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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Been married for 25 years to a verbally abusive husband, now I long to see my old high school love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age - I recently was contacted by an old high school boyfriend, my first love after 28 years! He now lives in another state. This contact brought up old feelings and although I am married with kids I want to have more contact with him, is that do bad, I did not tell my husband that ... (119 words)

I don't want to be wiith anyone but him although he is not loyal, I'm not giving any guy a chance to even talk to me, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my bf broke up 2 months ago, he wasn't loyal he used to f___ around all the time and didn't respect me.. after 2months we started talkin seeing eachother again, and we're still in love with eachother.. im always in denial when i hear stuff about him sleeping around with ... (289 words)

What can I do to stop leading guys on into liking me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What can I do to stop leading guys on into liking me as more than a friend? I just have a very outgoing personality and I just want a guy friend!... (31 words)

The girl I like was forced to perform oral sex with a guy... Should I risk trying to date her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys suppose you see this nice college girl you liked, but you heard she was force by a guy she was dating to performed oral sex once,but she ended the dating after that with him. Would you still try to date her or You may fear that the same guy who force her might see you ... (80 words)

A love story to lighten the mood!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all! I just wanted to share my love story with you all to lighten the mood, as it's all about help on here i thought it would be nice to have a chat about something nice, but try to keep it brief lol. In Feb i made a return home to australia for 3 months, in that time, ... (343 words)

One minute he's a attentive... next he's not! What's going on here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age - Seen this guy 4 times in two months... but it has been just sex, and I have always said I wanted more than that. (Met on internet dating site). Sometimes he does not contact me for days at a time, and a week ago I told him that was enough, and I wanted more than just sex, b... (223 words)

I want a future with her... but she's carrying another guy's baby.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - We met 3 years ago online. We chatted for a year before we began writing each other letters. We flirted a lot and shared many common interests. For a year and a half, we’ve agreed that we are going to try and meet up. She lives out West, I live out East. We agreed that when we ... (415 words)

I like him a lot, he seems to feel the same... but he has a girlfriend.

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - there is a dude that i extremely love. and well ive been talking to him for a while now. na dmy friend asked if he would ever go out with me bc i like him and he said maybe but i have a girlfriend. he cares about me and he always wants to talk to me. he stares at me when i see ... (80 words)

What's wrong with using porn for other reasons other than pleasure alone?

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24 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What's wrong with using porn for as a solution for desensitizing the penis in order to practice for sex (especially for problems with PE)? Can it be used as a simulation for sex so that men can learn to handle certain situations better? If someone could give a good reason, I'd ... (109 words)

How do I comfort a friend who's so distressed about her break up?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ( Kinda long) Im 14 years old and so far my life is going okay. Well that was until today anyway. My best friend *Sara got dumped by her boyfriend and thats where things took a turn for the worst. My friend * Jay was there when she was on the phone to him so we just left her... (325 words)

How did he move on so fast after all we've been through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I am in desperate need of insight into a situation. I was with a guy for 2 years, he loved me dearly and then overnight it was over. He went from wanting to marry me to needing time to figure himself out within a week. What does this all mean? Can feelings really ... (277 words)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me any more. Help!

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wont have sex with me or even make out with me anymore! What do i do?!?! He says he's afraid of getting me pregnant, but im on birth control, we use condoms, and he even pulls out. He stresses way too much over it. How can i get him to wanna do it again? Just ... (96 words)

I always hold back when it comes to sex. Should I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age - This guy I met I think just wanted me for sex. We had some nice times around the resort and I did fancy him but i didnt have sex becasue I wanted to hold back which was a bit stupid -as the time soon came to an end. I am sorry now I hurt the guy and his feelings damaged... (237 words)

My boyfriend just said hi and then walked away. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today i was going meeet my friend and i saw my boyfriend i screamed hey brandon and he said hey back and then just walked away it was like it wasnt even him what should do now iam worried.... (39 words)

There are three very different people clouding up my love life. I would appreciate some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is a long story so I'll try to keep it short. I just graduated high school at the end of May 08. -I was friends with my boyfriend for a year before we started dating. We have been dating for 2 and a half years now. -my high school german teacher and i had ... (368 words)

