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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I get aroused very easily, is this wrong and can it be controlled?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i think i have a slight problem. the problem i get is that i get aroused really quickly, which i feel is not a good thing. last night i was out with some friends and things got a little touchy feelly. all he did was slowly stroked my arms and put his hands through my hair, inst... (75 words)

How do you go about getting councelling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you go about getting counselling? And do you have to pay?... (14 words)

Is there any chance of getting him back???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend for 8 years when he left me (when our relationship was at its best) for another woman. He claims he doesnt love me anymore but then tells me he feels like he hasn't lost me yet. Over the last 4 months I have done stupid things to try and get him back... (108 words)

I'm just like a magnet for negative things, all I seem to do lately is cry.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i cant cope with life no more! is there anything i can do for my boyfriend apart from be there for him, i know its selfish me thinkin about my feelings when hes going through such a rough time but im really messed up! my boyfriend has recently found out he has cancer, hes known ... (184 words)

How should I handle his staring to other women? I don't want to be a nuisance!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HI ive been dating a 26 yr old man for 2 months, Hes a sweetheart, however ive caught him twice staring at 2 women when we are out dining. It bother's me because my ex had a bad habit of this, i was with him for 14 years. How should i handle this? I dont want to be a ... (64 words)

We still enjoy each other's company after 4 years but I am very bored, how can I save my relationship from routine??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do u get the spark back in ur relationship? i realise that you cant constantly feel those butterflies, but its been almost 4 years now and i feel very bored with my relationship. i love my bf very much and i know he feels the same. the only thing is everything is so ... (85 words)

What should I do, I'm really stuck? I liked him since we were very young (and told him), now he's going out with my mate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - please read i seriously need help ok so theres this boy i've know since i was really young (as in our parents went to baby classes together)he is 1 month older than me and i have always fancied him even since i was little when i was 4 he tried to kiss me when i was around 8 at ... (312 words)

Our problem is my family that are not supportive of our relationship and particularly with religion and his ilk.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people. I have a problem please help. Am 21yrs old i have been dating this guy for almost 2yrs and hes 20yrs old. My problem now is we are from diffrent tribes and religion.thats one. Again my mum doesnt want me to be with guy at all. She once even asked to choose betw... (145 words)

My teacher was always there to help me through difficult times, now that he is leaving I do not know what to say to him! I'm losing as best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well, a great friend who is also my teacher is leaving my school tomorrow to move far away and I don't expect to see him again. He has helped me through so much. He talked and encouraged me when I needed it most and when no one was there for me. After 7 years of k... (286 words)

I'm on the edge because I never sleep with guys this quick as I have in this case, he's visiting France now and I fear he will cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I'm seeing at the moment is gone away with his best friends (male and female) to France and he'll be back on Wednesday. At the moment I'm extremely paranoid to the point that I'm literally in tears because I'm so worried he'll cheat on me. I know I'm probably over ... (308 words)

I'm really confused, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

- I'm not sure if i'm worrying about nothing,i'm just confused. I was on the contraceptive pill and missed a pill so i took one and took another but it was over 24 hours.i then had sex 2days later on may 4th without a condom. I stopped taking the pill after the relation... (104 words)

I try to help my family with the babies but I feel I'm being pushed out and feel depressed about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my sister had a baby at 17, shes now 19 and my other sister is 23, they are both currently pregnant, and although i dont want a baby watching my mum and them both going on about babies and looking at tiny clothes it makes me feel sad. I try joining in and i just feel ... (101 words)

What can I do to take my friendship with him up to a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I love this guy I'll call him S. The problem is I'm only 13 and he is 16. I've known him for years and we have always shared this connection. He comes over to my house alot wih my dads friends son (who I'll call J and I always want to hug S when I see him but i don't think J ... (103 words)

My boss informed me that a passenger complained about my body odour! I feel this was over the top!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, today at work i was pissed of quite a bit as my boss said that a passenger (i work in airport security) had complained about my body odour. now i have clean clothes and a shower before work every day and wear deodourant, no-one has even made a passing comment before and ... (285 words)

Pregnant and seeing somebody new - but my parents think he only wants sex. I'm saddened by this comment.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys..this problem is kinda conplex...but i really could do with some help... Basicly i'm 5 months pregnant with a perfect little boy who i already love to bits. The babys dad doesnt wanna know basicly...i've seen him twice since we found out.. so even though were still te... (258 words)

