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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've realised now that I want him back, but he's got a girlfriend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of years ago i went out with a man and for ages i felt like i had been pushed into the relationship by his meddling mum, and after a couple of months i decided he wasn't right for me and i dumped him. Skip a year later and his mum died. I wouldnt say i was pleased,... (387 words)

Is it unusual for men my age to be into mature women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am only 18 years old and I really have a thing for much older women i'm talking 50+ I have never been with one as it is very hard to find mature women into men so young. Is it unusual for someone my age to be into this sort of thing?... (52 words)

What does he want when he moves my hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - during foreplay my boyfriend moves my hand towards his penis. What does he want? A full blown hand job or just some touching? If the latter in what way does he want me to touch him? ... (36 words)

I want to break up with my first ever boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so im 15 and i met this dude. We liked each other straight away and started to go out but he likes me ALOT and i dont really like him that much anymore. He was my first ever boyfriend and i think i more liked the feeling of being close to someone. But now i dont want to go ... (94 words)

These panic attacks are ruining my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, thx for reading. Basically ive been having panic attacks on the tube n buses n car (newhere travelling) for 2 and a half years and i was able to control it better, until a week ago i had the worse ones ever and was stuck in between my journey and felt i could ... (349 words)

I'm really nervous when it comes to making out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 weeks and basically im really quite nervous when it comes to making out, im not nervous with other things that people usually are but i am with that and when it comes to making out i get scared and i end up pulling away fro... (82 words)

If we get together, and then break up, will it affect our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been friends with a boy since toddler group and playschool and then our first year at school ( year reception ) Then i hadnt seen him in about 7 years but when i started senior school in year seven he was there and we were automatically friends, Were in the same tutor group ... (134 words)

I want to lose my virginity but don't know where...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have found someone that i really like and want to lose my virginity to, but i dont where i should lose my virginty. I love the idea of doing it in a bed and then falling asleep and waking up together but im only 13 and live my parents and 2 siblings how can we get enough ... (70 words)

I was sleeping with my boss, we broke up, I miss him, but my friends will disown me if I get back with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a slight issue in that recently I have been sleeping with my ex-boss who I used to work with. Doesn't sound too bad yet, however he is eleven years older than me (I'm 18), many of the people at work hated him, my best friend basically ignored me for choosing to do it and ... (164 words)

My ex initiated contact and is now ignoring me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex got back in touch with me after a long time of no contact at all. I spoke to him that once and now he won't reply to my messages. i know he is ignoring me but i don't know why. I hate this waiting around wondering if he will ever reply. i don't understand why h... (79 words)

I was abused by my older brother when I was younger and I can't move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was young I was abused by my older brother, he told me that it was all ok and it's a game that older men play. This happend on many different occasions. Im a male, 20 years of age and ashamed and scared of life. I cant get a girl friend and if i get close to a girl I ... (117 words)

I feel like the world is in color and I am in black and white

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like the world is in color and I am in black and white. I have a great job, my child attends a great school, I have a beautiful house, no real money issues, and yet I want to sub my husband for someone, anyone, else. I am pretty, smart, and super fun to be around. He ... (298 words)

My number 2's are often messy...How can I have normal poops??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Not a love question, more related to health... Ok, this is going to sound really gross. But I can't ask anyone else. Whenever I do a number 2, it's always really soft and messy. How can I have normal poo's?? I'm fit and healthy, have a pretty good diet (no junk foo... (99 words)

Embarassed about gingery brown pubic hair...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have gingery brown pubic hair although my natural hair colour is dark brown...I've always been really embarassed about this because when I was at school, kids would always make fun of 'ginger pubes'. Now I'm 25, and no man has ever seen me in the light without knickers... (69 words)

My boyfriend is so needy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a complicated relationship with my boyfriend. He always seems to be sad and disappointed that I can not spend time with him more than he would like. I told him the reason why I can not always spend time with him and I said that later on in our future, if our love is ... (204 words)

My ex had a drug habit which he is overcoming...Can we have an adult, fulfilling relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy for 5 months. I'm 25, and can honestly say I truly felt I was in love with him. We were from totally different backgrounds and he is totally the opposite of the usual type of guy I go for, but we worked so well together. He treated me with such respect, I was ... (459 words)