He denies having had an affair. How do I move on? I don't know if I want or need to know either...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age - I feel strongly that my husband had an affair about 6 months ago. He denies it. How do I move on? I don't know if I want or need to know. But everytime there is a bumb in our relationship I am terrified he will do it again. Sometimes I think if I knew for sure and he said it w... (117 words)

Poll question for women: do you like oral and would you like your partner more for it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls like when a guy goes down on them? And would you like your boyfriend more if he did that?... (21 words)

Men's favourite things (non-sexual) that a girl could do for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What are a man's favorite things for a girl to do for him (non-sexual). Things that really make you smile, laugh or get the warm feeling in your stomach. [Added from the same user] Guys if a girl sent you a text, or an e-mail. What would be a good quote, or poem that put a sm... (60 words)

9-year relationship ends because "his heart wasn't in it?" Why if I was such a "catch" did he admit that he didn't appreciate me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just dumped after a 9 year relationship. I am having such a hard time getting over it since we still share the same interests ( so i run into him often), the same friends, and we live within walking distance of one another. This guy was my high-school sweetheart though we ... (449 words)

I'm travelling with my boyfriend and his family, how can we have some privacy on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is my first time asking a question for all the agony aunts and uncles, so please be nice to me xD! I'll make this nice and quick for you, me and my boyfriend and his family (mum, dad, younger brother and sister) are going to France on Sunday, and we'd be staying ... (166 words)

Missed birth control pills, could I be pregnant and is it too early to take a test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i have big drama. to begin with,i started taking my birth control incorrectly, instead of starting the sunday after or the day my period begins, i started the day my period ended. I spotted the whole first month and never got my period. 2nd month into the pack the spotting ... (164 words)

My boyfriend of over 2 years has a major problem with my casual smoking habits, is he over reacting, should I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of over 2 years has a major problem with my casual smoking habits. He gets mad at me when I smoke cigarettes. I know it is extremely bad for my health but I rarely smoke and I like to have a few while I'm out with friends and drinking beer. And no, this is not ... (340 words)

Business, Love, Long Distance Relationship.......advice needed badly on how to deal, I feel I'm losing our connection, how should I write him a letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Im 22 and the guy that im in a long distance relationship with someone who is 23. I live in Pittsburgh, and he lives in Seattle. We have been together for 2 1/2 months. We met each another last month for the first time. He was supposed to be visiting this we... (1316 words)

How do I learn to trust my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so today i took my boyfriend lunch on his lunch break and while he was on his way i looked through his condom stash to count how many were left because i knew how many we have used. And it turned out that 6 were missing, i didnt look to see if they fell out of the box by ... (414 words)

Could I be pregnant or is it all in my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This may sound crazy but I had unprotected sex back in march I didn't have a period in April but I bled in may I didn't bleed in June I bled this month and I've still been feeling pregnant I have abdominal pain headaches cravings sore breasts before and after my periods, lowe... (95 words)

I'm scared my boyfriend will dump me or try to make me dump him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how come iam so worried to loose my boyfriend like i've seen his past relationships cause he dated some of my friends befor i known him really well! and im scared he gonna get bored of me or just doesnt want me anymore i know he loves me but still all i can think about is ... (122 words)

Will I ever get over my abusive ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my divorce from my ex who was angry and abusive most of the time is nearly through. it has been an awful 2o years of a relationship. i last saw him in dec when i finally reported him to the police for damaging my car. i had never done this kind of thing to him before but i had ... (331 words)

Could this have made me pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 years old and recently did some things with my boyfreind basically he gave himself pleasure then imdiatly afterwards put the same fingers inside of me.since then iv been feeling very peculiar, unusally bloated (fat) and tender nipples. it is possible by doing this and my ... (82 words)

Do you guys flirt with the less attractive women in a group just to get attention from the others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a Question for guys. Do you sometimes in a group of girls flirt with the less attractive girl to get the more attractive girls attention? I have had men that I know tell me that they do this when they are intimidated by a beautiful women. Thanks for any input on the ... (58 words)

