment on cute guys i see or if im out with my friends and i see someone i like, which is pretty often i will point him out, i ... (162 words)

We're together, but he's not ready to be serious. Should I stick with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Which do you go by, actions or words. I have been dating a guy for about 3 months. His actions towards me shows he cares, and does like me. He even says "we have a great time together" "loves what we have" and "loves the way I treat him." Well, everyone says that to me because ... (185 words)

Why do women like "bad boys", and why do so many people cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Just wanted to know people theory's why there are so many in relationships who cheat? Can you really love someone and cheat on them? What is it with women and the whole "bad boy" image? It seems the better you treat a woman the worse they treat you.... (53 words)

I chased him, but how can I start over and get him to chase me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age - I was very stupid and got very intense with a man i didnt know too well and barmarded him with e mails and msut have come across as despoerate to say the least HOWEVER I KNOW all this was wrong. WE have got a lot in common and am wondering ifd you could give me soem advice as ... (206 words)

How can I get my man to cry during sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just a little curious I would like to know how many men out there have actually cried during sex and why?? I want to try to get my man to cry any tips, tricks, and or advice to help me with that on a serious note I've heard about men crying because of great sex now I want ... (86 words)

I want to leave my husband in order to be with an ex of 28 years ago - how do I rid of my hubby gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been talking to my ex-boyfriend of 28 years ago. Out of the blue he called me when he wsa in the Bay Area and we found out that we both still have feelings for each other but I am married and want to leave my husband. I have from time to time wanted to leave my ... (193 words)

Why doesn't he like me? Why is everyone else better than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age - Having met a man a few weeks ago on holiday we didnt have any sex (although he was keen to) he gave me his address and phone number and e mailed me and we met after a seminar he was attending which was just four days after returning. We e mailed a few times but nothing has ... (224 words)

He says he's not ready to be committed to me after the drama his baby's mother has put him through, do I need to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I recently met someone and we hit it off pretty good. We've been friends for 6mos. now and we are real close and talk to each other about everything we even have real good passionate sex. He tells me that he likes me a lot and that he would go crazy if something ever ... (150 words)

We love each other but I can't fully trust her as she cheated and is generally flirty, how do I overcome my worries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello i have been in a relationship for nearly two years now and i love my girlfriend to pieces, we have regular sex, a fantastic connection, we have talked about marriage, and we love each other with all of our hearts. the only thing is i dont fully trust her anymore. the ... (284 words)

Still in love with my ex, how should I be interpreting these signs from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

- I have written on here previously titled:- My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe. I dont know what to do anymore with my situation. I am still in love with my ex sooo much that it seriously hurts. everywher... (175 words)

SHOULD I tell my friend I like her, although she has a boyfriend? I feel this will help me move on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known a certain girl for about a year. We are pretty good friends, but not in the sense we hang out a lot. We get along and I really like her. I see her maybe once or twice a week because we have some similar friends. I actually just started liking her after the 2n... (346 words)

My boyfriend seems a little too dependent on me, I am starting to feel responsible for his happiness, how could I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a problem with my boyfriend being a little too dependent on me. We both love each other very much and have been living together for about 6 months. I love spending time with him when we get a chance. I recently started a new job, and I was working an opposite ... (262 words)

My girlfriend is in another country with another guy... and she gets mad at me when I go to concerts without her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I've been with my girlfriend for1 year and 9 months now, and it's going great, but theres just one thing that bugs me naturally. She is currently away in a few different countries with a new male friend who she met at a meeting for the travel program she was ... (346 words)

I broke up with him but it hurts so much. Will I ever get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - m really not sure bout what m doing..i broke up with my guy but it hurts so much..m makin a mess..not able to study or work r do anything..m so lost..wonder y things got so bad between us..not able to sleep..please help me get over him..loved him so much..more than anything ... (121 words)

My husband is rude and grumpy and freaks out if I talk to my family or friends. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 years old and have been married for 6 years now. I don't know what to do, I'm depressed and need help with my marriage. My husband can be rude and grumpy a lot of time with me, he's only nice to me when he wants sex. He also doesn't like me or us spending time with ... (222 words)

I've had my period twice this month, but I'm on the pill... what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had my period just 2 weeks ago and have started it again at the end of the month. I have not been with any sexually since before my period 2 weeks ago. what does this mean? I have never had this before and am really regular as i am on the pill and have been since i had my son ... (72 words)

I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look disgusted. I feel like Im ... (283 words)

