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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is a big flirt and I get jealous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and he's a flirt a big one. I didn't mind at first but when the girl's get to flirty and friendly with him i do get jealous sometimes when he flirts back. I don't know if it last being with him i do love him and i don't want to lose him can someone give me ... (66 words)

I told him to make a decision about our relationship and he hasn't called back! What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 23 yrs old i have a male friend that i grew up with since 7th grade we lost contact, and ran into each other this year. so we have been conversating i am single he say tha he single so we had sexual invovlement more than once and i spend the nite at his house so i was ... (175 words)

What do you do in a relationship that's not functioning anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do u do when you are in a relationship that just isn't functioning anymore? When you've given all you've got but just can't anymore. My boyfriend and I have a daughter together. We've been together for six years now but its been crazy. We were fine up until I had my d... (239 words)

My best friend snogged my ex since a couple of months! Is this a betrayal of a friend? I don't know what to think!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex boyfriend were together for about 2 years and split up just a few months ago. My best friend told me today that she snogged him today and i really don't know how i feel. I still love my ex to pieces but don't want to tell him this. To top it all my best friend has ... (73 words)

After 6 months together we've entered the "comfortable stage". What can I do to bring back the wow look on his face??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok guys... i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. things r startin to get a little weird for me cuz its in the "comfortable" stage. so i want to do something to make him say omg again or just see that wow look on his face. and im not talkin sexually cuz thats the only ... (82 words)

We had a good relationship then things started to go wrong and finally he just left without even informing me! Now I don't know what to think of it all??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have read some of the other postings and can relate to some of the females problems that happened in their relationships. I have never been so hurt in my life. I dated a guy and the relationship was going well. I just knew that I found the love of my life finally. With him ... (621 words)

I feel like everything but his girlfriend, should I leave him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - We're both 21 years old and I have been living with my boyfriend for 10 months and for a while now I have been feeling more like a chauffeur, a mother, a roommate, and a maid to him. The last thing I feel like is his girlfriend, unless he wants to have sex. In fact, after ... (111 words)

I love my family, but they keep giving me lectures on everything I do! How can I stand up for myself in a good way and not hurt them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles. Long time no question. Firstly, let me say I am very close to my family and I know they'd do anything for me and likewise to them. (to cut a story short: I got stranded in Donnington and had to take the bus to bristol then train to london and my mum still... (309 words)

How do I arrange to meet this guy that seems perfect to me, and when I manage, how can I not freeze up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom's friend has three sons, one of whom is my age (16). I've heard that he's a lot like me in the way that he's kind of shy but is hard working and responsible. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I don't have any guy experience, but I would like to meet him (he's ... (106 words)

My ''bestfriend'' turned out to be a total backstabbing bitch, but why do I feel awful for not wanting to be her friend anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been bestfriends with this girl 'Jenna' for about 4 years now. We used to be really close. Lately, Jenna has been totally weird. She started acting really slutty in school, and wearing all this black makeup, totally out of the normal. And then she started telling me and ... (458 words)

What do I choose, stay in the current badlife I have or take a chance on the may be goodlife??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone im hoping you can help me here,im currently in a relationship with a man whom im in love with yet he treats me bad most of the time,im going away soon an whilst im away im going to see a guy whom as loved an wanted me for the best part of 20yrs,i do love this guy ... (101 words)

I made out with a guy that says he is gay, the weird thing is that he has a wife! What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I'm a 16 year old, gay guy who takes tumbling. I recently came out to my instructor. After I told him he told me that he was gay to. Then he leaned over and started making out with me. But the weird is, is that he has a wife! I really like him but what should I do?... (59 words)

I'm confused about what my boyfriend really feels for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyrfrien have been going out for quite a while now i only ever see him on the weekends becuase of school and things, so i spend more time at home than with him, we both have msn and bebo but he never reply's back to me or nothing, i have asked him in person why he ... (193 words)

How do I know if my boyfriend loves me? Is there a way you can tell for sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i just wonderd if anyone could tell me how do you know if a boy loves you?? well my boyfriend kisses me and we spend ages looking into eatchothers eyes and he puts his arms round me you think he loves me?? ... (46 words)