I'm gay, I've fallen for my best friend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

6 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi well im using my twin sisters account here. basically i am gay and iv fallen for ona of my best friends. im 16 years old and in year 9. im not out of the closet yet but i think i want to come out soon as i find it too hard to keep it a secret. basically theres this guy ... (323 words)

She says I have to get myself together before we can get back together, I don't understand...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Sandy..i am a bisexual..i just got out of a 2 year relationship with my girlfriend..it was mostly because of me and my attitude..we see each other once in a while..i want to make it work,..i love her and i know she loves me but she wants to give it time..she wants to ... (158 words)

Is he just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he stringing me along?? theres this guy at work that has been working with us for just 4 or 5 weeks now, but he has helped out at our shop at before too! when he came to our store at i remember fancying him loads and always making excuses to go and talk to him but i just d... (385 words)

He's been emailing a girl on his Bebo, should I be mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my boyfriend has a bebo account, myspace,facebook accounts etc... he gave me the password he uses for all dem before to change stuff for him ages ago and doesnt mind me goin on his page. so i logged on 2night to change stuff and went into his bebo mail, and found emails from ... (123 words)

How do I trim "doen there"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could give me tips on how to give a good trim 'down there'? like how short, what equipment, etc.; i'm too afraid to shave please!... (35 words)

What are good factors in a relationship to keep you together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - Apart from sexual chemistry WHAT should a couple have in common to make a good relationship. My boyfriend has just split with me although our sex life was great (he said so) and obviously he msut not have loved me as much BUT his reasons he thought long term or marriage we ... (80 words)

I'm obsessing over his ex and it's becoming a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there,i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now.i love him very much and i know he loves me. the problem is im always scratching thru his things to find out what he and his ex got up too.im worried this is becoming an obsession now cos im doing it almost evryday.the ex ... (150 words)

I'm in such a rocky relationship, how do I smooth things over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey you guys I need some help now me and my girl have been together for 2 and half years I'm 18 and she's 17 now even though she wasn't my first I consider her my first love we fight alot And Have been separated 4 times since we been together but only for like a month each time ... (237 words)

I'm dating a guy at work but h wants to keep it a secret, but is he falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am messing around with this guy from work for 6 months now. He has been really hard to understand, sometimes he wants me there and sometimes he doesn't (which i can understand he needs some space, time alone). But when we are together he's respectul, funny, shows me a good ... (139 words)

I always attract guys who are attatched...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Users i have a problem i seem to be attracting guys that are already spoken for and not sure what to do , my sis bf tried it years ago i spoke up and was called a liar bros and sis's not got on with me for ages i have recently been cracked on to my my future husnbands bro in... (94 words)

I don't want to masturbate but I ejaculate when I'm asleep, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i dont feel like masturbating, but i come while sleeping, is it normal?... (13 words)

I'm a drama queen in relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear aunty What can I say, love is somewhat one of those misteries that I do not seem to understand. Firstly I am typical drama queen when it comes to relationships, mature in my work life but a child sometimes in my personal, I blame my pass but how can I take to my futur... (249 words)

Bruising after sex, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hey :) Great site you have here... Okay well basically me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday... all went well and we were fine (i wasnt a virgin, he was) and all was fine until today when i showered and found bruising...anyone have any ideas on why this was? any answers wo... (59 words)

I cheated on my wife with a prostitute, did I want to get caught?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I used porn which led to massage which led to prostitution which led to a lot of prostitution. Same story told many times over. I was caught and there is a school of thought that I wanted that to happen. I brought a prostitute to our apartment and there were hand prints on t... (619 words)

Didn't think I was that into him, now we've broken up, he's messing me about but I want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Was with my boyfd for 7 months, unsure about him a first, then started to like him more and more. He always appeared to be more into him. Suddenly one day, said he was having doubts. However, not brave enough to actually break up, eventually ended up with me having to do it. ... (159 words)