I am feeling overwhelmed, trying to be a good mom, but I really need help, how do I get it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so im a mum of three 6,5,2 and married i feel like i cant cope my husband works long hours so i have to get up early and get the kids dressed then do all the housework dinner is always ready then he will go out to football training or casino and i will be left with them my 5 ... (189 words)

I want to have sex, but my nervousness is interfering, with my performance, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm an 18 yo guy, and still a virgin. I've had the opprotunity to have sex twice. Both times I was nervous as hell. Like beyond nervous if you can imagine. There was very little to no forplay going on before we tried, and both times I went limp. Needless to say, I was ... (97 words)

I think I luv him, but he shows no interest, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and my boyfriend is 18 im really attached to him and its like never spend time with me but only one time i really love him but i dont know what to do... (35 words)

Do they only want me, to be their friend? I would like more, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age - I am 49-yr old male. I meet many ( way too many ) girls in their 20's due to a common fellowship and a few of us have become freinds. I try not to expect that any will actually be attracted to me but the ones I am wondering about always projected a certain a vibe to me. I do... (273 words)

I kept asking, found out she had sex with another man, now I am hurting, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated a girl for about a year. We decided to end it because we were both going to be apart from eachother because of college. About four months ago we decided to get back together. At first, it was the greatest thing that has happened to me. But then she told me that she ... (170 words)

Is a curved penis a problem, or am I over reacting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my penis curves slightly to the left (about 9 inches if that means anything) is this normal?... (17 words)

Is he afraid of being in a committed relationship, or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Saw this guy for 2 months. He's 42, I'm 39, so not kids...He did all the running; I wanted to be sure of him, so I held back in terms of being the one to get in contact, but I liked him so, so much. He has his own business, and 3 wks ago, he was having panic attacks with ... (257 words)

I said I love you, and he bolted, should I keep it to myself next time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age - Please tell me why it is when a woman tells a man she loves him even if its in the early stages-he then dumps her? I can understand him getting scared but who has said anyone can make him move in marry heror be exclusive etc -no one can make them do anything so why cant they ... (86 words)

I should be happy, but I am trying to sabotage my relationship, somebody help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He is absolutly WONDERFUL!! Hed do anything for me and i love him soo damn much. But i have a situation.. Last Christmas an EX-friend of his told me that hed cheated on me with a particular girl. I immediatly called him and a... (341 words)

I have a serious problem, trusting my boyfriend completely, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok hi erm i have trust issues as i have been cheated on in the past and its also happened with close friends. im in a relationship long distance and it seems when i have spare time on my hands i think about him and then it escalades to trusting him. hes been cheated on in the ... (236 words)

Are there signs, that would tell you, that a man is gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i find out if my husband is gay, he refuse to have sex,he has never being the type that likes sex all the time, but he gets mad everytime i ask him what is the problem and get violance when i bring the subject and he doesnt have any male friends my children think h... (86 words)

I only like receiving oral sex, any suggestions, to help me reciprocate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have some sort of phobia or fear or disgust of giving oral to a women. Now I've been with my girlfriend for a year and she is very relaxed in giving me oral and demands none because she knows how I feel which I really appreciate of her, but i really really need to g... (88 words)

He asked for my number, now he's missing in action, should I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - So this guy approached me in a club at the weekend, he chatted to me for ages was really nice, the convo was easy not over the top and I wasn't drapping myself round his neck, he spent time talking to my friend about me (she got the vibe he really liked me and she is pretty ... (202 words)

I really, really like him, he could care less, should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - this may be long but please read i seriously need help ok so theres this boy i've know since i was really young (as in our parents went to baby classes together)he is 1 month older than me and i have always fancied him even since i was little when i was 4 he tried to kiss me ... (322 words)

Help! Do I study hard or quit, I am torn, what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I’m doing triple science award for GCSE and I’ve been doing this for about 5 months. I'm not an academic kid to be honest (i have dyslexia, dyscalculia and a form of short term memory loss) and I’m in a class full of brain boxes at a very prestigious school. So as you can ... (324 words)

Would someone please help me, with a masturbation problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I am coming properly or atleast fully. It is better with my boyfriend but Dildo's also do the same thing to me. I get like a really amazing overwhelming tingly feeling and I start feeling so hot like this is just the build up and when I get like this I feel... (107 words)

