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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any suggestions, or should I somehow let the girl know to stop flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Here's my dilemma. A little more than a month ago, a girl (lets say Tammy) and her friend came up to my desk giggling, and she put her chest out and asked how she looked. I have also noticed that Tammy smiles and waves to me often, like everytime she sees me. Once, ... (324 words)

A messy story... Should I stay friends with her or cut her off cold-turkey?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - OK heres my question...i dated this girl along time ago named gin..gin's best friend Anna, who was also my best friend hooked us up. Somewhere along the way, Ann fell deeply in love with me and didnt want me to date her friend anymore but me being so involved with gin, made it ... (359 words)

Torn between two boys--which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello ok sorry for the lenght but here goes... Im torn between 2 boys. The first one (A) i have liked for almost a year but im really confused as he is one year older than me, quite flirty around most people and obviosly to me aswell..... The secong guy (R) is my longe... (217 words)

Why is he playing me hot and cold?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. My situation is something that has been breweing for a few months now (since about April). My problem in a nutshell is: I have a co-worker I am very attracted to, and I'm fairly certain he is attracted to me to some degree, however I don't know WHAT that degr... (341 words)

I don't our relationship to be just about sex, so what do I do when my gf says she's horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together about 2 weeks but she seems very horny now and again (she has tried to have text sex with me and has rubbed my penis when we have kissed and said she is wet) I don't want our realationship to be just about sex BUT I do want to make her... (115 words)

She's my first proper girlfriend so should I buy her a sex toy? I'm also a virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend were cuddling the other day and I asked jokingly "you don't have any weird sex toys I should know about do you" and she replied "I do have one blue dildo that my ex bought me... maybe you can buy me a better one!" We have only been together a coupl... (122 words)

He shows all these signs he likes me but stops short of kissing me! What is his deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Situation is that lately a man aged 18 (same age as me-call him Jack) moved into a house on my road. Are these signs of flirting or him having feelings for me: When he moved in came to my house got to know my mum etc.. then when I got home he started talking to me li... (834 words)

Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???... (33 words)

Do guys want a girl who already knows what she's doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok maybe someone can help me out... I haven't had sex with very many people at all and have yet 2 have sex with my current bf...I told him that I wasn't very experienced and I don't want 2 disappoint him..he said that it was fine and he was willing to teach me...now im afra... (94 words)

Is it me or the porn that keeps him going longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We just graduated high school and I have lived with him for almost a year now. I spend every other weekend at my aunt's house and when I come home I find that he has spent most of the time searching over abundantly sized ... (263 words)

What shows they care about you, without the words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I was wondering is there a way you can tell if a person really cares about u without them actually saying so?? Are there any signs?... (28 words)

He likes "happy endings" but how can I get mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boy friend would rather me give him, massages and happy endings! he works hard at hes job he works for a steel company and loads steel 10 hours a day so i rub him down and that doesnt bother me at all i like doing that for him but he wants a blow job after not alway... (156 words)

Are we both playing hard to get or am I being dilusional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been dating a guy for a few months and at first things were absolutely perfect. After a few months of dating we had our first arguement. After that he became distant towards me and I distanced myself even more. After a couple of weeks of hardly speaking to one another, ... (275 words)

Why do I bleed during "doggie style"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time me and my boyfriend have "doggie" style ... I bleed quite a bit. No other position does that to me. I love doggie style and I just dont understand why is this happenening . thanks ... (38 words)

I can't sleep. I can't keep calm. I can't afford to get it wrong. I can't afford to fail. What? Oh. My driving test, of course!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This isnt about relationships but please help! I have my driving test on friday and im so scared becasue i cant afford to fail it, mainly because the test centre is closing down, so i wont be able to do another test there, i cant afford any more lessons, and i have bought a... (131 words)

I've started thinking about my ex who cheated - but I've never really got over him. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok about three years ago my boyfriend of about 3mos cheated on me with a girl who was younger than me (i was in college she was in high school!!! a junior!!)and not to be concieted but she was not pretty and chubby ( now i normally wouldn't call someone chubby but it'd be ... (271 words)

