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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell my family I'm bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, Basically Im 16 and Ive recently discovered im bisexual. Im Not out yet, except to a few close friends. I really want to tell my family, and get the whole thing off my chest, but almost my whole family are homophobic. I have a gay cousin who is thought of as a freak ... (107 words)

Any time I think I about something I care about or someone who cares about me, I get a weird feeling in my stomach and the joints of my right hand. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Not really a, relationship, dating, love or sex question, but tied in in a way. Any time I think about something I love actually showing signs they care about me, or just a friend, I get a weird feeling in my stomach, and a similar feeling in the joints of my fingers. I k... (94 words)

Am I rushing things or should I keep trying to have children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old female. I don't work (in between jobs) and I don't go to school. I live on my own with my boyfriend. I have been in long term relationships and was once in love. I have known my current boyfriend for three years and we have been dating for a few months. ... (167 words)

Is it normal to get aroused by pantyhose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to get sexually aroused by the feeling of womans panty hoes. I'm very much addicted to them and like masturbating with them. Is that normal to be sexually addicted to them. what do you think?... (38 words)

Not even a birthday present from my boyfriend. What am I worth to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

- It was my birthday last weekend. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. He's a very sweet guy, but not very good when it comes to suprises for me, or buying gifts ahead of time. I was over at his parent's house the day before my birthday and everyone in his family ... (207 words)

Is there any hope for me and my Ex? Do I have any chance of having her back in my life as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - First a little background information I am a 24 year old male and my ex is two years older than me. We met though a mutual friend and at first did not really see much attraction I was the quiet guy that did not talk much. At a party last year we caught each other’s eye and ... (1261 words)

I have never found true love, but why can't a nice man find me?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age - I feel quite "depressed" I have never found true love even at my age. I was married young and it lasted a few years but I loved him and in hindsight not sure if he ever did love me and I have had dates and male friends - bu-rt do you know no one has ever really loved me. ... (194 words)

I need to meet new people. Where's the best place to meet girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to get out and meet some new people (particularly girls) but i dont know the places to go or what to do when i get there. any advice?... (31 words)

Please help me with my problems of love, blame, forgiveness, grudges, responsibility and craziness. Thank you.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, this might be a little bit of a long story leading up to my question. but i feel it's neccasary to tell it before i ask the question. so if you don't have time to read the story before the question don't even bother answering it. :] thanks. well, about two years a... (1001 words)

I'm fed up with the way my boyfriend treats me. I don't know why I can't walk away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two months and im fed up of the way he treats me. He doesnt ever take me out or do anything with me. The thing is when we spend time together he makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. I feel so special when were alone. Its ... (119 words)

He sort of half asked me to marry him by doing a text and not sending it but showing me instead. Then he acts like I've said no. I'm really confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was wondering if anoyne could maybe help ok ill get to the point me and my bf have been together for 2year and 5mnth like evrey relationship weve had are ups and downs but we get on really well it was his birthday not so long ago i didnt have much money so we planned to... (366 words)

My new boss changed my life for the better, we are friends. Should I confess my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My life was way bad for most of the last 15+ years of my life.9 months ago I got a new Boss 15 years my senior.And she made a huge change in my life,for the better.I was finally happy.she paid so much attention to me I felt great.Now she has stopped.And I am instantly the same ... (101 words)

My online date cut contact with me after 2 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age - I talk to a guy on-line dating we meant , were seeing each other a few times a week , texing and enjoying each other company . then he stop answering my tex and when I asked him what was wrong he said his ex came back from florda . I didn't even know he had an ex plus he just ... (78 words)

Please, could you give me advice on how to lose weight? Particularly the areas of the stomach and face worry me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi can you give me some advice on how to lose weight, i dont want to loose alot, im 17 and nearly 10 stone and before i was only 9 n half at the max! I have started cutting out some foods, just trying to eat 3 meals a day because i did used to eat alot of stuff in between whih ... (231 words)