Should I get involved with a man that considers himself a "free agent"? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age - I am aged 49 and wondered what you think of me potentially seeing /going out with a man who I know goes out with other women and I know he has sex with "because he is a free agent" (in his words and "doesnt want a relationship" in his words) so I know he is honest but would I ... (111 words)

Why doesn't he want more from me? Should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, its a long story but i have been seeing this guy for about 10months and ever since the beginning he has told me that he don’t want a relationship and this has been fine and we have had a lot of fun together. we now live far apart and i thought that things would just fade ... (153 words)

Should I cut my losses and just deal with the heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and I'm not sure what to do. We haven't had sex in over a month - he says he's not interested in that kind of thing. I only see him once a week as he says he simply doesn't have any more time to spend with me. I ... (262 words)

I'm really scared he will pick this other girl over me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15, and I am dating this guy that is 16. He is the only guy I like, so I really dont feel like dating other guys. However, he is dating one other girl. I really really really like him, and he did say that there is a chance that this thing between us could turn int... (315 words)

I'm worried that my wife is funneling my money to her Thai boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi there, i got married to a thai woman who brought a six months old daugther in our marriage. I adopted the lovely child after three years of being married. With my wife I have been married for more than six years. as i got to leave thailand where i have been working for... (161 words)

Would he tell a load of people if I told him I liked him? Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I think I am in love. I know, I will probably get a lot of people saying you're not, but I think I am. The guy whom I like is a younger than me, and in the year below me at school. I get butterflies around him, and the thing is, I really want to tell him I like ... (118 words)

How do I get rid of a boy without making him feel bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - there's this guy that really likes me but i don't like him. He always write me messages and asks me do i think he's unattractive but i said no because i didn't want to make him feel bad. He is really starting to get annoying because now it's the only question he asks me when he ... (74 words)

I told this man I love him....how can I realistically retract what I said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age - Having just returned from France I met a nice english man and we were jsut friends,but because I have lost so much in my life and was bought up in an orphanage etc (NOT feeling sorry for myself just telling the truth) I did a stupid thing and told the man I loved him which of ... (219 words)

I care about a boy who has a girlfriend already, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i've got a slight problem. Me and this guy dated when we were 12-14 and i was totally in love with him, and him with me but we kinda drifted apart. But now we've suddenly become close again and started hanging out, but he has a girlfriend. He tells me he loves me all the ... (193 words)

I was given an engagement ring as a gift but he says it isn't a proposal; what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If you had been with your partner for a couple of years, had a child together, lived together and everything was wonderful (never ever argued) what would you think if this happened to you? You get given a diamond ring, on your engagement finger on your birthday? I assumed... (248 words)

If you get fired from work, what do you put on your CV?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick question.A colleague was recently sacked/fired at my workplace for a silly mistake(she was having an affair with a married colleague).She,myself and another girl all started at the same time (we have been there for 2 years now) and we were wondering what you would ... (109 words)

I'm thinking my husband may be gay or bisexual; what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need help figuring out if my husband is gay or bisexual. I have a gay brother and we have been going out with him pretty regular to the local gay club. I have no problem hanging out there just to be around my brother. This past weekend we were in there and my husband ... (223 words)

Is it Ok to sleep with someone you met on holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age - Whilst I realise several of us may have done this would you all be honest especially men who might reply and say the truth - if someone has just met someone else on holiday during a two week break - is it wise to sleep with them or would they probably think I was an easy lay. ... (96 words)

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even held hands or kissed a girl. S... (264 words)

Any advice about polycystic ovarian syndrome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been trying for a baby for over 4 years i have polycystic ovarian syndrome, my husband and are really wanting a family, can anyone help?... (27 words)

How can I persuade my friends to accept my relationship with my former teacher?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have just finished school (I mean A levels - I'm 18), and I have got into a sexual relationship with my ex teacher since finishing school (we were really friendly for years whilst I was at school). He's 36, and a really great guy. I get one with him really well, and... (177 words)

His fantasy is to have a threesome. So should I tell him my fantasy of having sex with his brother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

2 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My husband has shared his fantasies with me. He'd love to see me with another woman (I'm straight), he'd love us to be in a threesome with another woman, and a couple of other things. He wants to know my fantasies, but I just can't bring myself to tell him that my only real ... (268 words)