Friends with benefits? What are your opinions on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've fancied a guy for ages, but i know he's got a reputation, and he is a bit of a player. I know he likes me but i also know he doesn't do relationships and just wants friends with benefits. What is people's opionion on this?... (47 words)

Am I just being used for lust because it is a 'want thing'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guys years ago, we went out and it didn't work, but always stayed friends. Except for we can never just be friends, it always turns into us liking each other. He's broken my heart at least 5 times in 4 nearly 5 years. Now he's single and says he wants me but is maki... (78 words)

Caught in a possible bigamous marital situation, I am desperate for help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age - My question is quite long so here goes. I had a marriage ceremony in the Caribbean in 1988.I did not believe the marriage to be recognized in the UK and so married my current husband in 1993. My current husband wants to divorce me and has proven my first marriage to be valid ... (210 words)

Financially dependent on her, using her for sex, hating myself, what do I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Wow, so I am in a really bad situation. It really sucks, and I feel like SUCH an asshole for not doing anything about it. Basically, I am in a relationship that I dont want to be in. I dont like her, I for sure dont love her, and I only am with her because we live together and ... (525 words)

My boyfriend's family, now treat me like I'm a witch, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

- Hey all, Can any tell me why my boyfriends mum and younger sister dislike me so much? me and my wonderful boyfriend have been seeing each other seriously for nealy a year now and at first his mum and sister got laong great with me they would include me in things and offer... (156 words)

He's confusing me, should I try to persuade him, or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how do u know if a boy really likes you?im so confused,iv been on and off with this boy for 4years we have never been serious with each other u could say it was just for fun,but im startin to fall for him..i have told him that i really like him,and at first he said we can try ... (126 words)

I'm just not ready for a relationship yet. How do I tell him this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I don't think things are going well with my boyfriend, i don't think i'm yet ready for a relationship but i do have feelings for him (but also still have feelings for someone else) and i want to break up but still be friends, but i don't want to hurt his feelings. Also my frie... (111 words)

Can a man resist temptation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK. I asked a question earlier - about struggling with the way my boyfriend talks about women with his friends, I only got one reply and am sure that people must have more to say than that - as it was my first ever question and I have now had a look around the site, I am going ... (609 words)

I really don't know who to be with....Oh, and I'm pregnant with twins!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 yrs. Things keep going well then they will get bad again. I'm pregnant with his twin boys. I'm not happy with him. He tells me what to do, tells me he doesn't find me attractive and puts me down. I've found someone else who looks after me... (103 words)

I can't help but wonder whether he still finds me attractive at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with my partner for 2 years. In the beginning I asked him what made him go out with me, he said that my looks attracted him at first, but later he liked me for me. I am a bit insecure, and asked him whether he likes the way I look? He says he does and calls me... (186 words)

Honestly I find this woman very difficult to deal with. Does she have some disorders, or possibly, extremely low self-esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - To cut long story short, I met this girl two years ago through a TV ad and I have recently met her again, shortly after her breakup with her ex. We maintained contact in between, but summarily our relations are a weird one. We can get along great, talking and everythi... (376 words)

What does it mean when he say's he's confused????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, now im more confused then ever!!! One minute he can't wait to see me and wants to spend all his time with me...(ya like 5 times a weeks) he gives me roses and a card telling me how much i have made him soooo happy and putting a smile on his face etc. Then we go away for... (695 words)

My head is telling me one thing but my heart is telling me another. Any advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Feel free to tell me that I was wrong to do this, but I don't know what made me do it. My boyfriend was supposed to be moving into a flat the other day but it fell through (for what reasons I don't know), he said that the landlord had found someone else to let the apartmen... (227 words)

I'd like to save my marrige - but it feels like it's only me trying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused! My husband cheated on me numerous of times (5) I got herpes from him, separated for nine months almost got divorced and dicided to give our kids one more chance to have mom and dad together. And now after being 5 years back together I think I made a big mistake, ... (112 words)

How do I ask my husband to do stuff for me without sounding too much like a nag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I would just like to know something about my husband that I dont understand. He is really a great guy. Easy going and not too full of nonsense. But what baffles me, is that when I ask him to do something, there is a procrastination. Though he is always willing to d... (392 words)

Do you think I'm too obsessed with him? He admitted I call him annoyingly often. How can I change that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I've just got this thing that when i love someone i tend to call them toooooo much, my boyfriend just admited to me yesterday that it annoys him, me calling him like that. we've been together for 3 months now and i just feel like hearing his voice every sec since we ... (91 words)