We're in love with each other but he has a girlfriend he does not want to hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am in love with this guy and he loves me too but he has a girlfriend he has dated for two years now and he dont wanna hurt her what do i do?... (33 words)

I'm so confused, what should I say to him, does he really love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey im having trouble..! cuz i realli like this guy who is 16 and im only 14 but i have been snoging him for a bit now..! he's really nice but we're not goin out together.! nd already he told me he loves me and i always say it back cause i do . and a few nights when hes been... (238 words)

We've recently gotten into ugly fights to were he kicks me out of the house, should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend who I've been with for three and a half years. I had our first son In January 2007, and a little after that it's been weird. I have a son from a previous relationship who is now 5 years old. But my current boyfriend has been there since my son was 2. I've ... (358 words)

Ladies, could I have your opinion? Is she interested in me or is it something else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been out of the dating game for quite a bit of time now and recently decided to jump back in. As a guy I seem to find it fairly difficult to read the signs of a female. I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we started to talk on and off and see each other rando... (341 words)

I worry that I am just something "to do" while he saves up the money to emigrate... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!I have been seeing my boyfriend for about four and a half months before we met he spent a lot of time traveling around the world he keeps saying that in a couple of years he may go off for good as he does not want to settle down in England but then says that at the mome... (215 words)

My boyfriend is 22 but acts childishly; he hasn't changed though he said he would...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

- I have been with my guy for nearly a year,hes 22 but acts like a child and it really annoys me. For example he'll make stupid nosies,and do stupid voices all the time,hell start clapping really loudly for no reason what so ever and he does immature things all the time. Ive told ... (116 words)

I want to be with this married guy but I'm in a long term and have a daughter, I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiance for 6 years. we have a 2 year old daughter and i love him but i'm not sure i'm in love with him anymore. i recently met a guy online and after a little talkin i finally met him. i can't stop thinking about him the only problem we're both in long ter... (88 words)

If I find a new guy will it make my ex realise how much he likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends recently broke up with me, but I know he is still into me. It is a long story, but he pretty much broke up with me because he was scared. I am not sure if it is because he knew I was falling in love with him or if he fell for me. He is always doing things to get ... (141 words)

My friend went out with a guy she knew I liked. Now he's interested in me, but I'm afraid it will upset my friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so. my best friend went out once with a guy that she knew i really liked him, but i told her i was ok because i wanted them both to be happy. she also really liked him but recently he has been talking to me alot more and has implied that he likes me. my friend knows he likes me ... (249 words)

I found out that my best friend and my girlfriend had been sleeping together. Am I going to spend the rest of my life dwelling on my failed friendship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I found out last spring that my best friend and now-girlfriend had been sleeping together for 3 months and had kept this from me. My gf and I weren't together when it happened, but my best friend knew she and I had unspoken feelings for each other. They both kept it from me, ... (415 words)

All the guys I like are way out of my league. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont understand life anymore... i often feel so ugly because i dont have a boyfriend...all my friends do,and when they leave me (or shud i say ditch...) for their other half i feel like im a sad waste for a teenager.. its like all the guys i DO like are way outa my leg... (82 words)

I'm too shy to flirt. What do I do to let him know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...so I like this guy and I dont think he knows (im too shy to flirt!!) but something gives me the feeling that he does (- but i dont wanna be too out there incase im rejected- i'll feel like a fool...summer breaks coming...and so i wont see him for a while and i just want ... (69 words)

Did my sister and mum overreact to my jokey comment?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with my sister .. well before two days i was eating dinner with my friend then my sister walked in and said yay i want some i winked to my friend and said to my sister there is a little you can't eat -i was kidding- then she got mad and went to mum and mum came ... (176 words)

He still watches porn but we have sex very rarely, then he is only focused on his own pleasure and there is no foreplay, etc. We talked about these in vain...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help I am at my witts end! My partner has gone off sex. Well he has kind of, as he still enjoys watching porn, he just has gone off sex with me. I am 26 and my partner 27.We have been together for nearly 8 years and are happy in every other way. I love him very mu... (483 words)