I've come to the point where I feel like I'm relying on him,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I think Im losing myself. Basically things in the past have happened between me and my married boss (I realise the effects and consequences of this etc,but if you please, this is not the point I wish to discuss now). Basically we slept together a few months ago and stuff, a... (250 words)

A married man has said he is interested in me, and I am interested in him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All A married man wants me to have an affair with him. He told me he was married straight away and that the decison was mine to make. I really liked him instantly and thats never happend to me before. I know that it's wrong but i dont think i can help myself. help ple... (59 words)

I received a mysterious phone call to say that a collegue who I have never spoken to doesn't like me...!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

6 July 2008 (F) age 41-50 - This is not a love question but are needing advice. I travel 3 days a week on a train to my job, some times i see the same employee called simon may be twice in 2 weeks i have never spoken to him and he has never spoken to me,the other day i received a private number o... (111 words)

We haven't had sex in 6 months and he won't give me a reason...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for nearly 3 yrs and living together for about a year, the thing is we haven't had sex in 6 months. Im getting sick of asking him, Ive tried everything and he just keeps giving me excuses. ive tried to ask hiom what is wrong but he just shruggs it ... (100 words)

I had trouble in my marriage and began chatting to someone else, he gave me emotional abuse for the following 17 months, telling me he hoped I get cancer, how do I report him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age - i have no idea where to start,i was married 22 years was in the middle of a divorce,srtarted chatting to this fellow online,we got really close decided we were going to meet, just befour we did, we had an argument,he said he cancelled his flight i said ok i would fly to canada ... (288 words)

My boyfriend hasn't ejaculated in a while, the next time he does will he split the condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question, if my guy hasn't ejaculated in a while does that mean he will bust the condom or am I jus bein paranoid... (26 words)

I suffer very badly from anxiety and my boyfriend doesn't help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. I have terrible anxiety. to the point where I cant do anything until I feel not so worried anymore. I havent hardly eaten because I cant keep food down because my stomach goes into knotts. I get the shakes real bad. Its just a mess for me. The problem is partly m... (212 words)

I don'r know how to act around my boyfriend - he is my first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to act around him. I'm so shy that its not funny. He calls me "beautiful" always says he loves me, he is a total sweetheart. But I don't do anything back.. is that bad? What am i meant to say? Do i call him "beautiful" or "gorgeous... (101 words)

My boyfriend won't kiss with tongues or go down on me, and won't explain why (but he's quite happy for me to go down on him!)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - How come my boyfriend does not want to french kiss nor do oral sex on me? I have tried t kiss him using my tongue and he won't let me and he won't go down on me but he loves when I do oral sex on him. I have asked him but he doesn't want to answer me and always tries to ... (89 words)

I have fallen for a guy at work, he's married, now I'm being transferred, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - a few months ago i started falling for a guy at work.i haven't stopped thinking bout him since. when i was around him it felt like the whole world melted away, leaving just us.i knw i'm only young but no guy has ever made me feel as special. but he was married, still i... (128 words)

My ex and I are talking again and still have feelings for each other, but he still talks to other girls...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and I are talking again we've been dating 4yrs now and we recently started talking again we've had alot of arguments and rough times i'm 20 and he's 28 right now we're trying to work at things but he's still talking to other girls aswell as i am talking to other guys we ... (210 words)

Need to lose some weight fast, before my holiday!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im looking for some advice. im going on holidays in 10 days and am desperate to loose a little weight fast!! ive been thinking of taking some effergines, can anybody recommend how many a day, or an alternative even, rather than using effergines. also con anybody tell me the ... (56 words)

Dating this guy...Then he seems to vanish into thin air!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for approximately six weeks things were going fine between us. We spoke every other day two or three times and it was mostly him calling me. He showed genuine interest in me. We are both Cancers and our birthdays are approaching we made plans to get ... (244 words)

My girlfriend said I took her virginity, but I read her diary and it appears she lied...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfreind clams that i took her virginity but her diary say different and she also lived with a guy for a year in a one bedroom apt before we met. at first she told me that she was with 8 people before we met but when i flip out about it she changed it to being a vergin and ... (86 words)