My boyfriend and I had difficulty, having sex, as he is very large, and it is painful for me, now we are growing distance, because we cannot acheive, satisfaction in the bedroom, what can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We had sex once 8 months into the relationship which was painful for me and resulted in cystitis. We tried to have sex twice since then but each time has been so painful we have had to stop attempting it. I have never had ... (480 words)

I am attracted to my sister and want to have a sexual relationship, how do I seduce my sister?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my sister are really close and only a year apart. but i am atracted to her more than most girls. does anyone have any idea as to how i can seduce my sister to have a sexual relationship?... (40 words)

I want to have sex, my boyfriend only wants, to have blow jobs, how do I tell him, that I want more sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now and a couple of weeks ago we had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever but not his. But now it seems like all he wants to do is get blowjobs! how do i tell him without being too in his face that i want to ... (66 words)

My boyfriend's strange off and on behavior is distrubing to me, what can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in lovew with this guy, i'm pretty sure he doenst like me and i don't know if i can cope any more, last week we went camping and the whole week we were pretty much together constaantly and we had a great time, lots of laughter and flirting and we talked on the way back hom... (154 words)

My boyfriend has a slight attitude problem, when with his friends, is he doing it to impress his buddies, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well im seeing this guy and hes pretty nice and kind but sometimes we have small arguments over nothing and recently hes been having a go at me about who my friends are i have 1 pretty close boy mate who i hang round with alot. I talked to my bf about him and i say do u m... (154 words)

Confused as to when, I got pregnant, and who the father of the child would be based on the specific times, I was with the two men, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was 18 weeks on july 10 would i have gotten pregnant before march 23?i was only with a guy on february 18 and another guy on march 23 and confused when i would of got pregnant.... (37 words)

A big thank you, to all the aunts and uncles, for your great work, helping people.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (?) age - Not a question! Just a THANK YOU! Wish you could be here! Hey all you dear "Uncles" and "Aunts"; I am very busy preparing for lots of friends and family for Dinner tomorrow night; yeah, like it or not old age creeping closer (LOL); however I wish you were all close... (161 words)

Is this lad flirting with me? I don't want to lose his friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am really confused cos i really dont know if this lad is flirtin with me or if he is just being friendly. -he doesnt mind physical contact like if i touch him or somethin -he sometimes puts his arm round me. -he wants to sit with me in lessons. -he talks to m... (161 words)

Is she playing the jealousy game? Should I call her bluff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Met a woman back in Feb. and we dated until the end of June. We live in different states and the distance got to be too much. We decided to not date and then I got a job which I will be moving to her area. The job is a promotion and by no means was it a job to move closer to ... (549 words)

I have a pain in my left testicle, but no lumps. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im 16 and i have a problem that has been worrying me greatly over the past few weeks i feel a pain in my left testicle, it is very mild, i have felt for any lumps but found nothing I dont have the courage to tell my parents and i am scared of the doctors. I know i ... (90 words)

Does my ex love me and want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me two months ago after being together for 5 years. He asked me to remain friends and I have but its been really hard. He comes round mine and we watch films or go to the park about everything but 'US'. I used to suffer from really bad pms and during these ... (346 words)

My boyfriend doesn't eat and I'm worried.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. im a bit worried about my boyfriends eating habbits. He doesnt eat. Well not that im aware of. He had some toast in the morning. He may have a mcdonalds in the afternoon and nothing for dinner. Hes very skinny. Im used to having 3 good meals a day. cereal, toast ... (269 words)

My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some 90 miles away from meuk,thing ... (220 words)

Is it normal for a 42 yr old man to fancy a 19 yr old girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age - is it normal for a 42 yr old man to fancy a 19 yr old girl. The man i'm shaggin and love tho he wont have a relationship with me, has told me that he's met a 19yr old girl who gave him her number and asked him to call her so they could meet for coffee, he is going to - does ... (75 words)

He says he only wants me for sex. Should I keep on, in the hope he falls in love with me eventually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age - My best friend has been married for 17 yrs an i have been in love with him for 18. Finally his wife chucked him and we started sleepin together he says i'm his best friend an he says its the best sex he's ever had but he says he only wants sex an no relationship, then i t... (111 words)