Are we moving too fast for two months? Should we slow down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is my first relationship and the same goes for my bf. We started seeing each other late may (we hadn't known each other at all before then), but became official a month later--- though when people ask i just say we've been going out for 2 months. Anyway, we don... (135 words)

Does this story sound believable? I was told he was in a wreck.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone Recently I got a text message from my ex boyfriends phone saying he was in a wreck and this was his cousin megan and she asked if i still dated him. I didnt answer because my phone was on silent and another one came in and it said well if you are he was in a wreck ... (338 words)

Should I forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm really confused. Theres this guy who i have been getting to know the last few weeks. At first we got a long so well, ended up talking on the phone every night for 3-4 hours. He then asked me out but i felt i didnt no him enough at that time just to say yes, so i as... (428 words)

I am a very messed up kid, and I feel really stuck.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a very messed up kid. I think I was abused a while back by my brother. He used to kiss me and sort of hump me with my clothes on. I couldn't tell my mum coz i love my bro but he was really horrible and once he got drunk and was really scary though he didn't try anyth... (265 words)

What's going on with this? My penis wouldn't stay hard..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I had about 3 years married and today day when I'm about to enter on her my penis star comming down, whats going on with that?... (29 words)

I really need help on how to tell her how I feel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How Do I tell this girl I really like that I like her? I wanna see if she feels the same way, but I'm afraid to ask her. every time I try to talk to her, I freeze up and mumble like an idiot. I really need help on how to tell her how I feel. ... (57 words)

He comes every time, and I don't think he understands that I never actually do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now, its great everytime but theres one problem:( he comes everytime, and i dont. i told him its harder for me, and he explains to me everytime that guys come quiker or alot ealier than girls, but i dont think he unde... (85 words)

Are we going too fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

He is determined to move back to his parents with me now we have money problems. I don't want to, but I don't want to upset him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been seeing my boyfriend for over 2 years. I love him very much and last year we decided to move in together. To pay the rent I had to quit college and go working and since I lost my job a few months ago we are struggling so much with mon... (194 words)

My friends got really annoyed with the video I put on YouTube and Bebo. Are they over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok.. i put a video of my friends and i mucking about on youtube and bebo i told them i was going to put it on bebo. and then got really annoyed when they found out it was on youtube. but you cant put a vid on bebo without it being put on youtube. My friends got really annoy... (88 words)

Off and on for seven years, got back together, planned a wedding, he cancelled it, I stayed with him, he cheated again, I left him, why does anyone do this to another person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I spent 7 years with the one I thought "I loved," was faithful to him, sacrificed more for him than any other human being in my life, showed him love and kindness and honesty. I beleived in him and in his words. I tried to always do the right thing... and in return he lied, ... (1558 words)

My boyfriend is very jealous, how do I help him to not be so jealous, and to love me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what does a girl have to do with her boy friend like sexual things? what to do when your boyfriend is really galous? what to do to keep ur boyfriend inlove with with you? ... (38 words)

I used vulgar language around my girlfriend and now she hates me, how do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i just broke up with my girl friend ana and now she hates me alot. we broke up because of me using vulgar words towards her, any ideas on how to get her back?... (34 words)

I have a strong lack of confidence and negative thoughts, please give me some ideas, as to how I can build my self-confidence and self-esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i feel stongerless with my confidence.i feel thoughts which is unwanted for me but that cames automatically in my minds,please help me for that and answer me... (28 words)

Things are changing. He doesn't tell me what he is doing any more. I love him and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in this relationship for 2months and things have been going well in the beginning but as time went on everything changed, he doesnt tell me if he is going home or what, he didnt even tell me dat he went to go fetch his child, he doesn't even call again and i don't ... (78 words)

My boyfriend flirts with and hugs other girls, right in front of me, he is also aggressive and has a bad temper, should I move on, he says he is going to change, but he never does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive Been With My Boyfriend For A Year And At The Start Everythin Was Good. But Lately Hes Changed And Turned Realli Agressive With Me And Loosin Hes Temper. Or Hes alwayz on the fone to other girls And Flirtin And Huggin Girls Infront Of Me Wen He Knows I Dont Like It. ... (131 words)

She told me she doesn't know how she feels any more. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What to do when your Gf says she doesnt love you? It hurts so much!!!, My girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 years now. A couple of months ago she told me she didnt know how she felt anymore? I was pretty shocked but we agreed that it might just be a p... (378 words)