I really struggle with the way he talks to his friends about women...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have what I think is a great relationship with my boyfriend - He always says he is really happy and we talk about having a family next year. We have a great sex life too - only problem is that I really struggle with the way he talks to his friends about women. He talks abou... (143 words)

Is my married lover trying to control me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) - Hi everyone,now before I start I know that I have done a terrible thing so please don't give me any grief!I just want to know what you think,ok im 23 and I have been seeing a married man who's 49 for 2 and a half years now,we were and are best pals,I am happy with the situation ... (261 words)

I'm passing through a very difficult mode in life... please suggest something!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Though i've overcome my break-up, i always feel very guilty of myself. For things which i committed during my relationship, may be i was too tempted. But now its like i feel like there's no one who loves me. i don't want a new relationship also, i know I'm very young but stil... (137 words)

Is he just in it for the sex? Or does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i met this guy at a party three weeks ago and we talked all night, we ended up snoggin, we exchanged numbers and he phoned me on the 23rd june and we met up, he ws really full on, we went back to mine and there was no one in so we sat downstairs for a bit but then he "needed ... (176 words)

Is it correct to be seeing two people at once, while you are not in an official relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you see two people at once? Not like official dating, but keeping your options open and seeing 2 girls at once? That wouldn't be called being a player would it? Because Im seeing a guy who is also seeing another girl, although I am only seeing him and I dont really wan... (116 words)

Did my boyfriend rape me? I told him I was ready but during the act I realised it wasn't so.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

3 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im really confused!! i really dont know what to do, did my boyfriend rape me?! or is it down to me, ive been with him for just three months, not long i know, but i thought i loved him, i thought i was ready for sex, hes 17 and im 16. last friday, i was supposed to be stoppin at ... (319 words)

What can I take for PMT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Anyone suffer from pmt or pmd? For 3 weeks of the month i am as happy as anything, laugh at things, and am so proud of and love my life. One week of the month i feel like dying. My mood is so negative and i could go to bed and stay there til my period starts quite frankly. I ... (149 words)

Going out with two girls and need to pick just one. How do I let the other go without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - uhm... hey to all my angels!!! in a situation and need some advice asap.. il make this very brief hope you understand. two girls.. going out with both.. both of them dont know about each other.. like them both alot but dont know what to do. dont think il be able to live wiyhout ... (122 words)

We broke up and she said she wanted to stay friends. Now she says she needs to sort out "issues" first. I don't know how to react.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half months ago. We went out for 6 months. She said she wanted to still be mates and i agreed. Then after a while we stopped speaking to each other, dunno why, just got on with our lives for abit. I txt her when she wanted to meet up, as weve ... (218 words)

My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends and stuff) He has a photo... (305 words)

It's always been a casual relationship, but now I can't believe anything he tells me. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age - I have had a relationship with someone for over 2 years now. I knew it was casual from the start and we dont live together. I asked him from the begining to be always honest with me if he did go with someone else. I have just found out now from him that he has been with others ... (114 words)

I am seriously scared that he is going to tip me over the edge, and I have two children to think about..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Posted this last night but i think i had put it across wrong, so didn't get answers on the main bit of the question i was looking for. Please help me be stronger! I dumped someone in jan, stupidly i got manipulated into lending him a few thousand pounds beforehand, which my... (373 words)

Is our long distance relationship going anywhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6013 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in this sort of long distance relationship with this girl for 9 months now and recently we've run into this "recession". We live 1.5 hours away from each other and we've both agreed to wait for each other until I go to college. Then we would be closer together ... (463 words)

Why hasn't he called for three days!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is a sily question, especially for a woman over 30, but I have been seeing a man for two weeks now, we get on really well and have been out four times. On Friday, which is the last time we went out as he has been away for work since Sunday, I stayed over his house ... (166 words)

We come from different backgrounds and we both seem to be playing hard to get. Is it going to work? How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy. We come from different backrounds. Well not totally different, but different enough. You see, he is a gang member. But wait for the whole story before you start spitting your opinions. Are you still with me? Anyways, I met him last friday, at a gat... (484 words)

She said I "inspired protectiveness in people". Is it something I'm doing that makes me this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was sitting with a friend and we were talking about people on our masters course. Just casually she slipped in that I "inspired protectiveness in people, because I was the only single guy on the course". For some reason, this really irked me, it's something you might use to ... (152 words)