How can I learn to enjoy swallowing, and also how can I suggest he go down on me more so I'm receiving as much as I'm giving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really love giving my boyfriend a blowjob, but i've never let him cum in my mouth. i really want to swallow, but even precum makes me gag. is there a quick fix because i really want to do it? also, he doesnt go down on me as much, even straight out of the shower (i always ... (114 words)

My boyfriend is getting distant. Am I showing him enough love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i have been with my boyfreind for two and a half weeks and i think we get on great but recently he seems to becomming distant i dont think that im showing him enough love so i dont think he loves me as such i think he just sees me as another one of his female friends. i ... (130 words)

My best friend is going out with my brother. I feel like I've lost her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - O Ok i still have a problem. I had a problem with my brother going out with my best friend and you guys give me great answers but know my best friend does not spend no time with me she always with my brother!! I try to spend time with her i show afford to try to do things with ... (117 words)

How do I give my boyfriend space when he doesn't even say he needs it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now.. i know its not that long but we're crazy in love! we see eatchother partically everyday..but my friends tell me that they think i should give him some space..cause im like always with him and they say he probally ... (200 words)

Didnt know the guy really liked me and now he is mad I am dating someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I know this guy (arturo) me and him started talking but never hung out or anything we just talked about getting to know each other more,but later in time his friend (dave) started talking to me and we started going out and stuff and one day david was at my house visiting ... (181 words)

What is a Jack the Lad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age - I have recently star6ted seeing a young man and we seem to be getting on well. His sister I get on very well with and she4 confided in me and said I know he is my brother but watch out and dont egt huirt as he has always BEN A AJck Teh Lad. Normally I would think oh yes ... (90 words)

Is there a differance between cumming and orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this may be a stupid question...but I just want to know is there a difference between cumin and havin and actual orgasm? If anyone can answer..thanx... (27 words)

I feel like I'm a complete turn-off for him. How can I just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been talkin about oral sex, im willing to go down on him but him going down on me is not a good idea. Its not that i dont want to but its just that im not confterble with my own body its not that i feel large or too thin but im just not oky. Im a size... (174 words)

Are there any doctors out there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i know this isn't a usual question but if there are any doctors out there i could use some help??? thanks in advance (:... (26 words)

How do I make sex more satisfying for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfreind is the kind of guy who takes control in bed and never lets me have a say and thats all good until the sex is over and i am left unsatisfied and if i have more sex with him he complains we are having to much sex how do i make sex more satisfying to me without ... (61 words)

Is my friend helping or interfering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'm in a very puzzling situation... Okay well I recently started talking to a boy from a different school but we get along good and we know what eachother look like and things have been going real great between us. Its only been like 2 weeks so its just startin... (257 words)

A guy is coming between me and my best mate

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i adore my best friend, we have so much in common and can often finish each others sentences, think the same things at the same moment and buy the same clothes without realizing! the problem? her latest bf. they havn't been going out too long, but its started to affect our fr... (351 words)

No matter how we start... it always ends up "doggie style"! Is he losing interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! Any input here will be appreciated. I've been happily married for 5 years and thought we had a pretty good sex life. The problem is....lately my husband seems overly interested in doggy style sex. No matter how we start, it always ends up with him behind me. He says he just ... (170 words)

He doesn't come and tell me what he's doing. Should we communicate more?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age - Hi...when you are in a committed relationship, do you think you should tell each other if you will be to work late, leaving work early, coming home late, or if you're going out to eat with a friend/business aquaintances of the opposite sex? My man and I live together, engaged, ... (210 words)

I have really skinny legs. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy and I have really skinny legs. It's horrible my arms are quite muscley but my legs are so thin. Even my dad calls me chicken legs and stuff :( What can i do? Are there any good exercises that work really well with building legs muscle? I'm especially th... (77 words)

I'm confused about "wet dreams"

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24 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 20 year old guy, just wndering, how long do wet dreams last for? cause mine dont last that long!!! does that mean I prematurely ejaculate? thanks... (37 words)