My ex went back to his ex when she pretended she was pregnant. Should I contact him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I contact my ex after 4 months? We only dated for two months but we had a really good relationship, with so much chemisty and both wanted the same things in life. However, his ex (whom he has children with) pretended to be pregnant (when she found out about me) and being ... (203 words)

I proper love him, do you think he'll be okay? Will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

2 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - well ive liked this guy for ages and ages now, like over a yesr or something and he likes me too, i think about him none stop and we have the cutest conversations, people say were made for each other, everytime i see him (which isnt often, maybe once a month if that) my heartt ... (242 words)

I am lost.... he wants a break, and I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a mother of 2. but for the past 3 years i still live with my kids father home because of financial problems to get my own place. i work very hard but to rent and take care of two kids is difficult... so am saving to get my own place.... about 9 months ago i meant john ... (387 words)

I'm really scared that he's going to pick the other girl over me. I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

What should I do at the party Friday night, as I want my ex boyfriend back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

- What should i do? People whohave been following my relationship dilemma from previous posts know what i am refering to. I broke up with my bf a month ago and been very confused by signals hes giving me. loves me but cant have a gf etc etc. well... there A party friday nig... (147 words)

I need help before I get sacked!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - HI there! I need your help! I am very reluctant to my work most of the time. I procrastinate works. And feel asleep early, wake up early in the morning with depression, and generally become ineffective in my office. Since I am in new office my colleagues start to question my ... (65 words)

I'm worried that it will be just a fling to her, and the thought of her having sex with her bf, then getting on a plane to have sex with me is unpleasant.

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My long-distance ex gf (25) and I have been friends for over a year (dated for 5 months) I cared for her deeply but the distance was too much and altough we talked of moving in together, she was not ready for that life changing decision. We have continued to stay friends, and ... (392 words)

My chest is not strong like other men, it's big like girls' breasts, what can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi friends i am 28. 1.65cm and 70 kg. my question is my chest is big like girls breast, means not strong like any other boys. does anyone help me why this happens to and the solution. thank you ... (43 words)

I don't know where I stand or what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive recently been spending alot of time with this guy. he says he loves being with me and around me but he says he cant be with me, like offically in a relationship. i dont understand if someone loves being with another person they should be together. he says that we are just ... (118 words)

This is starting to really worry me now, could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is starting to really worry me now, could i be pregnant? It's been constantly plagueing my mind these last few days, well, here's the facts and inordetlly someone can help, i had unprotected sex with my man 5 days ago, he didn't come whilst inside me (but nearly did once) ... (264 words)

He's suffocating me and calls me names when he's upset! He always apologizes but it happens again, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is almost 20. I completely adore him but he smothers me so much, it's suffocating. He won't let me have friends unless he knows everything about them. He questions me every time I meet a male (friend or stranger) as to whether I fancy them. If I do, h... (206 words)

Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been boyfriend-girlfriend for over 5 months. What ... (62 words)

A girl from America wants to come and meet me, but she can't until Christmas. By then I will have started University with new possibilities at my feet! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I don't know what to do, and I'm finding myself trying to find out what is right and what is wrong. I've made contact with a girl from America. From the start, she showed interest in me, and our conversation has recently begun to develop. It's become quite clear that... (331 words)

She's amazing, and my sister says she likes me but she's not giving much sign of it yet. Any help would be great.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Firstly hello =) I have a bit of a dilemma... It was my sisters 21st birthday and we all went to a club and my sister introduced me to one of her friends who I hadn't met before and when she did my jaw literally dropped she looked amazing. Anyways we got talking a bit (well as ... (371 words)

I keep blowing my chances of finding a soul mate and I need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and vergin.Never had a girl friend or dated in yhe true sense of the term.I just xcouldn't strike the right cord when it cimes to women..I always end up talking crazy getting nervous and blowing my chances of finding a soul mate.What do you advise me?... (49 words)

No money. No job. Life is passing me by. In a love triangle and don't know who to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi theres a few little things going on at the moment that i would like peoples advice on. First I am 21 and am completely broke and cant get a job for the summer (i have another year of college to go) and its bringing me down so much, i feel like life is passing me by..I am not ... (333 words)

What size and shape of girl do men prefer?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

- I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?... (27 words)