My boyfriend won't talk to me and he cheats because he is unhappy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv been wiv my bf 3 years hes 19 im 27. Because of our age gap the relationship has been quite secretive and i think this has lead 2 a lot of problems. Now he cheats all the time. Hes never had sex because ive always caught him 1st but i dont wanna split with him. I have 2 ... (84 words)

I'm confused about my crush and what's going on. What should I do?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear madam, it might b long, but urgent!i'm actually having a problem about my crush which is always bothering me.one day, when i went out with him in the morning with his friend, that girl was telling me that he is my husband, etc..i got angry and i took him to a side and aske... (178 words)

Have any of you met your soulmate whilst with someone else...but can't be with them...how did you deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Have any of you out there met someone, who's not the person you're with at the moment, who you thought was your soulmate and you his/hers, but for reasons beyond your control, can't be with that person right now. How did you deal with it? ... (48 words)

Anyone know the percentage of women who masturbate in India??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - precentage of women masturbation in india?... (6 words)

Is it wrong to like someone different rather than the person you are going out with?

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3 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - right well im a bits stuck at the moment i liked this boy for ages so i told him how i felt and it all came out wrong and he started blanking me, but i found out he used to like me when he was younger but never told me. Then i started to become really close with a new boy in my ... (129 words)

How long is this empty feeling inside me going to last, after breaking up with by bf??

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf broke up a month ago, and I am so heart broken. We were on and off for 3 years (today would have been our 3 yrs anniversary) and this is the second time we've broken up for real. We broke up last year too for 8 months and then got back together. Last year was ... (213 words)

I cheated whilst on holiday for the first time on my bf of 5 years!!

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im away for holiday and I cheated on my bf here.I was absolutely drunk I couldnt even remember what I did!The guy just used me.I know that we didnt have sex but we did other stuff.Ive been with my bf for nearly 5 years.He's my first guy!I feel sooo guilty i dont konw if i can ... (101 words)

I'm 13, and have 7 inch penis...is this normal?

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3 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i have a 7 inch penis is that normal... (12 words)

We used durex condoms, is there any chance of my being pregnant?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i had protected sex with someone who already has kids, could i be pregnant, the condom didn't break or anything, i'm not on birth control, we used durex condoms, is there a chance of me being pregnant???... (39 words)

Did I break my hymen?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just tried sticking a dildo in my vagina and it hurt so I left it in there for like 20 seconds because I wanted to see if I could break my hymen, but then it kept hurting so I stopped. I started bleeding afterwards (obviously), so does that mean I broke my hymen for good and ... (77 words)

Why can't I be strong and stay away from this guy?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I am losing my sense of self. I usually have everything together.. but ever since I met him I'm not myself. I miss me and I want me back! I tried ending it with him(and we werent in a relationship so what I ended was just a thing.. an emotional thing that I want ... (215 words)

My periods are irregular, is this normal?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13 as of June 10 and i've had my period since i was nine. it was never really normal, and i've went to doctors and stuff.They put me on the pill but that made me sick so they put me on the patch and it still didn't help me. The doctors say my organs appear to be normal and ... (104 words)

How do I give her space but also be available for her?

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3 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend is having my baby, she is 13wks along. We had numerous conversations about starting a family, getting married etc before we got pregnant. We went and looked at rings, tux's etc. We do not live together. Since becoming pregnant she has totally changed her tune. No... (225 words)

My husband cheated on me with both my siblings!

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3 July 2008 (F)

age - I ahve been married 27 years but since the day I got married my husband cheated. I always knew but naturally lied to, but things have just come out. I have a twin he put his tongue on her while she slept and she woke up and freaked and told him never to touch her again he ... (241 words)

My steady boyfriend is wonderful, but I feel like I'm missing out. Help!