I'm attractive but have very low self esteem, I'm too scared to date again in case they reject me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay I'm a good looking girl (I am told) and throughout my twenties have never been short of offers. I've had two serious relationships. both ended by me due to different reasons. Got with a guy who was into his alcohol and as a result, this affected my self-esteem as he would... (714 words)

Should I divorce him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - should i divorce my husband? he always shouts at me, never wanting to spend time or talk to me and he puts everything else before the relationship.... (28 words)

Everyone says he likes me, but when we leave school, he ignores me...?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy that i like and every one was pretty sure he liked me but now when we're at school he acts normally but the minute we get out of school he ignores me. i dont hang out with him, but we both go to the same place after with our different groups of mates. He blanks ... (140 words)

What should I do with this guy...do I say "look if its game set and match" please just tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - Met a man on a recent holiday as friends he wanted more but although I did fancy him didnt do anything because I dont normally on holidays. We e mailed each other a few times and in some he has told me what he thought and got cross with me, not blaming him, but now he is not ... (280 words)

This guy has been playing me like a violin! I don't know who I am any more. How do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Solve my problem pls!! I want a solution! I need a solution! I need it now!! THis guy has been playing me like a violin! I tried to end it but I keep going back when he calls me... we weren't even in a relationship because he has issues. I am a really nice girl... really ... (329 words)

After I worked so hard to keep our relationship together-he tells me he wants to break up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in relationship with my boyfriend for now 2years.. I'm 17 and he is 18, everything was perfect till the last 6 months when we started to row and things like that..he said it is because he didn't know if he loved me anymore, because i wasn't treating him good before.. ... (322 words)

Circumcised masturbation - any ideas?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, and gals =) I'm 14 (Turning 14 in 2 months wooohoo Learners license :D) Any who me and my gf have been going out for a month now and she's already given me a dry handjob of sorts :) Anyway I'm circumcised and I can still "Jerk off" But I use a knuckle move... sorta ha... (195 words)

I'm scared my friend's boyfriend will ruin our friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend has this boyfriend, I am happy for her and she deserves to have a boyfriend who is devoted and wont treat her like trash, but it seems that she way more concerned about impressin him than spending time with me and our little group, she ignores us and sometimes ... (153 words)

A bright yellow orange liquid on the toilet paper had me worried. What was it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - About 6 months ago, when I went to the bathroom to do a "number 2" i noticed some bright yellowy orangish liquid on the toilet paper after I had wiped. i am 14, have not got my period and have never had sex. this hasn't happened again and i have been feeling relatively normal ... (62 words)

I want to clean properly down there, and I'm not sure the best way to do it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - How do you properly clean your vagina? Like i knOw that people always say its a self cleaning organ and stuff, but i use a gentle cleanser and then rinse with warm water in the shower every night, and keep my pubic hair short. How do you clean the inside of your vagina? I jsut ... (83 words)

I get very emotional reading questions and answers here. I feel I'll never be in love.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - hey i am a 14 year old girl. i ahve noticed that lately i have been really emotional, like jsut a sec ago i was reading a question that ssays "what is love?" and i was reading the answers and i felt like "ill never be in love! ill never find a guy who loves me!" and i jsut feel ... (142 words)

I need advice on antibiotics and contraceptives, and I can't find the answer anywhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just a quick question...not really about relationships but I've looked for information everywhere on the internet and can't find an answer. I hope someone can help! I've been put on a short course of antibiotics (5 days) which coincides with my week off the contraceptiv... (142 words)

I'm going through a relationship crisis and I need to know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am currently going thru a relationship crisis with my partner. We've been together 7yrs now. The issue is his lack of sexual desire! I find this very hard to cope with. It has been 5mths since we were last sexual and I can no longer handle this. We have a 7mths ol... (181 words)

My boyfriend's ex wife still contacts him. It's all starting to bother me. Am I just a jealous cow?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My issue is my boyfriends ex wife. They divorced well over twelve years ago. They got married young - they did not have kids together. She is with somebody now and has a kid with her partner. She is friends with my boyfriends sister and they work together. I think he has m... (321 words)