I foolishly told him I love him because I thought he needed some love; what can I do to mend my mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age - I recently told a man I loved him becasue he had been through some bad stages in his life and thought he needed some love. I meant well but of course naturally he doesnt like it,which I can understand, so now I have lost him as a friend. I KNOW it was a daft Ithing to say, I ... (180 words)

How do I show this guy I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I really really really like! I'm not in any of his classes..but we sometimes talk at school and smile at each other (we text more then we speak, - but we don't text everyday....) Should I text him sayng I like him? or not? what should I say? If ... (77 words)

When should I sleep with a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age - Can women ever win? Men seem to think "you" have to have sex with them straight away but then if you do -they think you are easy. If you don't have sex with them and make them wait- they don't like it and go elsewhere. Men themselves in the past have said never never slee... (131 words)

Help! My boyfriend's ex is flirting with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me My boyfriend's ex is flirting with him and he is flirting back. He hasn't been very nice me but is all over her and they hang around together. PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!... (45 words)

We seem to have nothing to say to one another and I can't handle the bitterness any longer, is this the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfreind for 2 years we have been arguing and irritating each other for 2 months now. It started really as he got a new job as a manager and has been coming home around 9 pm at night. At first i thought maybe he was cheating, but as he calls me... (243 words)

Can men just think of SEX without getting emotionally involved? Even knowing that person for a long time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can any male reader tell me ,is it possible for a guy to get attracted to a friends wife and even u know her for almost 5 yrs ,and is this attraction is sheer physical or lil emotion is also there as he came close to me when I was low like hell and use to start with my 1st peg ... (115 words)

My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped in front of me on two occasions. Do I tell her mother?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age - My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped naked in front of me on two occassions and i am confused as to tell her mother or not.... (27 words)

From a guy's perspective, is it worth playing hard to get?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - From a guys perspective, is it worth playing hard to get? As a girl, I was always taught that men are chasers and hunters and girls should play hard to get b/c this will make men like them, because its very true that people want things that they cant have. But as a psych s... (119 words)

How do I tell my parents that I am gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old gay who has no idea when or how to tell my parents I'm gay. When should I tell them and how. All of my close friends know so I have something to fall back on if they don't take it well. Thanks to anyone who has any ideas.... (54 words)

How do you know breaking up was the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know if you have done the right thing in breaking up with a long term partner? Ive been unhappy with our relationship for a while, (the things he does and doesnt do etc) but i have also been unhappy with myself for a while too. im not sure if ive broken up with h... (214 words)

Is there a vibrator-like device that could be strapped on the clitoris during intercourse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering if there is any toy available that allows a simultaneous clitoral stimulation during intercourse? I know that we could stick a vibrator on the clit during intercourse but the vibrator usually gets in the way and I would like to have free hands and not have to ... (82 words)

What did I do or where did I go wrong? This man has me VERY confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age - I recently met a man on holiday. We became friends and had some good fun but no sex although he kept giving out clear remarks thats what he wanted. He gave me his home address and e mail, and we emailed a few times. He came to the city where I live on a training day the... (655 words)

UPDATE- we fight a lot, but could it still work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just had a break up, my boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We still have feelings for each other,but we have been fighting a lot. I have now figured out that the fighting has mostly but not always been because of me. I am insecure and not very confident. The ... (308 words)

How can I find out if my depressed exgirlfriend really wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'll keep it short. My ex girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me 3 months ago. She was suffering with depression and she couldn't handle a relationship with me anymore. She told me she still cares deeply for me but she feels too selfish to worry about anyone else. ... (254 words)

I worry about shaving my pubic area... how can my friends do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, 1. I am 16 and a 32D. All my friends are sizes 30F or 32F etc. I am scared i don't get any bigger because i haven't changed in a year. I am really worried. 2. Recently my friends have been speaking about shaving their pubic hair and one said that they shave all t... (80 words)