I like another guy, but for some reason I can't leave my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i really like this guy, *Trevor, but i have a boyfriend. things are pretty rocky with my boyfriend and normally i would get out of the relationship but i hesitate whenever i think of him not being my boyfriend. but i really like trevor. its very confusing. my bf is pretty ... (116 words)

I've known him for some time but only recently he started flirting with me. He lives quite far away. Could it still work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about 2 and a half years and just resently (about a few months ago) he has started flirting with me and has resently told me exactly how he feels... the only problem is that he lives quite far away now. would it work between us? ... (55 words)

Separated and soon to be divorced, and now I've met someone else. Should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Me and my wife have sepperated permantly, aiming to get divorced. The problem is, i've met a girl who I like alot and she likes me. Should I go for it?... (32 words)

He hit on my girlfriends, after saying he had strong feelings for me, I broke off the relationship, then I contacted him, but now he just wants to be friends, how could he do this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He said, he has strong feelings for me...wanting to do everything with me...travel, business etc... He did all these beautiful things for me. Kept in touch and made me feel on top of the world...until I found out he hit on my g/f's found nasty texts on his phone etc...I broke ... (208 words)

My boyfriend said he wanted space, I am a wreck, how do I get him to realize, how great we would be together, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been over a month now... I haven't seen the guy I don't seem to get out of my head... we were together for 3 intense months... and things just fell apart...he said he needs time apart in order for us to be friends... It's a pain everyday... he goes through my thougths... I ... (337 words)

Did she cheat, lie or is she innocent?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing my girlfriend for a year now and ive always trusted her, i joined the army which put a bit of strain on our relationship, but its fine now. One day whilst i was in training she told me she was busy and couldn't phone, but i later found out that she was out ... (160 words)

He compares me to his long-term ex. Why has he acted this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend in the aim chatrooms May'07.He stays in Northern Cali and I stay in Southern Cali.We flirted but never intended or thought it would be more.Then it became more than ims but phone calls and then we decided to be more.When we started off it was rough for me he ... (614 words)

Is there any given time that a girl is obsessed with sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi readers? Just want to hear different answers for the viewers. 1) is it true that a girl whose in vinicity of her period is obsessed in sex? 2) if not, when usually is a girl obsessed with sex? is there any given time? thanks... (58 words)

Guys-Would you be texting your ex if you didnt still care about them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help, Im still ridiculously in love with my ex bf even though we broke up a year ago. I feel like im wasting my life hoping we'll get back together but then again we are still in constant contact and he is always asking me to meet up? Do you think he might want to get b... (223 words)

Sex Talk with New Man??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again! I have another question.... any help would be really appreciated! If u have read my last 2 posts, u will know im lookin again after a long relationship. Well, it finally happened - with an old friend. We're havin a great time, every thing is really good... except, ... (150 words)

Am I over-reacting to him groping me while I slept?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for a year and a half now and about a week ago my boyfriend and I were on holiday together; we'd gone away with my family. We shared a room but not a bed; we're both virgins and I want to wait until I turn 18 before I have sex. One night during the... (241 words)

Should I risk being seen as the "Bitch of an Ex" and just tell him no, It's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now but I feel the relationship just isn't working for me anymore; we seem to interact less like a couple and more like friends now, which I'll admit is my doing. I find it difficult to kiss him or have him hold me as I... (312 words)

I feel like the man in the relationship. And I hate it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for two years. At first, my husband couldnt keep his hands off me, but then life changed. Reality if you like. Work, baby, health etc. I work in a high powered, stressful job. Out early. Get home very late. My husband got made redundant 6 months ago,... (433 words)

Phone calls to another girl in secret, deleted inbox. Can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend as he acts really suspiciously. He gets lots of texts from some girl he knows who apparantly 'lives in london'. He tells me that they're nothing but friends, but I find this really hard to believe as I have found pictures of her in her ... (320 words)

How can I convince him that I'd stay for him if he wants me to and that we could work as a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, Im 18 and have been seeing this guy for about 8 months we are not exactly an item but we text each other every day and see each other about 3 times a week, he was my first love when i was 14 and he was 16, but my parents thought he was too old for me so wouldnt al... (273 words)

I simply can't be with my girlfriend, and secretly love her sister. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, This isn't an easy thing, but here it goes. I have been with my girlfriend for a few years now, started in high school. As we've grown and changed, I'm seeing differences that can't be solved between us. Things are slowly, but surely dying between us. Most likely for... (613 words)

My fiance trusts me about the night I went clubbing but my mum threatens she isn't coming to the wedding!