Is he giving up on us? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE weird with him and me. We never spo... (283 words)

We had sex a day ago, he hasn't contacted me since. Is it ok for me to call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I've been dating for almost two months and I finally had sex. He was kind of sparing in his contact with me before, which came every two or three days, and I haven't heard from him since (a day). Is it okay for me to get in touch with him or should I wait for him t... (69 words)

My husband is having an emotional affair, and he cuts himself when we fight. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married nearly 7 years now, and I think my husband has been having an “emotional affair” with someone at his work. Actually, I know that’s what’s been going on, I just have a hard time believing it. He swears it’s nothing, and that they are just friends, but he ... (821 words)

My boyfriend split up with me and sends me confusing texts. I feel awful, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi can anyone give me any advice or help , my boyf split up with me 2 weeks ago we had been togehter yr and half , he moved in i lent him alot of money.. after 1 moths we started rowing so he left 2 weeks ago. since he has text saying loves me , so i invited him over last wk he ... (136 words)

We're 15 and the condom broke! How long until do I wait to use the morning after pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Ive Been With My boyfriend for 1 year 8 months and we both love eachover so much he isnt a silly immature boy hes the same age as me (15) and weve had sex quite a few times and weve always used protection well yesterday this time we used protection we had sex and he cummed ... (202 words)

I'm attracted to famous women... am I bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and believe i may be bi sexual i find some girls atractive but none of my friends or girls my age it is mostly famous women im not sure if it is because i admire them n i am confusin it or if i fancy them how can i recognise how it is? what am i f... (97 words)

Is it rude to now ignore my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

- Hello My ex ended our relationship 4 months ago and we kept in contact via phone and email. I asked for reconciliation a few weeks later but she said no! Then she met a new guy and the contact dwindled. To be honest the contact only hurts me. The other day she emailed for ... (132 words)

He cheated on me before, now he is acting strange... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been w/my bfriend for 2 years,and have found last year he had been cheating on me for 4 months while wking out of town. Since then things have not been the same, but i have forgave him. But lately he has given me the impression he is talking to someone else again, and we ... (105 words)

His family wants nothing to do wiith me until I'm his wife. I'm very insulted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here's the thing, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 1 and 1/2 years now and I've only met his family one time. He goes back to his hometown where he grew up and visits them, but doesn't invite me and when I told him that I would like to go with, he ... (289 words)

When gets back from strip clubs, I don't want him to touch me. I can't get over it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles I need quite a help. I know this question has been asked probably million times, but I just can't help myself ... I have to ask again! I love my BF - together nearly 2years... and I know he truly loves me. He is with me 24/7. He does everything for me,... (709 words)

My girlfriend talks to her ex on a daily basis! Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age - I have never been the jealous type but iI am getting concerned with my girlfreind who, talks with her ex husband on a daily basis, she says that they want eo remain friends, but to remain friends do they really have to talk with each other everyday? She says my ex is crazy, I ... (167 words)

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's ex wife! Is he taking me for granted through all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ive a really off the wall problem, ive been in a relationship for quite a while but have ran into alot of problems. frist my boy friend just got a divorce from hes wife. i didnt know he was married when i frist met him, he said he was living with hes friend ron ... (1702 words)

Why has my platonic friend been more distant lately?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really good friends with this guy. I love him to death (purely platonic) and he always knows just what to say to make me feel better. Well lately though, I've noticed that he's been more distant. I'll instant message him, and it will take him twenty minutes to respond ... (241 words)

What characteristics in a woman get men to fall in love with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What qualities/characteristics in women cause men to fall in love with them? Not want to date them, but truly, genuinely respect and adore them. Obviously, I realize that every person is different, men are not attached to some kind of CPU, no one can be convinced to fal... (110 words)

She keeps kissing him but said she still loves me. Do we stand a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend split up about 2 months ago. I heard through a friend that she kissed her male 'friend'. When we were together this guy obviously fancied her, he took a photo of himself on her phone and put it as her wallpaper. When i mentioned it to my girlfriend sh... (176 words)