Why would my ex keep in contact with me if he lives with another woman, and did I do right in telling him to stay away?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

18 July 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Hi Dear Cupid, please could you help me with my problem. Any advice would be gladly appreciated. After 18years me and my partner have broken up. He has been living with another woman for the last two years, but he has been in regular contact with me. At first I thou... (220 words)

Is it possible to suffer morning sickness so early and is it possible to concieve 2 days before the period is due?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I didnt see my partner for 6 weeks and then slept with her 2 days before her period was due and then 5 days later she said she was being sick in the mornings and thought she was pregnant.she says she done a test 9 days after the suppossed conception and got a positeve result. ... (118 words)

My husband seems to be addicted to Asian men in porn - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28, and my husband's 32. In the past few weeks his lack of sex drive is killing our relationship. He'd also been spending excessive time on the computer. I only found out why after he'd left the computer screen on - he'd been looking at Asian porn. It wasn't the usual ... (161 words)

My new boyfriend, my new life and the ex ... HELP !!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi since 5 monthes that im with my aktuell boyfriend my ex relationship was a disaster we wanted to married we were together 3 years and he cheat me ... And its was very dificult for me to accept my new boyfriend we meat each other on vacations on my home country and he follow ... (1060 words)

After 5 years is this going anywhere? Am I more than a friend to this guy, or am I being used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be kinda long, but its very important and I will not include details I think are unimportant. My basic question is, am I more than a friend to this guy, or am I just being used. Okay heres the details. Okay I met Damien* 5 years ago this November. I firs... (1548 words)

Can going to the gym ONCE on a serious work out make ANY visible difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Exactly what the title says really, my friend has a free pass for the gym and told me to go with her to give it a try, I am allowed to stay as long as I want for the day at the gym, and I know this is a stupid question but I just wanted to double check really, Is it... (94 words)

Why do I behave this way - ruining other people's relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Before I say what I'm going to say, I would really appreciate it if harsh comments were not written here, I really would just appreciate advice and such, rather than things that I do not wish to hear as I probably already expect it out of some people. I am ... (438 words)

Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need people's advice on this. I am 21 and have been with my bf for 3 years, we have broken up before twice both times because i wanted to. My bf is loving, caring, always puts me first, but is quiet and doesnt socialise much unless its with me and he finds it hard to ... (191 words)

I'm looking for a man's perspective of what the female orgasm feels like . . . .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When I have an orgasm during sex my boyfriend always says he has never felt that (ie the sensations etc) with any other girl and he has been with a number of girls and had a number of gf's and is a very very good lover. Generally when I have an orgasm the "sensations" triggers ... (298 words)

Why can't I bring myself to ask girls out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, ever since i was young (around 8-11) my parents told me to never have a girlfriend or they will kill me :/, my parents USED to abuse me physically and mentally. Anyway, i took this in mind, vowing myself to never go out with a girl. But when i went to high school, it ... (154 words)

Does my friend's husband have a real emotional attachment to me? Or was it just a bit of physical attraction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend ,whom I know since last 4-5 yrs,me n his wife r really gud friend actually all of us (me n my hubby he and his wife)are really close friends .But 2 months back I was alone with him for beer ,then he lost his control once but some how he was ok after a while and ... (261 words)

Should I move on? Or should I wait for him to be ready for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6001 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago and I am still having the hardest time getting over him. I have gone further with him that any other guy, but we haven't had sex. I don't know if it is because of this or if I am in love with him. I only dated this guy for a little ... (223 words)

Do you believe in fate? Will I end up with my ex boyriend if it was supposed to be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive split up with my boyriend of 8 years (a few days ago), we have been together since i was 15, but for the last year or so i have been very unhappy with the way he is and am constantley trying to change him. I love him very much but deep down i feel i will not be happy in the ... (161 words)