I am in love, but they have a girlfriend. Someone likes me and I don't like them. Have I just left everything too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am love with somebody but they have just got a new girlfriend, their is somebody who likes me but i dont like them, i just wish i had told the first guy that i liked him but somebody told me that they thought he was married,which i have found out he is not, is it too late to ... (81 words)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

- Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went to a party on friday that he... (915 words)

My wife and I prefer different styles: I'm into wild sex and she - the romantic type. Could we meet half way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there, my Q is me and my wife both love to have sex all the time but im really into wild fetish porn sex and she is into really romantic sex....and we both try to get into one or the others moods but it just doesnt work out right. any help?? ... (52 words)

My soon-to-be-ex husband sent me a text telling me I wasn't to look at him or speak to him when he picks up the children. Should I just toughen up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age - I posted a question a few week ago about my soon to be ex husband not speaking to me or having anything to do with me because of lies I told in the past. I got lots of great replies with people saying it is a waiting game, just give it more time. This weekend is contact weekend ... (321 words)

He's addicted to porn but he's perfect in every other way. I don't know what to do.

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm pretty depressed right now. I've been with my 42 year old boyfriend for 3.5 years. I am 40. At the start of our relationship he was upfront about his porno tapes. About 6 months later when feelings started developing I became insecure with it and told him. He offered ... (354 words)

32, I live at home and I keep changing careers. Will it put guys off me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Will guys avoid pursuing a long-term relationship with me (even though I'm gorgeous, smart, sweet) b/c I'm 32 yet still live at home (since I keep switching careers)?... (28 words)

I took my wife back, but now there's no affection from her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age - i have been married for 36 year my wife left me 5 years ago for someone she meet on the internet after a lot of crap i did settlement and tryed to get on with my life, it didnot work out for her i think and when we meet i took her back i love her but now it like i can not do ... (78 words)

My boyfriend feels I make him violent. I'm fiery, but I want to know where this relationship is going.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have known my boyfriend nearly 3 years now and most of the time its ok but every now and then we have terrible rows and I sometimes see his face changes and his body language as if he is pretty tempted to hit me. He has shoved me and once gripped my shoulder way too tight ... (308 words)

Bleeding when I have sex. Why is this happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, im 21 yours old and was a virgin till about 6 months ago. atm when i have sex i start to bleed and i can feel a clicking feeling. i dont no y this is happening and it has never been like this b4 can anybody help me find out y this is happening?... (55 words)

Me and my cousin are flirting a lot. I want to have sex with her...

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - okay i am 15 and my cousin is 14 and every time we're together i can't stop thinking about her and we always flirt every time we're together like at our family cottage me her and my sister slept in the top floor of our bunkhouse and me and her were flirting like mad and i ... (137 words)

Which boy should I reject? My ex or this other guy?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy that i like and he also likes me. we make each other laugh all the time and we always hang out. But there is this other guy that i was going out with in the past and he says we still go out but i don't really like him as much as i use to becauses he acts like ... (107 words)

How can I leave this guy? He does nothing to help out!

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6 July 2008 (F)

age - How do I leave my boyfriend of 5 years and two living together. He refuses to work more than two days a week and plays video or is on the computer from the moment he wakes up until he goes to sleep. When I tell him a man must work he tells me I am being sexist. I have been laid ... (188 words)

We fooled around and now I need advice before I can get a pregnancy test

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here it goes. On june 19 me and my boyfriend were fooling around at his place, clothes on. Lol. And well he went to the restroom to "relieve" himself by masterbating. Well after he was done, he wiped his hands off quickly of his hmm how can I put this without sounding ... (233 words)

He enjoyed the lap dance last time, but doesn't seem to want one again. How can I get his approval?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a few months ago i gave my bf a striptease and a lapdance because i had an urge to do so. He told me i couldnt pull it off but i did and he was so hot for me afterwards that he couldnt keep his hands off me. Well i asked him after if he would like me to do it again sometime but ... (120 words)

I lied and kept things that had happened in past relationships to myself. He dumped me! I want him back!