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all i am getting married in five weeks time last week me and partner had a big fight due to the stress of it all and fri night he was not feeling well so i went out on the lash and got talking to a guy we chatted nothing else and went clubbing my mother has found out co... (119 words)

Are girls turned off if guys have hairy asses?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been complemented on having a nice and big ass, but the thing girls don't realize that i have a hairy ass. So here's my question, is it a turn-off, or do girls mind if guys have hairy asses??... (39 words)

I get really turned on, but I can't "get off". Why?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old girl and have noticed that I can't get off by masturbating to someone I'm attracted to. The weird thing is... if I see them or am around them I get REALLY turned on. Why is this? Could it be that I don't think they're attracted to me so I don't feel sexy or ... (59 words)

Is my guy gay or bisexual?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He's five years younger than me, and has only dated two other women other than myself. One relationship was 100% online; the other was a live-in gf and that lasted four years. So, here's the thing. He can be very sensitive. Before ... (240 words)

Doubtful about physical closeness as I am very self-conscious about my stomach area... will he care?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now and we haven't gone beyond making out. I know he wants to feel me up and I want him to, but I'm not skinny and I'm self-conscious about my stomach area. Will he care? I don't want to be embarrassed.... (54 words)

What can I tell my brother so he can see reality and learn from these failed relationships?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my name is ariana. however, this question doesnt pertain to me persay. my brother is 16 and has been in a new relationship every year almost. and he just had another breakup. however, its always the girls who seem to break up with him. mostly its because they arent good for him ... (310 words)

I cheated numerous times since my wife told me the truth about her sexual past, in hope I would feel better. I feel worse and still angry. Help!

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am seriously troubled with my wifes past and am so frusterated at the idea of living the rest of my life in anger. It is really depressing. She was my first girl friend and my only other sexual experience before her was a very humiliating experience with a prostitu... (1382 words)

I'm tired of making time for him while he's often unavailable!

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this for the past 3 yrs my problem is he works from monday to saturday,he doesn't have time for movies or anything with me we only have a sunday for each other.the problem is that i'm a church goer so i just have time for him for 2hrs to be with him, this is ... (165 words)

I still worry and check her phone, and I still find weird messages... what do I do?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girl gave me a ton of reasons not to trust her. I went into her phone (which the password for texting was just changed) and found very dirty messages to other guys. I brought them up and she said they are just jokes but i couldnt handle it. I broke up with her and she begged ... (148 words)

My boyfriend gave me an unusual excuse to justify his delay...

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - have you ever heard the excuse"i stopped to help a disoriontated blind man that was walking out into the street, and gave him a ride. when you ask your supposed exclusive boyfriend what took him so long? and he was only driving 1mile up the street to buy cigarettes at ... (56 words)

He keeps saying he will break up with his girlfriend but he doesn't, is he using me, should I end what we have?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have know this guy for three years and just started having sex.we both like each other and have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend he keeps saying he's going to break up with her but he doesn't.my question is does he really want to be with me and should I end ... (63 words)

Is it a good idea to take a short break before trying to sort out this drama with my friend?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - would it be a good idea to take a break from all my friends and boyfriend for 3 days to clear my head cause of all the stress that is going on with me and my friends.. cause my best friend ashley feels that im with my other friend cynthia and my friend justin and boyfriend too ... (168 words)

I managed to chase off a 'player' at work, but it cost me my dignity. How will people perceive me now?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age - I let myself become victimized by a "player" at work. Recently I brought things to conclusion by chasing him everyday to back him off once and for all. My strategy worked, but at the risk of causing me feel like a fool. Now I have to go back to work and recapture my dignity. ... (91 words)

I'm suddenly turned on by women, how can I deal with this?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 25-year-old woman, currently dating a boyfriend of 3 years. Our relationship has been good and mutally caring in most respects, but recently I noticed that I become sexually aroused by the bodies of other women. I don't know what's changed or why. My boyfriend hasn't ... (89 words)

He was smoking behind my back, should I forgive him?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfreind and he gave up smoking for me when we started dating nearly 8 months ago.I found out on the weekend that he has been smoking behind my back and didnt tell me. I forgive him because he didnt want to tell me cause he knew i would get disapointed in him and ... (97 words)

What are some ways I can really thrill my boyfriend?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I told my boyfriend that next time we get togehter I'll make it amazing for him because I made him wait because of my period. What are some things I can do that he'll love?... (36 words)

Should I wait for her to call? And can I believe anything she says?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - If a girl I've been dating for over a week is having a sexual identity crisis and isn't forthcoming about it, what should I do? She had been postponing/cancelling dates, lying, promising to call but not calling, and stringing me along. The last time we spoke (which was afte... (201 words)

Where can I find articles about questioning your sexuality?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you tell me where i can find articles or blogs about questioning your sexuality later in life? Most of the articles are geared toward teens.... (26 words)

Our relationship feels different after a pregnancy scare.