Split up with my long term boyfriend, have I done the right thing or do I just find it hard to adjust to the change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I split up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago after many years together because the fun in our relationship has gone (for me anyway) and i cant see myself being happy with him in the the long run like i did once before. He collected all his belongings last night an... (212 words)

Do I tell her I like her or just keep it to myself?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I've been best friends with a girl for nearly a year. I've always been attracted to her, but not until we started to be good friends did I feel a strong attraction. But now she's one of my best friends, and I really like her, but I'm afraid that if I come out and tell ... (76 words)

"Should I stay with someone who is finacially disabled for the word love"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - we've dating for 2 yrs now my problem is that he is having a poor backround family and works for a non paying company,I'm 26 yrs and i wish get married to someone who is going to be able to do something like buying a house but if i am going to marry this i just for see disaster ... (131 words)

I lied and cheated on her, but she is still with me after 3 years, does this mean she really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - a friend of mine told me about someone he was so crazy about but he was too scared to make the first move, so when i saw that i just went to her to propose love,my point at that time i was having a girlfriend but couldn't miss someone so cool and beautiful at first i was just ... (230 words)

I was wondering if I should end it and never look back this time because he cannot keep a promise...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy now for exactly 2 months. And he's really great, offers to help me out no matter what kind of trouble I get into. But when we make plans for him to come and see me he never shows up. When I call him the night before to make our plans even more clea... (160 words)

Should I pretend and carry on with her till she gets bored and breaks up or should I be honest and tell her I lied?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6001 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I might appear a heartless flirt, but I really don't mean to hurt her. I couldn't bring myself to accept the fact that after 1 and a half years with the girl I love so much, we still would have to break up. I'd give her the world, and I swore she meant everything to me... (206 words)

The new boss transferred some of my jobs to my colleagues, I'm disappointed, should I leave the company after 10 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I have been working in this company for more than 10 years as an admin assistant. For the past few years, everything was fine, busy but happy working everyday,unfortunately ever since my ex-managers were traveled back to headquater, new manger came, he is a demanding boss, pe... (257 words)

I don't know why I cannot cum while masterbating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old male, and I cannot cum while masterbating. I have went through puberty. I don't know why I cannot cum while masterbating... could something be wrong with me? large testicles, that hang down kind of low, would that cause this? Thanks to anyone who can answer ... (52 words)

Could it all be stress because I'm scared to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok for a week now i've been having all the signs of starting my period like breaking out more than usual and i've been really emotional. But i've not started yet and it seems like i'm really late. My boyfriend and i always use a condom and hes never came in me but could this ... (69 words)

Any good food for losing weight, that you could recommend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've recently decided that its time to loose a few pounds, meaning like 30 or so. I'm not obese, but i do have a little extra fat around my stomach and thighs... I've been working out like running and doing ab things, but do any of you know like food i can eat to help loose ... (59 words)

Why is he still with me? Can he change? I swear I can't leave him...

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18 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Why, WHY is my boyfriend still dating me? I love him and have forgiven all the crap he's put(ting) me through... and I'm still with him because I love him and because if he's still with me then I have the hope that he'll eventually change. Ok, he's a very jealous guy. H... (517 words)

Should I be nervous or will high school be fun?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really nervous of going to high school and i want to lose about 20 pounds and then buy some better clothes should i be nervous or will high school be fun? are girls really that mean to each other for no reason like in the movies? i need help to calm me down... (55 words)

What do you do if your parents don't want you to date?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to start dating guys but what if your parents dont want you to yet and what if they tease you about liking boys what should i do?... (29 words)

He only comes to see me when I have money, why can't I leave him? Is this love?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to know why am I doing this repeated. My boyfriend, he fights with me over money, takes every penny I have to the last drop just to get what he wants. Realised now that he is married with a 1 year son and he claims to be married bcos of his status in this country ... (307 words)

Why are women expected to degrade themselves for men's pleasure, but not vice versa?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I do not understand why it is almost expected of women to degrade themselves to please men when men won't do the same for us. Men's minds are so poisoned by the porn industry that they think it is NORMAL for women to take it in the ass and so on. I often do what I find ... (160 words)