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with a wonderful young man for the past 2 years. He is three years older than me, has graduated from college and has been working for the past three years. He is cute, funny, devoted, loyal, sensitive, and the hardest worker I have ev... (471 words)

He sent me this email... opinions please?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating this guy for 6 months and I'm 7 months pregnant and he left me for another girl and I don't know why. He is excited about the baby but doesn't want to be with me, can you read his e-mail and let me know what you think?dearest Miranda, you and i had better find ... (369 words)

Is it okay to continually email this guy or do I look like a girl with no life?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it OK or am I look like a desperate, girl-with-no-life kinda way if I like to share and write stuff about my life to this guy I met some time ago. See, he's military I met him in a mission, and obviously I like him awfully a lot. I decided to initiate contact with him back... (263 words)

Should I try and get along with my sister-in-law?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I need some help dealing with my husband's family. They are being insensitive about our separation and it is hurting me. My husband told me a few months ago that he isn't "in-love" with me anymore. We were living at his Mom's with our kids. His sister (single) also lives ... (253 words)

Why would a guy have sex with a girl and not want her to be his girlfriend?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy doesn't want a girl to be his girlfriend but still wants to have sex with her, does that mean that shes ugly or doesnt have a good personality?... (31 words)

How do I pick up the pieces after leaving my husband?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started to first step to getting out of a rough relationship and marriage. For year, I lived with verbal beatings, constant put downs, threats, and lies. For years I was told what I could and couldnt eat... I was getting disgusting to him and it was driving him crazy. ... (979 words)

I'm attracted to my boyfriend's best mate, what should I do?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm in a tricky situation, beacuse i have been with my boyfriend three yers on and off. i know his best friend is attrcted to me but he seems like he could turn against me and my boyfriend would probably do crazy stuff if he found out, cuz he alays accuses me of fooling ... (95 words)

Why has she stopped wanting to be around me?

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3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now and she's been really happy and always wants to be around me until recently. We did stuff together about every other day during the weekend and I could tell there was nothin more that she wanted. thursday night I ... (160 words)

How do I give a lap dance?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to give him a lapdace......but i don't know how can anyone please help me... (18 words)

Is it ok the take the morning after pill if I'm not pregnant?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, My problem is that im kinda scared that I might be pregnant again the 1st time was with twins by a man that was 10 years my senior when I was 15 and had been date raped. Now im in a loving relationship with my highschool sweetheart and we're both madly inlove... (187 words)

Do I need to walk away so he can have time to make a decision?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i was wondering if i could get some help. recently ive been seeing this guy, we taking things slowly as (in his words) dont want to rush anything... i really wnna be with him however he claims his not ready for a relationship just yet... we are fairly intimate at the moment but ... (120 words)

He has lied to me from the beginning, I don't know what to do!

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 28 years old and my husband is 38. We have been together for 10 years. I met him at 18 and was everything I dreamed of. I got pregnant a year later. Three months into my pregnancy I found out he was living with a woman and had 3 kids. After all this, I still stayed with him... (213 words)

Why couldn't he have just told me he'd met someone else, instead of ignoring me?

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3 July 2008 (F)

- Hoping some of the fabulous agony aunts could give me a tip or two here. My ex and I were together twelve years. He left me and went back to his hometown two years ago. Canada is a big country so there was fair distance between us. He met someone else and was with her up unti... (294 words)

Does my mother not like talking to me?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my mom doesn't like to talk to me. When I talk to her most of the time she always scowls at me. Also when I talk to my dad she also scowls at me too. However, my mom doesn't scowl at my sister when she talks to her. How come my mom only does it to me? What is her ... (91 words)

I've had dreams about this boy I like, could they mean anything?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy that I've liked for awhile now. Like, we actually had something so don't think that he's just some random kid that I stalk lol. I haven't seen him in like forever because he doesn't go to my school. But lately, I've been thinking about him more and more. And ... (195 words)

I fell asleep with another guy (no sex), and now I'm afraid of what my boyfriend will think. Help?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of a 1 1\2 is out of town for a month for training. the first night alone i went to a party and got a little drunk. my guy friend was thier and i know he has feelings for me even though we have disscussed that i am very much in love with my boyfirned. i fell... (160 words)

Why did he just drop all contact? Is he embarassed?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this boy a few summers ago at a local theater. We both liked each other from the start and emailed each other for the remainder of the summer and the following winter. Then around November, we lost touch because his email address changed and he didn't have a chance to ... (337 words)

I've developed feelings for my friend, but she's not interested. How do I cope with this?

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3 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some help here, I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago...since then I've noticed that I've been getting feelings for my closest female friend. I talked to her about my feelings and she said she doesn't want to jeopardize our friendship by going out with me, so ... (93 words)

I met a guy on Myspace - can long distance relationships like this ever work?

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3 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I met the cutest guy on MySpace by total accident! We have started talking and he's so cool and absoultly adorable!!! The problem is I live in the United states and he livesi in Estonia... (a country close to Russia for those of you that don't know.) I've started to have a... (84 words)

I'm having some issues with a guy I just met, help!