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months. We recently had a pregnancy scare and now our relationship feels different. Now I don't know if we should break-up or see if we can get back to where we were. Any advice?... (44 words)

I've tried to move on from this girl I like, but I haven't had feelings for anyone else. Am I just bitter?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I had/have a crush on this girl from my school, who was in most of my classes grade 9 year, we talked and stuff, she was nice, attractive, etc. Grade 9 Grad came and I asked her to it and she declined. Over the year it was leaked that i liked her and some of my friends ... (184 words)

My girlfriend is troubled by our ten year age difference. How can I help her get over this?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 40 and the girl I'm dating is 30. She's troubled by the age difference, mainly because of a mortality issue. Other than that she said I'm a great guy, etc, but wanted to break off our early relationship. I convinced her to give us another month or so to see if it can work ... (78 words)

How can I be sure my crossdressing fiancee isn't gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

28 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i am a 39 year old mother of 2 kids... i met a wonderful man about a year ago.. he has been honest from the begening with me about his crossdressing, and i thought i could except it i really try, but recentally i have been having suspesions..... he seems to be very sne... (236 words)

Was he still in love with his ex while he was dating me?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I dated a boy for about six months, but I decided to end things shortly after he graduated college. He was focusing on his career, working seven days a week and I would get to see him only about once a month. We ended things amicably. I wanted him to fo... (316 words)

I'd like to me more than 'good friends', but I don't think he's getting the hint.

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 17 and in need of some love guidance. There's this guy I've known for over a year and we get on great. We talk/see each other on a daily basis, flirt, know tons about each other, make each other laugh (sometimes we tease but we both know it's all playful)and we'v... (113 words)

Is it normal to not enjoy sex after losing your virginity?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if it is normal to not enjoy sex for the first 10 times after breaking the virginity?... (20 words)

How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest that. I feel he's really ... (64 words)

My girl isn't keen on body contact, how can I deal with my sexual frustration?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone... I started going out with this girl around 2 months ago but before that we were really close and known each other for almost a year. Eventually we got together and we're both virgins. I really love her and I try my best to be a good boyfriend. This is my first... (271 words)

My ex and I still like one another, but there are other people in the picture now.

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my ex fella have being good mates since we broke up ! we still love eachother and its so har seeing eachother with different people .. he wants to get back with me and i want to get back with him but him an a girl i no have being getting very close and she likes him i ... (98 words)

I really like calling her, but I don't want to annoy her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

28 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - We are together for almost a year. We seldom meet. I miss her a lot. Whenever I feel I want to talk to her, I will call her. I know I have been calling too much, 2-3 times everyday. She did tell me she get annoyed by that. I have tried not to call because if the missed call ... (114 words)

The girl I like is moving away, how do I make a move?

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28 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I like went in a trip... my school is going to finish on october and she is coming in August, after that both of us are changing school ,my time is running out :(, and i wish to do something she likes when she comes back idk if she likes me or not...I've know this girl ... (110 words)

Are these signs my ex wants to get back together?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Its me again. Ok, here is a question that probably many girls ask....are these signs my ex could still possibly want me back?. Well me and my bf broke up about 5 months ago. We were together for almost 2 years. We loved each other, but I had some jealousy ... (379 words)

How do men know we've decided on an open marriage when neither of us has said anything?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have started having an open marriage about 4 months ago. i haven't done anything with another man yet and my husband is eager for me to get started. i am too, but i am looking for the right man to be my first. i don't think i have changed in anyway since our ... (169 words)

My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to go away for a few days and hes ... (135 words)

I've been bleeding, hungry, tired, and throwing up since having sex. What could be wrong?

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28 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i had sex with my boyfriend about 11 days ago and i have been bleeding ever since. Then today, i threw up twice and my appetite has increased as well. And in addition, i am constantly tired even though ive had plenty of sleep. I told my boyfriend everything and he just said ... (107 words)