My husband kissed a girl who stays with us. I need some advice what best to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am married for 5years,am having a son of 4years and and within a month am expect our second child.my husband has been always faithful to me.he shares with me everything and it hard for us two to keep secret for each other.In our house we have a girl who is a guest for a ... (136 words)

Sex hurts me. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and y boyfriend have slept together on 3 occasions, and all the times it has been so painful. the first time i bled really heavily. is there something wrong? xx... (33 words)

I love her but I don't think I'm in love with her. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Im currently in a relationship with a girl who I started living with about 2 months after we started going out. Its now 6 months into it and although I do love her I dont think im in love with her. Were from different backgrounds and cultures and sometimes I thin... (304 words)

My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??... (30 words)

I'm afraid that my boyfriend will life the life of travelling too much and not come back to me...how can I get these negative thoughts out of my head??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

- Hi, My boyfriend has gone away working to the other side of the world for a couple of months. I'm in my second week now and I am feeling so lonely. We've been together for 3 years and I am afraid he will like the life of travelling and not come back.. How can I get these ... (119 words)

Is eating large amounts of dried fruit bad??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love eating dried fruit in between meals and for snacking on and i realised yesterday how fattening it is because of the suagar-sugar on the dry papaya and apricots etc....Im gutted-all the dry fruit seems to contain the same calories and fat!!! Is eating large amounts ... (51 words)

What does the future hold for a 23 yr old woman and a 38yr old man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my fiance is 38. We're due to get married next year but I'm worried about the future of the relationship. I love him more than anything,trust him completely and we have a perfect relationship compared to my friends dating men their own age. What will it be like ... (88 words)

When will he propose properly??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we see eachother every few months.We are very much in love and he we have spoken about marriage and children etc..He has even asked me to marry him via text and email (to which i said Yes!)but he ... (113 words)

Is my hymen torn or is there something else going on I should be worried about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently gave my virginity to my boyfriend, but I don't know if my hymen has completely torn. Here's what happened: On Friday we were making out a fair amount and I let him inside me quite far but not all the way (about 3/4) because it burned more than I expected! We wer... (416 words)

Tonsilitis? How can I reduce the swelling? Help!!!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - it's 5:00am in the morning. I know a little late for somebody to be up now isn't it? Well it's cause about an hour ago, I decided I was going to go to bed, but before I decided to go to bed, I decided to look inside my mouth, cause it had been bothering me all day, like a ... (166 words)

I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - HELP!! I'm still in love with my ex who I was with for 2 years. Currently have a GF who been with for few months now and I do like her. What should I do! My ex also told me she loves me stil and she got a partner too... ... (59 words)

He gave me this look that stopped my heart. Now how can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i want to tell you all my story. i was with this guy for a while and we got pretty serious, we got as far as fingering. and he gave me this look that stopped my heart. i fell in love with him. he said he loved me. life was perfect. but then he didnt txt me back for 2 ... (187 words)

A whirlwind romance and six years marriage, and I'm now regretting it. Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for nearly 6 years, a whirlwind romance which I am now regretting. I am a Foster Mother who stays at home as that is what is requested by the agengy I work for. My husband hurls abuse that I am a lazy cow, even though I do all the ... (398 words)

How do I build up to asking her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - at the moment i really like this girl and like we've met up a few times with our mates and stuff but how do i know if she likes me in a relansionship kinda way?? and also what are the next steps and what should i do in the build up to me possibly asking her out? thanks... (59 words)

Why do they just stop talking to me suddenly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I´m very tired of female friends that stop talking to me from one moment to the next. it´s very rude and inconsiderate. It keeps happening to me. I just don´t understand. I´m very sure that it wasn´t from saying or doing anything that could possibly be offensive. One day ... (90 words)

I can't stand the thought of kissing my husband. Have I got some sort of disorder?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My favorite past time was simply kissing my soon to be husband. We have been married for over a year now and I simply cant even stand the thought of him kissing me. I love him and we have a great relationship. Is this a disorder, what is my problem?... (50 words)

How much should I spend on my girlfriend's birthday present?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (M)

- Hi, I need advice about how much money I should be spending on my girlfriend's birthday present considering we've only been going out a few months. For her birthday she suggested that I could take her on a weekend break to Center Parcs, and she will treat me for my bir... (184 words)

Is he just after a UK passport?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i went to turkey a few weeks ago with my family. my sister who is 14 gave her msn addy to a bar man. when we got back he asked to marry her in a few years time. when she tries to explain she doesnt want to (by saying your too old for me, we hardly know each other etc) he begins ... (110 words)

I called off the wedding because he cheated, but I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 35 years old female who has just called off my wedding because my fiance cheated me. I confided into a friend who is married for 12 years and with a 12 years old kid and ended up having an affair with him. He claims that he loves me but he loves his wife too. He tre... (125 words)

How do I get over an "emotional abuser"?