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating JR 2 months ago we've known each other for 14 years. It might have been quick but I KNOW he's the one. There was much more than just chemistry and passion. It was something that cannot be explained. I don't have the time or space to tell everything we had. W... (641 words)

Is this married man being flirtacious with me?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way a married guy can send signals to a single girl in which he may be interested in something shady without telling it directly? If that is so, what kind of signs are there? I ask this cuz I met a guy a year ago, and being keeping in touch by email. AT the beginnin... (228 words)

He likes me, I like him, want to date, but he's reluctant, what do I do to encourage him?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really interested in this guy that I use to work with. He's 9 years my senior and the man that I've always wanted. After knowing each other a year and a half, I have finally told him that I am interested in him and he told he's felt the same way since we first met and ... (172 words)

Want to show her love, and get her to respond, ...long distance, arranged marriage situation, please help?

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - It’s a arrange marriage, I love her but she don’t. She speaks to me but don’t have feelings, it’s been 3 months we speaking on phone. How to invoke feelings in her heart? 1. I never had girlfriend 2. Don’t know how to show my true love to her 3. She is far away from me and ... (68 words)

Really, really like this nurse, have a lot in common, much older than she, still want to date her, any suggestions?

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6 July 2008 (M)

age - Hello, I've got something that has been burning me up for 2 years. I'm 46m retired from US military. Now I've been around the world once or twice,learned a thing or two. I've never been so enamored with someone as this nurse where I work. One the surface we seem so compa... (138 words)

Hi, big problem maybe! Could I be possibly be pregnant, please help?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello ppl well i need help i need to kno if i am really pregnant well i had my period 2 weeks ago during the third night of my period i had sex ok everything was fine up to about 2 days ago i had been havin slight cramps at nite wen i was goin 2 sleep then i was havin sex nd my ... (140 words)

My boyfriend does not want me to attend karate class, if there are only men in the class, I want to go, should I abide by his wishes?

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6 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Today my bf and I went to a class of karate. We had never practiced any kind of martial art, and we were invited and thought we would give it a try. Another friend of his went, and he had invited his gf, but she was sick so she couldn't go. So it was him, my bf the (male) ... (155 words)

Can watching pornography, while masturbating, affect your sex life in a negative way?

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so Im 15, and ive been watching porn and masturbating since the 5th grade, and was a virgin until this day. I finally found a girl who really likes me, so we go to an area and fool around. I was hard while during the foreplay, but when she began ridin me, i couldnt get hard ... (98 words)

My boyfriend likes to hurt my feelings, because I make less money than he does, it is affecting me, how do I get him to stop?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im beginning to feel really bad about myself. I've been dating my boyfriend for a whike now and I love him in all but sometimes he hurts my feelings. I just started working I got my 1st job working for starbucks, I make about $150 a week after taxes but I work really hard but ... (282 words)

We have petty arguments, she thinks it's always my fault, I love her, but want these arguments to stop, any suggestions?

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok Well im a 26 yr. old male and have been in a relationship with my 26 yr. old fiancee for 5yrs. 6 yrs. in oct.We also have a 4 yr. old son. We have always had small conflict almost completely throughout the entire relationship but lately i just cant figure out what her ... (309 words)

How do I spend more time with her, I like her a lot, but don't want to flirt around friends, help?

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i like this one girl a lot, and i feel like i have to spend more time with her to get her to like me, but whenever im with her and other friends, i dont really like to flirt with her or anything because everyone knows i like her and they always bug me about it. any help? ... (62 words)

Told him I like him in writing, gave him my number, no call at all, he just stares, is he afraid or not interested?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I tell this guy i like him by sending him a note. I give my phone number to him too. he stares at me alot. whenever another girl passes he does notice her wen im around. But so far he has not attempted to call. is this his way of saying he does not like me? even he ... (65 words)

He is my friend's ex, we had sex, dumped my guy for him, he disappeared, now what?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long and complicated situatation but here goes... 1. best friend jane* get boyfriend sam* june 2007 jane* and sam* have a really bad relationship because there was a 5 year age gap and many other problems but as they went out for 10 months i got to know sam* and be... (464 words)