Will I be cheapening myself if I suggest a weekend away with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age - I had a birthday card from someone I met on holiday. We didnt have any sex on holiday because I was unwell etc etc and also I wanted to hold back. We have e mailed a few times jsut as friends. Do you think it would be ok if I e maield him and pur a propostiition to... (175 words)

I told her I loved her but she didn't feel the same. Should I try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i fell in love with my friend for 2years although when she found out she didn't feel the same. Its 5months on and i still cant get over her. She thinks i'm over her. I feel if i explain to her from the bottom of my heart how much i like her she may realise for sure that there ... (104 words)

I don't know if I can commit to a boyfrend so young... do I break up and play the field?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really confused as to what I should do. I have a boyfriend and we've been goin out for a couple of weeks but its becoming more and more difficult to stay faithful because there are many boys after me right now. By the way i'm 13 years old. I went to the movies last nigh... (468 words)

I wanted him to like me and did all this sexual stuff and now I regret it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well I have this friend and I reallllllly liked him and he was 'talking' to me but he was also talking to like 2 other girls which made me upset and jealous. that's why the next time I saw him I gave him head and made out with him felt him up he felt me up and its been making ... (402 words)

Is my girlfriend saying she can't cope with being second to my daughter? Are we done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age - My girlfriend that I have been dating for a couple months said some strange things last night. In short, my daughter is visiting and we stayed at my girlfriends place for 5 days. We live in different cities, but close enough to commute for long weekends or just a day and a ... (113 words)

He didn't want "a relationship", but now he says he does. I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently ive been seeing a guy and at the moment we have become soo close and really care about each other we became slightly physical and shared many moments, kisses and stories... i then decided to ask him out offically and he said he wasnt ready for anything just yet. he ... (430 words)

She keeps helping her ex. Things can't go on like this forever.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - uhm... hey to all! need some advice again.. im with this girl. we are now together say for 2 months now. i took her virginaty.. we are really close. because when had sex it was the first for both of us!anyway her ex... he keeps on texting her and needing her help and stuff. she ... (140 words)

I care about my ex, but I like his friend more. I want them both to be happy, but I don't know how.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so around march I met these two guys who I both thought were pretty cool. Also these two were pretty good friends. One of them I ended going out with for two or three months and he was my real first relationship. He was my first everything. But then he dumped me telling ... (248 words)

I'm pregnant, and waiting for a work permit for Dubai. Is this a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am visit visa in dubai,and my papers now is under process for working permit and to finally know i am pregnant but i am single and had boyfren here,can i still work here in dubai?... (36 words)

When I shave down below I get a rash. How can I stop it happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When i shave Below i get a sort of shaving rash, but their squeezy! Is this normal what can i do 2 stop it!? x... (31 words)

Why did he remove me as a friend on facebook? Can anyone figure out what he's thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex R and I were together for almost a year, before he moved away to another country and wasn't committed. We are both around 30. We tried, but I pushed him away when I kept asking for commitment (yes i know 1 year is not long enough for commitment, but he was moving away to ... (203 words)

If a man keeps talking to your mom does that signal that he is interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man keeps talking to your mom dose that signal that he is interested? Hi my mom and I go to this resturant all the time and I can't tell if this guy is interested in me. He seemed to have be a little flirty but now every time we go in he talks to my mom and not so much ... (176 words)

Does this boy like me or does he see me as a sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok...i have know this boy for many years. i want to know if you think he likes me back. ok he tickles and pokes me he has nicknames for me and always call me it like witch coz my laugh is a bit weird he teases me all the time when i tell him secrets he keeps it to hi... (136 words)

Should I try and win her back, or respect her new boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - 2 years ago I fell in love with the most amazing girl in the world. She moved to the other side of the country and has much as we wanted it to work, it couldn't. I started dating again but never felt the same way about anyone else. 6 Months ago we started talking again and ... (119 words)

Does the withdrawal method work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, does pulling out work when preventing pregnancy. We started with using condoms, but we usually finish a packet in a day and nowadays we don't bother using it, cause it kinda ruin the moment and we like to be spontenous and stuff. I was thinking of taking the pills, b... (94 words)

