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writes:Hey people.am seeking your advice on what i should do.i have a boyfriend but he is not that supportive with me when it comes to me joining any social network in the internet. While him hes there in all the social network.i support him and in all those networks am in i do add him.i was once at facebook but my ex started writing on ma wall and staff and that didnt did piss ma boyfriend alot so i left the network.he said since am out he wil follow suit.so he leave too.after a while he started telling me that he misses it itold to go back but he kept on insistin that we go back together told him no. So the other day i was chating with one of ma classmates in france she told me girl go back cause we are all there and will get to met again so i went bck but tld ma boyfrend later.he got so pissed he stoped using the facebook for two dayz.until itold him i deactivated ma account.but am not happy about this why does he over reacts and yet i do support him. I also asled him now uhat i want to create an account with my space should i invite you he said No .i asked you give that answes so fast..it did hurt me so bad.i dont know why he does not support me?does he love me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): I was married for ten years, and my ex started acting in the same way, and later it got worse, seemed like all our friends were his friends, and mine just sort of dissapeared before I even realized what was going on, and since it was all his friends, of course they were male, some married some not. None of them ever tried hitting on me or anything like that, but you would not know that by all the accusations he started coming up with. Everytime I even talked to someone he accused me of cheating, and the marriage went downhill real fast, and since we lived in a different state than all my family and I had no more friends to turn to, and had lost touch with most, and was too embarrassed to speak with the rest, I felt like I had no one to turn to. It got worse and worse, and I later finally got the courage up to leave, this was not easy as we had a son who at the time was 5, but I later found out, he was the one ceating all along, so watch out and dont let anyone take control over you, if they cant trust you, why should you trust them? I learned this one the hard way, as I was a very trusting person, and never would have thought he was cheating, didnt even think he had the time, but apparently he did.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 If he is so controlling about your social networking sites, it makes me wonder - is he this possessive over you all the time? He should be able to trust you, especially if you have been a trustworthy girlfriend. As someone who lives far away from her friends and family, Facebook is a great way for me to connect with their day-to-day lives and makes it a lot easier to keep up with them.
You should ask him if he trusts you and why he doesn't trust Facebook. Tell him you simply want to be able to connect and communicate easily with your friends, that's IT. If he truly trusts you, he should be able to relax. If he still doesn't relax, well... you have bigger problems in your relationship than you think. It's never JUST about Facebook, you know what I'm saying?
Good luck, sweetness!
xx India
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