I am very attracted to a sweet, nerdy guy, thing is, I want to date him, he likes me according to friends, my problem is, if I date him, I don't want him to tell a lot of people, is this mean?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really fancy a guy, I haven't seen him in a few weeks so i texted him. He hasn't replied and I think he may be on holiday. But his friends tol me he liked me. The thing is he is a bit of a nerd... and it would destroy my reputation a bit to go out with him, which sounds r... (103 words)

We had sex, in a non private place, resulting in neither of us having an orgasm, will he think I'm bad in bed, and will he embarrass me, by telling his friends?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. ive been seeing a boy for a while now and we had sex together the other day, the problem is it wasnt really a very good environment because people kept knocking on the door and stuff. as a result neither of us came and it wasnt as good as it would have been. im worried ... (142 words)

I have a crush on my job trainer, he and I get along well, but I don't know how to talk to him, any suggentions, he is not too much older than I am?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've just finished training at my new job and I have a crush on my trainer. He isn't much older than me and we got along really well. I don't know how I'm going to talk to him now since I'm night shift and he is day shift but he is on my facebook. How should i go about ... (134 words)

My boyfriend is going to finger me, I want to know how do I behave during the session, any suggestions would be helpful?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and hes going to finger me like really soon. and i ahvent done anything like that so im nervous on like what to do. like what do i do while hes fingering me? after do i give gim something? any help would be great. thanks.... (56 words)

I like this boy, he wants to have sex, he has genital warts, I am reluctant, can I get them by kissing him?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm falling for this boy. We've been seeing each other for about 8/9 months, and I feel like this is a serious relationship.. however he's brought up doing sexual activities, because he's says he really loves me (wants to get married some day) and thinks we're rea... (93 words)

What does it mean, to blow in the ear, I am clueless, please answer?

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18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean to blow in the ear?... (9 words)

My friend got a boyfriend, and I feel like I've been replaced.

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18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I use to be real close friends with this girl we were best friends. A part me likes her. and the other loves her like a family. but recently she got a bf. and it seems she replaced me. adn so me and her drifted apart, mainly because i couldn't stand watching them together... (224 words)

My husband spends too much time with the neighbours and hardly any with me!

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18 July 2008 (F)

age - My husband works long days and when he gets home, he wants to spend time with the kids from the neighbors or just hang out with the neighbor. We talked about this many times, even as recent as a week ago when he and the neighbor stayed up until 2 a.m. drinking in their ... (230 words)

Am I wrong to be upset? His friends talk crap about me when they have never even met me!

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for roughly a year now. We'll call him A. A and I have an all around great relationship except for a few things here and there. Whats bothering me the most is that if not all of his friends most of them hate me and talk bad about me to A. They ... (234 words)

Can I get your opinion... how long do you date him before you sleep with him?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Single Adults... After you have started dating someone, when do you think that sex begins to be expected? First week? First month? When? For men, since you are usually the ones most concerned about this topic, what are your personal expectations?... (50 words)

He cheated and lied, I can't get over it!

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so...I've been in a relationship for just short of two years now. In the first three months, the man cheated on me and I did dump him but I've always been forgiving so I took him back. The part that hurt more than his cheating was that at that point in time, he and I w... (393 words)

I think I have an STD. What do I do?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had sex several times with my boyfriend, i know he has had several sexual partners in the past. I am now experiencing slightly odd things, very very mild bleeding and the constant feeling i need the toilet. I'm worried, are these typical symptoms of an STD?... (48 words)

He likes having sex with me but won't commit. What do I do?

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18 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i was wondering if i could get some help... i recently decided to break of a so called open releationship (though there was no sex involved just other stuff)as i didnt want to carry on playing second fiddle to his ex. he always said to me that he wants to be with me just not... (235 words)

My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?

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18 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never disagreed. Now, for some reason, and ... (129 words)