He's been talking to another woman. What do we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age - I am 56 air hostess divorced living with my man 46 for two years we have not made love he says he loves me and that i am his best friend then i found his mobile phone bill a number on it was used alot late at night and when i was away i knew the number and the ... (171 words)

Only dating for a week and he's moving WAY too fast... should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

- Ive been dating this guy for 1 week only and I feel like things are moving WAY to fast. He texts and calls me non stop and always wants to see me. He keeps saying he likes me sooo much and is complimenting me saying I'm beautiful, goregous and so amazing almost every 10 ... (259 words)

What can we do about my grandma?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so scared right now. My grandmother is very ill at the moment! She has severe memory loss, rarely knows what she's doing and basically has lost her mind. All the family are so concerned about her, she lives with my grandad who tries his best to look after her (sorting out ... (296 words)

Are We Bullys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a girl in my school year lets call her Asher, she doesnt have many friends because of the things she has done in the past, she stole £40 out of my friends pencil case, £40 out of my friends purse while she went to the toilet, £20 out of my friends birthday card, £20 ... (316 words)

How long will it take for her to enjoy sex after losing her V card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok me and my girlfriend recently had sex.. And she said it really hurt.. How long will it take for her to enjoy sex?... (24 words)

My husband doesn't know if he loves me anymore after 7 years - I feel it's a matter of time before he leaves.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - we have been together for 16 years and married for 7 years ( no funnys about the 7 year itch please ) my husband told me a few days ago that he cares for me but is unsure if he loves me anymore , he doesnt want to move out at the moment because hes confused and is unsure of ... (252 words)

I'm not sure I want to meet my online date, as he is not my type and comes accross as really obsessive - so should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i really need some advice. There's this guy i've been talkin to on msn who lives local. Apparently he really likes me, and i think i like him too but he comes across as really obsessive... he often rings me, emails me etc. And it does become rather irratating! He w... (158 words)

How can I hint to my friend that I feel... depressed?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been kinda depressed lately about the way my body looks. i think my friend kinda knows but not really. how can i let her know im depressed without her realy knowing? if you know what i mean lol...... (40 words)

We used a condom every time but could I still be pregnant?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Title explains pretty much everything. I've been having sex with my partner every day for the last two weeks - ALWAYS with a condom and ALWAYS pulling out so he didn't come inside me to be extra safe. I'm worried because the condoms always roll up a fair bit and even though we ... (144 words)

How do I show a guy that his actions are insensitive and upsetting without appearing nagging and annoying?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there. i was just wondering how do i show a guy that his actions are insensitive and upsetting without appearing nagging and annoying, i've tried the silent treatment or purposely pulling away from him, but it didn't work, cause it ended up with me giving in and cuddling up ... (66 words)

My period is late, does this mean I am pregnant?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm two weeks late for my periods. does this mean that i'm pregnant. i've been having something similar to what i normaly see just after my periods... (27 words)

He's giving me all the right signals he likes me, but I can't figure out if he actually does?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little confused as to whether this guy likes me as a friend or more than a friend! I've known him for quite some time, he was my first boyfriend's best friend (when I was 14). We haven't seen each other for a very long time, we didn't stay in touch, although over th... (484 words)

Can trust be rebuilt? I want to forgive and forget...

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you rebuild trust? Infact can trust be rebuilt? My boyfriend broke up with me about a year ago, he told me he had feelings for his ex. Two months later he came back and told me he was sorry but he had made a mistake. It took me a long time to accept him back but he went ... (182 words)

What's the most special thing I could do for someone from a distance?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, just a quick question. how can you make someone feel special at a distance. without having to be with them what is the most special thing you can think of that says i love you in a million ways and i cant wait to be with you? thanks ANON x... (58 words)

I've never had a boyfriend of my own age. What do boys of my age look for in a girl?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Thanks to those who answered my other question but I've got another one... so I've never had a boyfriend who was my age. Okay so I've only had a boyfriend that was 18.. and I'm 15. I always attract people who are 18-26 but never people around my age... I mean I ... (197 words)

He cheated on me, and he pays for online sex shows. How can I trust my husband ever again?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have trust issues with my husband, we've been together since 2003. Since we've been together i know his cheated on me at least once maybe twice. Also about a year ago i found out that he'd been going online and paying to chat to women while they masterbated on web cams and ... (196 words)