Are there other ways of getting an STD, besides intercourse?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This will seem like stupid question but, can you get an STD just by giving your bf a handjob???... (19 words)

We pet heavily, but he stops, before going all the way, why, we are both 18?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are both 18 and we were fooling around on his bed the other night and he took off my bra and started fingering me. So i reached into his boxers and felt that he was hard. I tried to give him a hand job but before i could, he took my hand and puled it out of his ... (145 words)

My husband belittles me and puts me down, I liove him, but want him to change his attitude and actions, any suggestions?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for about 6 years. There is no more romance he barely spends anytime Quality time with our kids, he treats me like total crap always belittling me and putting me down. Mean while I support him and all that he does. He honestly has no idea of ... (112 words)

Broke up, after I found out she had sex with him, just before we became a couple, still think about her, what now?

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Was friends with this girl. She had a boyfriend and he came to see her, but when he was here she told me she liked me instead so i told her to ditch him first. Off she went to ditch him but she had sex with him and the next day she just told me they kissed. She ended it with ... (88 words)

He keeps asking me for hugs, and staring at me, without saying anything, does he like me or what?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right okay, im not sure if this guy like's me or not, we like hang around alot yeah, and i often catch him looking at me all the time, and i ask him what he's lookin at but he just smiles and shakes his head, And he alwyas says to me come here and im like why and he says i ... (156 words)

We said we'd wait to have sex, but I'm confused and thinking of going all the way, what do I do?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here it goes.....I really don't know if it's a problem, persay, or just me being a worry wart. Do NOT judge me okay? Well....I went to my boyfriend's house, well his Paw Paw's house, for the 4th of July, and everything went swell. Until we got a little tooo close ... (500 words)

He just stares at me constantly, does he like me or does he just like to look?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is normal for a guy to be happy when a girl stands near him? Or stare at her like crazy. This guy just stares at me and when another hottie passes by he doesnt noticed his eyes are pratically glued to me. Whenever he sees me or me with my friends he just stares at me with a s... (74 words)

He took my virginity for granted after sex, how do I get over the loveless experience?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy in November and we dated for about a month. He broke up with me and we didn’t talk for a while, but later on we started talking again. We went on several more dates, and I decided that I wanted to have sex with him, so I waited a month for him to come back from a... (268 words)

Stuck between a bad boy and a nice guy

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Age old cliche - and I never thought it would be me asking advice on it! Basically, I'm stuck between 2 guys. Let's start with Guy # 1. Someone I dated for 6 months, really truly fell head over heels for him. He has a bit of a rough past, not usually the type I would go ... (288 words)

He says he's afraid of commitment with me, but will still have sex with me...

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - so i met this guy who is 28 years old. hes a great guy and has everything ive wanted in someone, well im only 20 so there is an eight year difference. everything was going great, he shows how much he cares for me but one day said maybe he wants to relate to someone on his own ... (157 words)

I'm bi curious, my boyfriend isn't satisfying me...

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and bi-curious for a year, he sweet and I love him a lot but sexually he doesn't satisfy i have to fake it should I let him know how I feel about women?... (41 words)

I'm falling for a "bad boy"...

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a boy at my school really likes me he is hot and all but he is a bad boy so what can i do to like him and dont fell scerd please help... (33 words)

I have a banana shaped penis!

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6 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - banana shaped penis hi im 19, when i get an erection my penis curves to the left, and points upwards(its paralell with my body, when its supposed to be at 90 degrees to it, in a perfect world). im worried i'll need an operation. any ideas? is it ok?... (50 words)

He was totally hot, telling me he loved me, then a few weeks later, totally cold, and it's over, why?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Have you ever began dating someone who seemed TOO perfect? I met a guy 6 months ago, through his best friend. His best friend fancied me, but the feelings weren't mutual. I actually fancied his friend, and it turned out he liked me back. One night, about 3 months ago,... (758 words)

Why do I get shy around pretty women?

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6 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be kind weird but i feel very uncomfortable around pretty women. I can never talk 2 them cuz i get scared. My uncle, his wife, and my baby cousin r over my house on vacation, and his wife i met 4 the first time and shes very friendly towards me. She says tht im ... (111 words)