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2 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - How do I get over an emotional abuser? I love him deeply, but he always found flaws in me... He was very loving and respectful most of the time. But when he''d get mad and make me cry, he'd get even angrier. It's true I made mistakes, but still, he called me names, ignored m... (277 words)

I'm confused! My husband needed a "break" and now we are having the best sex ever!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Two months ago my husband told me that he wanted a "break" , no rules, we are seperated anything goes!! He moved out. Now we are getting along with each other way better and we are having the best sex ever but he leaves right after we are done. I feel like I am being used ,but ... (77 words)

I have no idea what I'm feeling so I really need help!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alrighty, I'd rather give help then ask for it. I'm usually not very open. But at htis point i don't have a clue what to do or what I'm feeling.I've known this guy literally from kindergarden. We went to the same school for about 4 years. Then i moved to a close state and he ... (294 words)

My husband won't french kiss me, why?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband will not french kiss me at all. He did when we were dating we have been married 5 years I can count on one hand the times he has kiss me. It is usually just a peck on the lips or cheek. Even during sex he doesnt kiss me at all. He has only ever performed oral sex on ... (326 words)

Is there any way to notice if you've had sex? Do you walk differently?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I are starting to have sex. last time, we were having sex and when i took his thing out of mine their was white stuff all over, an I think it might be his cum, but I cum alot and it might be mine, but he said it was not him because he would have felt it. (1) ... (126 words)

He broke up with me in an email- should I send him a letter to express how I feel?

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner broke up with me by email on Monday. I had no idea it was coming and I'm still in shock - heartbroken. Although only 5 months - this is 5 months out of my life which I value. His email told me that some relationships last and some don't. I was the best partner he ... (133 words)

Are there any good websites I can use to determine if I have an STD?

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know if I have a disease.Around my scrotum and the lower part of my penis are these "bumps".However they are at the base of my pubic hair and think that I have them because my hair is being pulled while I masturbate or because while I move around my underwear is ... (105 words)

Am I a slut like everyone says or is this just a phase?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - During the outcome of this year, my life has brought me many different things, new experiences and alot of surprises. Alot of people are labeling me as a "slut", I am wondering, do you think the same? or is something else in my life effecting me that has made me this way? ... (600 words)

How do you know if you have ruined a friendship with someone for good?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel terrible because I'm so afraid that I've ruined a friendship with someone, and it's all my fault. I met someone online who was very helpful and gave me advice about my problems, but I made a terrible mistake of talking about the same thing, over and over, when I should ... (226 words)

I nearly lost my dad last week! Can anyone help me sort through all this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know how to explain all this without it getting confusing, but ill try my best. when i was growing up, my mum and my half sister/dads daughter never really got on , and anytime there was an argument, my dad would cut me out and ignore my mum, sticking by his daughter... (602 words)

I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?

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2 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little drunk together and had sex. It ... (135 words)

I am in a situation where I'm married but can't picture spending the rest of my life with him. How do I get out?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a situation where i married a guy but we have not had the ceremony yet. we got married so he could apply for housing (he is in active army) so i could go live with him overseas after our ceremony.. we are supposed to have the wedding in october, but i am having second ... (128 words)

Can my mom have him arrested for statutory rape?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I seriously need to know the answer to this question. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we've been dating for about 3 months. My mom is accusing us of having sex and is threatening to get him for statutory rape. He told me that she it's impossible for her to do that because ... (78 words)

Can you help me with a solution to this letter my wife wrote?