Discomfort during anal sex, are these sensations normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal when having anal sex that you feel like your pooping? I tried it 1 time but it hurt and felt like that but i really wasnt pooping and i just wanted to know if that feeling was normal and if it will go away ever?... (48 words)

Have I got trust issues? I don't want him back, and don't want to be friends, I just want back my money. Is it me with the problem here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get someone to see that you're not trying to twist things and make it look like 'its them' with the problem? Brief history, split with someone after nearly 2 yrs who lied in the early days. We had split after a yr, i found out he lied, yet after a few months still ... (568 words)

I had two periods in a month, but could I be pregnant?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i got 2 periods in a monh of may.2nd one after losing my verginity.i ws worried that i may not be pregnant so i went for pregnancy testwhich appeared negative and i had periods in june but now i am waiting for july's periods they are still awaited .can there be a problem of ... (55 words)

We moved to Australia from the USA. I miss my friends and I want to go home.

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21 July 2008 (F)

age - I am a 14 year old girl who comes from USA but lives in Australia. We moved here when I was nine, and I instantly missed my friends and my old life. Every day here seems so dull and boring, and Even though I plan to move back once I get out of school, i feel i ahve nothing to ... (170 words)

I want to be a teen dad, but how do I tll my parents?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I tell my parents that me and my partner are trying for baby and will get a flat when the baby is born? My dad is quite old fasioned, he will probably go mad what should I do, Im excited if my partner gets pregnant because I love her lots and want to settle down with ... (59 words)

If he said "I don't love you and I just want to be friends", is there any hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, is there still any hope in pursuing a relationship when a guy says he dun love u and jz want to be friends? we act like a couple and does everything a couple does including sex. i do feel smtg towards him and it hurts to noe that he feels ntg after bein togehter for so l... (64 words)

I have a bad feeling about my long distance love. How can I make it go away?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i have a question i wondered if some girls or even guys could give me a little advice as ive never been through this before and would really like some advice... ive been with my bf for a while he is amazing i really do love him and i feel this relationship is ... (278 words)

Should I trust him after finding mesages on his phone?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I might be going mad - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, he went out on Friday night with his best friend which I was fine about but that's not the problem. he told me that he mate had his phone and that's why he never rang me unitl 8.30pm the following night but ... (147 words)

Should I meet this girl for sex? She thinks I'm 16 but I'm not!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im 14 and im dating or was dating a 16 yr old girl. we been talking over the internet. when we finally meet i took her to the movies. i like her she like me. we start kissing. it was dark because we where in a theater. she took of her bra and i sarted sucking her tits. i ... (189 words)

Can a guy fake an orgasm? How does it work for men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! How many times does a guy has to cum during sex? let say if we're doing it for an hour! Can they force it to cum just to plz u, to show dat they r happy or is it natural (a must kind of thing?)Thanks... (47 words)

I orgasm too easily! What can I do to stop it?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it that after just one, short orgasm I'm not horny at all and I'm super tired. and it doesn't take long at all to make me orgasm, its just not fun. the longest I can last is like 10 minutes with a 5-10 second orgasm. is this normal? and how can I make the feeling... (88 words)

How can I stop my hormones getting in the way of finding a great girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a teenage guy, sixteen years old now, and I want to find the right girl for me in the future. I find that hormones really get in the way of finding who I truly like for personality and who I like just because of sex. Can I find true love, or is love just an attraction ... (65 words)

I love my husband and would never want to hurt him, but I really fancy his brother. How do I stop thinking about him?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 23 year old woman, i'm married with a 2 year old daughter. i love my partner to bits and would never do anything to hurt him but i really fancy his brother, and i cant get him out of my head. I know this is wrong but i cant stop thinking about him, how i can get him ... (65 words)

3 months pregnant and discovered that partner is looking for sex online

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for just under two years. We live together, I love him and I am carrying his baby of 3 months. We just got back from a week getaway to reconcille our differences and took the laptop with us. On returning, one evening I decided to look... (207 words)

