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writes:My mom was telling me about when she was youngshe got married to this man and that man ...is my dad...he would always put her down...and he got her young and still a virgin...he never would tell my mom "honey I love you" or at least a thank you...he took her for granted...they had four children...my dad doesnt care that my uncle , his brother raped my mom..he never cared how bad and cheap my mom felt... and my mom told him he ignored the fact...:'[they were married 27 yrs. my dad cheated on my mom within those yrs. all 4 of his daughters know but he thinks we dont...even on my first b-day my dad left and went to go sleep with that woman "Joanne" was her name he came back with a gift from her it was for me of course my mom not knowing she took it and i wore it.my mom caught him alot of times...he would get mad and when he got home he would hit her she lost her first bby cause of him,and her second bby they were both gonna be boys my dad wanted boys badly ...but instead he got 4 beautiful girls..well anyways my mom neede surgery because she had cancer she doesnt have it anymore thank god..but she got out of the hospital..noone could take of her my sisters were at school my dad was at "work"and i was the only one with my mom and i was little so we went with my aunt in dallas and she liked it over here noone told her anything noone put her down so she wanted to stay here...so she left my dad..my came to dallas...and told her to come back and she told him let me think about it he lets go now he didnt even give her time..she said "no" he got mad and threw alot of things to her face the fact that she babies anymore the fact that my sister hates her cause she left alot of things...should she go back to him after he said sorry he threw those words to her face..??Should my sister be mad at my mom she only konws my dads side she doesnt know all the mean things that my mom went through...???MOD NOTE: I HAVE INCLUDED A SECOND QUESTION FROM THE SAME USER...i lived with my mom for a year..i didnt like it well she didnt have a job...and she spent more time with my step dad...so went to live with my dad i lived with him for 4 yrs.i hate it hes never home he doesnt buy me clothes and when he does he thinks that that will satisfiy me i wanna spend time with him...but he doesnt care hes to much into his gonna be wives my has a job now...i wnet to go visit her and imliked it she spend time with me she made me feel important she would spend time with me and my step dad i loved it noone nagged me when i went back with my dad he would always think i was plotting against him...but now im old enough to make a decision on who to live with iwanna go with my mom but im confused...???who should I live with....????HELP:'[
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 July 2008):
Your mum has escaped a horrible and abusive relationship. There is NO WAY she should go back to him! What possible reason would she have to go back there?
As for who you should live with, I think it's pretty obvious that your mum treats you better so go and live with her.
You can always visit your dad a lot and spend time with him.
Good Luck!! xx
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