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - After 20 years of marriage , she has decided I'm not her ideal husband . She wants a me to not be like me or I need to change to be different . She is a generous , helpful and will do anything to help others . These are things that I am not , as its not in my personality . Y... (380 words)

How can I get psychological help without my parents knowing?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get psycological help without my parents knowing? I have anxiety attacks and problems with depression but I'd really like my parents not to know my business...Is there any way I can get help without them knowing? A school counselor is not an option and I don't have a ... (53 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's attitute towards my past?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - when i was very young(a child)i was sexually molested and as a result in adulthood, i went looking for love in all the wrong places. i had sex with men even when i didn't want to, just because i wanted to be loved (not too many, below 10.) sex never meant anything to me, i ... (142 words)

I want to settle down and have a family, but I also want to enjoy my youth - What do I do?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21-year old female. I haven't exactly made the best choices in my life, but I am by no means a disadvantaged person. My problem is this; at such a young age, I see a lot of my friends, siblings, and cousins my age getting married and having children... I have always told ... (274 words)

Is it wise to remain friends with him if I have feelings for him?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I found myself falling for my best guy friend for the past year. He really gave the impression that he liked me. We would cuddle, once or twice held hands, and just basically flirt around all the time. I would have friends and people I didn't even know too well asking ... (161 words)

We used to hit each other and now her parents won't accept me, help!

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a terrible dilema. I am very much in love with my girlfriend and she means the world to me and we have a very passionate and emotional relationship. She is the one I want to marry. We both very very strongly for one another. About a year ago we both becam... (403 words)

How do I tell a girl how I feel about her?

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i tell a girl i like how i feel about her? i have no clue if she likes me like that or not i just want to tell her cause its hard not to tell her many thanks in advance... (44 words)

How does the divorce system work?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - what makes a divorce expensive?? what do you have to do to get a divorce? and what is an annulment, when can it be done, and how?... (28 words)

I think my boyfriend likes his brother's girlfriend!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I think he is into his brother's girlfriend. She has been dating my boyfriend's brother for 4 years now and she is at his house everyday to see her boyfriend. I understand that they have a buddy\buddy relationship but ... (180 words)

He says he's not interested in sex, but he masturbates all the time!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,Im back with my ex boyfriend a 4months now,we used to have great sex before but this time hes not interested in sex,he masturbates at least twice a day.he says the problem isnt me but if not what is?? he drinks most nights but that was never a prob before.he does want me to ... (76 words)

Is it normal for my vagina to make these noises?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a huge problem, after i'm done having sex my vagina makes like a farting noise. What is it and is it normal? Also after the noise i cum. Is that normal?... (33 words)

She doesn't seem to care about my feelings, what do I do?

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2 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have recently broken up with my girlfriend (6 weeks ago) we often fought about things that other people put in her head and everytime we had a awesome weekend or night out she seemed to start a fight or go in a different direction. in may we had mothers day had a nice morni... (655 words)

How can I get him to tell me how he feels?

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there this guy ive been going out with for four months now, hes only ever been in one relationship before for three years, he dont seem to show affection and hes the type to hide his feelings. how can i get him to tell me how he feels?... (48 words)

I'm in love with her, but her family won't accept our relationship!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, this is a tough one. i'm really falling for this girl. we've known each other almost a year now. i've had a thing for her for as long as i can remember, then a little over two months ago, she told me she returned my feelings. until this point, she had said she was ... (302 words)

How do you women feel about older men?

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2 July 2008 (M)

age - How do you women feel about older men? Do you usually date younger or men older than you are?... (19 words)

Why can't I walk down the street without feeling threatened by every other woman?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

2 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm with my boyfriend two years, and he is absolutely wonderful. I am very much in love with him and believe he feels the same. We have recently moved in together, and are planning our future together. Although this all sounds wonderful, I seem to have set myself upon a ro... (497 words)

I need makeup tips to start the 8th grade!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to start wearing makeup. Like eyeshadow, mascara, eyeliner and lipgloss. I'm pretty sure my mom will approve because I'M GOING INTO 8TH GRADE!! ***I REALLY need LOTS of tips and advice!!!!*** PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!!! xoxo... (41 words)

Is there a cure for split ends? My hair looks like it has died!!

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2 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is there a cure for spit ends cause i have a million i dont want to get 5 inches cut off but my hair looks so dead!.. i used to use a straitener alot and thats why i think i have so many!! any solutions?... (45 words)