I have to find out if he slept with her, it's driving me mad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I cannot get over him cheating on me. It was 1st January 2007 and he went out on New Years Eve after we had a fight. He switched his phone off and forgot bout me, sick in bed. So next day I asked if he'd cheated coz the relationship was rocky at the time, he first denied it but ... (336 words)

My boyfriend wants to finger me, but I'm uncomfortable with my body.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well I've been dating this guy and we've been talking about the sexual things we wanna do, avoiding the actual sex. he wants to finger me but I'm overweight and uncomfortable with my body. and my guy is "normal," like skinny and attractive. he also wants to ... (163 words)

I'm bi-curious, but the guy I like is in a relationship.

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21 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently started hanging out with a guy who is bi-sexual and open about it. I have always wondered myself whether or not i was gay/bi/whatever because i enjoy gay porn, however, i've never even gone as far as to hint to anyone the way i sometimes feel. I've had several ... (145 words)

Suspicious texts from another girl - is she teasing me or is there something to it?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and a half. On june I went on a cruise for a week without him. After a few days of me being back home, i was with my boyfriend and he gets a text from some girl that he knows from school. It said "oh thanks for coming ... (255 words)

I hurt one of my friends badly, what do I do?

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21 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My friend Hannah (not her real name) lost her Dad (he was 42) in a car accident and she been annoying me ever since it happen. One day Hannah wining about her Dad and I lost it (didnt mean to) and told her shes being obsessed with him and needs to forget him (again I didnt mean ... (124 words)

Is it my fault that he hit me, or do I just keep getting with jerks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My past boyfriends have been abusive towards me and before I got with the guy I'm with now I told him that I was afraid to get hurt again and he promised me that he wouldn't ever hurt me. Well we've been together for 8 months now and he's hit me at least 4 times already. He ... (111 words)

I feel unappreciated. Am I only staying with this guy because I feel obliged to?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in less than a year ( I think so anyways)and my fiancee and I have been together for almost 6 years now and have a 4 year old. I am completely stressed with everything that I have to do. I do not feel appreciated at all and some times I feel mad and just ... (375 words)

We have trouble communicating, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In met this guy who I fell in love with or at least I think I did. There was a communication barrier there but I think it's because we were both so shy and nervous of each other because we liked each other so much.He is a devoted dad to his child and lives alone, I am a single ... (158 words)

My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome - where do we find another girl?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I want to have a threeway with my boyfriend and another girl. He has agreed, and we have discussed it quite a bit over the past few days. My only concern really is that he will like a girl that I'm not into. So my question is how do I go about it? My boyfrien... (116 words)

I'm 15 and he's 20, is it ok for us to be together or should I wait?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So here's the deal. I met this guy.. lets call him Justin (not real name).. on Friday... well no I've been talking to him for SO much longer... I've been talking to him since i was 13 and he was 18 but now I'm 15 and he's 20. I actually met him online... I know crazy ri... (391 words)

Should I not contact him for a while? I'm afraid he'll forget me.

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya. well me and my boyfriend were going out for almost 3 years. he recently told me he wanted to go on a break. he wanted space. i tried to give him space but it was so hard. we finally hung out to see if we can fix anything, but it only became worse. he broke up with me..i ... (136 words)

He could't keep his hands off me before, why has he lost interest in sex now?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! My boyfriend and I have been toogether for the better part of two years. I am a 21 year ols culinary studen and he is a 25 year old probationary fire fighter. We have somewhat of a long distance relationship, but we see eachother most weekends. My question is in ... (216 words)

He used a condom and didn't come, could I still be pregnant? My period is late!

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity two weeks ago, and i'm supposed to get my period today. i haven't gotten it yet. im usuallly very on schudle and it usuallly arrives by noon on the day im supposed to get it.. but it hasn't. im very worried. we used a condom, and he didn't come. but when my ... (83 words)

Was he serious when he asked me to marry him? Is this moving too fast?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey im 13 and my boyfriend is 14, he says he wants to marry me....a few weeks ago he sent me text 'marry me' i didnt know how to respond i did tell him how i felt thoug. What if asks me and means it so that i can understand if he is being serious, is he rushing or am i? Known ... (109 words)

My wife to be had an abortion, what do I do?