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met this guy last saturday night. I really like him, but my family and alot of my friends do not approve. I guess he sort of has a back image and backround representing him. But, I really like him! Anyways, I gave him my number on saturday, but he didn't call me ... (157 words)

He doesn't seem to be able to make up his mind, what do I do?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I need your help here. I have been dating this guy for a little bit more than 4 months. He is by nature very sweet with me, and he does everything to makes me happy. He is a very quiet guy, he doesn't get mad, and in general as I said before very sweet. We live a little... (368 words)

I want to go back on the pill, but I'm not sure how to go about it.

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - december last year i decided to go on the pill for a holiday as a celebration after finishing year 12. I went on it without my mum knowing but i had a bad experience with it. I had breakthrough bleeding which was very unpleasant, and even tho i was told it will improve pms i ... (166 words)

My boyfriend is wonderful, but I'm still attracted to my 'bad boy' ex - help!

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3 July 2008 (?) - I’m 19 and my b/f is 23. I’ve NEVER cheated on him (or anyone for that matter) and would never. I love my boyfriend of a year who is totally amazing and the best boyfriend any girl could want but I recently redeveloped my love for my ex who’s 20. We broke up 4 ye... (389 words)

He's accusing me of liking another guy, how do I convince him I don't?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my guy are currently on the "off" part of our relationship an well i miss him lots... We live together an with another couple to so it makes it really hard still seeing him. We still talking so that makes it easier. But now my question is getting him back... Everyone ... (199 words)

I'm having issues with my boyfriend of six months...

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for six months and we've had this on going issue with him smoking. When we first started going out he said that he was going to cut back and he says that he has but I still think that he smokes a lot. Another issue we've had is that when we first star... (137 words)

He says he likes me, but I don't feel like he does.

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy, we've been close friends for a few months now. There's always been this thing going on between us and we flirt a lot. He has recently told me that he likes me, but somehow i feel like he doesn't. We do flirt sometimes but i just feel like he doesn't rea... (126 words)

Help! My ex tried to use me to cheat on the mother of his child and she just called me to ask if he's been faithful!!

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me! I don't know what to do... I recently had a very, very complicated situation dropped into my lap. About four months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. Shortly after he moved out he found out his ex-girlfriend that he had dated just before me had just had his ... (392 words)

Please tell me how to let go of the money my ex owes me, because he is sending me crazy! And that scares me..

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Pleeeeease help me be stronger! Ive posted on here before, but the same problem is still about. I dumped someone in jan, stupidly i got manipulated into lending him a few thousand pounds beforehand, which my gran left me when she died, and i am trying to claim it back through ... (302 words)

Is there any chance of getting pregnant on your period?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been wondering lately, if there would be any possiblity of geting pregnant on your period. Because last weekend my boyfriend came inside me. But he told me not to worry because i cant get pregnant on my period. He said theres like a one in a million chance. ... (56 words)

Even though he has a girlfriend, he admitted he feels something for me. Should I tell him how I feel?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been friends with this girl for a while now last year she introduced me to one of her male friends. we got talkin and before i knew it we were texting and calling eachother i had a bit of a crush on him . a few months after this him and my friend started going out.at ... (270 words)

He said he'd be here for the baby but he just ignores my messages, why?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am preg but not with the father,he will stil be around for the baby..but sometimes he ignore's my messages and it would be only about the baby,why do men do that??... (32 words)

If he admits to liking 2 other girls, why won't he admit to liking me?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy, even though i'm young, and i've liked him for a year or two. Well a few weeks ago I found out he likes me back, but since we're so young he is still sorta shy about girls. Like he will stare at me and everything, but he won't admit it. He has had a girlfriend ... (115 words)

I can't stop thinking about her and I'm scared I'll do something I might regret!

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3 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this one is long and complicated. I'm really taking a breakup very badly. It was technically my fault. My ex and I were arguing and at one point I said,'I just don't know anymore' and she said that i wanted to break up, I told her I didn't know if I did or not, and she ... (273 words)

I found hair on the carpet that wasn't mine, is he cheating?

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3 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, today I was waiting for my boyfriend to get back to our apartment and I was sitting on the floor with our puppy. Well, I brushed my hand across the carpet and my finger got (grossly) tangled in some hair. I absolutely hate loose hair...but anyway. I picked it up to throw ... (385 words)