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21 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am new here. I was googling about my problem and came here to this site and thought to post my dilemma. Ok, I know this girl for one and half months and we have had talks for hours and found that we both like each other and planned a life ahead and are dec... (246 words)

Do I ask her or just go for it?

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21 July 2008 (M)

age - If I want to kiss my girlfriend for the first time do I ask her if its okay or do I just go for it? (Mod Note: Age shown may be wrong)... (33 words)

I had planned to leave my gay boyfriend, and then I lost my job. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay - I am seriously desperate and need help and any advice I can get! The following events have all taken place in the past 6-8 weeks: 1) My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me for the 2nd (!)time. 2) He cheated with a man. (1st time was a woman). 3) I prep... (283 words)

Do guys really need to sleep around before settling down? It hurts me to see him with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for the past six months and we got really close and he was the best guy I have ever dated. I have a bad past with men and it takes time to trust them, but with him it was different almost right away I felt comfortable with him and close to him and he ... (511 words)

Is it a bad idea to get a tattoo of his name? He wants to get one of mine.

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i been 2gether for 3 years and we been living 2gether for 1 of those 3 years. Anyways, we want 2 get married but dont have alot of money and have been saving for the perfect wedding but my boyfriend wants to get my name tattoed on him. He told me i dont have 2 ... (112 words)

Is he just dating me so he can say he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ... i have been goin out with my boyfriend for almost 2months now and im still not sure if he actually likes me or if he is just goin out with me so he can tell people he's got a girlfriend, whenever im with him he's so sweet and makes me feel special but as soon as his ... (113 words)

My boyfriend is great, but what do I do about his HUGE porn collection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in need of some advice. I feel as if I'm running around aimlessly, within my own head, in search of an answer... My boyfriend of 10 years has (what I believe to be) a serious porn problem. Currently, his collection consists of a couple hundred dvds which multipli... (187 words)

How can I keep up with my lover?

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21 July 2008 (M)

age - I have met a woman that I totally love and making love is fantastic. She has multiple orgasms which thrills me but it takes me about 40 minutes to orgasm - if I do get there. We are making love 2-3 times a day and I am ten years older than her (45) and I'm finding it ... (70 words)

I am the youngest girl he's ever dated, how can I help make him more comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi just wanting opinions on an 18 year old dating a 23 year old... I don't have a problem with it but my guy (23) seems uncomfortable at times. He has dated girls much older than himself in the past but I am the youngest he has ever dated. How can I get him to feel more com... (63 words)

How do I get over this pig? And how can I stop him hurting other girls?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I stop caring about this guy? He's a total pig but i fell for him because he was intitally charming and smart and likeable. We hit it off after he broke up with his girlfriend and i just found out months later that he was texting another girl the whole time i was seei... (147 words)

How do I move on the way that he has?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know how to move on from my ex boyfriend, we met in school and went out for almost three years and we were eachothers first love, In going off to university on opposite sides of the country we survived the first year then split, since starting university i was always ... (497 words)

He broke up with me and I want him back. Help?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been together for one year and ten months. He's turning seventeen in two weeks and I am twenty. Everything seemed to be going great.....untill the day he broke up with me. The story is......we met in High School through some friends. He was fourteen, I ... (371 words)

How do I get over this fixation on my idiot ex?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Any advice on getting over a pointless crush before it sabotages future relationships? I still have the hots for a guy (henceforth known as Fail) I was very briefly involved with just over six months ago. Next weekend I have a date with a new guy (McDreamy perhaps? Even th... (360 words)

Is it possible to leave everything behind and start a new life?

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a very honest question to ask you and would like some honest opinions! i am a 21 year old girl, quite pretty with a pleasant,gentle and unique personality! at this point in my life i should be brimming with excitement, boys and nights out with friends! that is m... (442 words)

I'm having a hard time trying to figure out if he really cares.

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21 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been datin this guy 4 a few months now..and I really feel that I love him and I have expressed my feelins 2 him and he said 2 me.."don't say it if u don't really mean it" . So that had me thinkin maybe he feel the same way,of course that's not why I told him just so ... (122 words)