Before we met, my BF was not working for 5 years, do I leave him until he finds a stable job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now and before we wasnt dating he wasnt working for 5years , the thing is im worried i mean 5 years is long time to be out of work . hes 23 and im 27 ok not in a stable job but im working my way up the ladder . Ive ... (134 words)

How do I tell my 11 year old daughter she has a sibling? The baby is the result of an affair...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - To make a long story short, I had a 3 year affair. When we were breaking up, my girlfriend knew it was happening, and went off her birth control to trick me into making her pregnant. It was out right deception, as I specifically asked her if she was still on the pill. Anyw... (202 words)

My boyfriend's going to leave me because I can't satisfy him in bed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriends going to leave me because i don't satisfy him sexually. Basically, we have great sex and i usually get 2 or 3 orgasms. my boyfreinds circumsised so he can go on for ages (which is good) but he never gets one inside me and always has to do it himself af... (231 words)

My ex husband hangs around a lot lately and his habit to interrupt others while they are talking has only accentuated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I have just a simple question. My ex-husband hangs around a lot still and lately, I can't have a conversatin AT ALL without him interrupting me. Anything I talk about and even when I'm on the phone with somebody, he interrupts me to talk about himself. For ... (153 words)

I can't get pregnant and my husband acts like he doesn't care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I talked about the possibility of having another baby. Our financial situation isn't perfect, it never will be, but yes, money has been tight. Last year I went through cancer testing because of a 5 month long menstrual cycle and constant vaginal/uterine pain. Th... (395 words)

Separated from my wife; she's recently met an old boyfriend and told me it's over, I'm in turmoil!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I spilt up last october. but i sort professional help for my problems and i became a changed man. for the last 9 months we bonded back again still separated but loving each other very much. bonded too with our 2 children. her parents wanted her to have nothing to do ... (172 words)

My boyfriend does not talk to me about his problems anymore, but he talks to my best friend. Why does he shut me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend seems to flirt with my best friend sometimes. she doesnt flirt back but he seems to be extra nice to her. i wouldnt mind normaly, its just he talks to her as well. he tells her stuff about his family that he used to talk to me about but he doesnt anymore. he doesnt ... (159 words)

How do you deal with a member of a group who won't give?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm studying events management, and a group of girls in my class are manageing a large event for our final semester of studies. We need to come up with a name for the group and we are deciding between Zap Events or Vibrant Events. The majority of us chose Vibrant ev... (117 words)

My husband won't have sex with me any more.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband won't have sex with me anymore. I'm only 23 and he just turned 28. We have a son who is 3 years old and has been a major challenge for us. In the beginning of our relationship he loved being intimate with me, he'd initiate it all the time, we'd be spontaneous, we'd ... (436 words)

He said I should go out with another guy, and we could maybe pick up our relationship later, I'm gutted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help!!!! i recently broke up with a long term partner and was lonely. I ended up chatting to a guy i work with and found he had also broke up a few months before with his long term gfriend. We arranged to meet and there was an obvious physical attraction. Aft... (451 words)

He doesn't cheat, but he's always busy so our life is full of problems. I need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, am dating a 45yr old guy am 23 and the guy has 3kids from different mums the problem is that we keep arguing everytime i ask him about his last wife,all he does is tell me to stop nagging him.we dont spend much time together coz he is working and on the weekends... (137 words)

How do I get over my messy break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was with this guy for two years, very messy break-up where he was absolutely horrific to me saying such things like we were 'subconciously pretending to have more in common than we had' and that it 'meant nothing'. Anyway he is unrecognisable to the loving and... (205 words)

Will I grow any more? Can I do anything about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 is it too late to grow? I'm 5.9 and really wanna be a bit taller I've started the gym and go every week atleast. DO you think i will get any taller? My dads about 6.2 and my mum is about 5.1 ish :S Is there anything i can do before its too late to make myself ... (77 words)

We talked, and it sounded like he didn't really care about me. Why are guys like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive just been at my bfs place and i brought up 'the talk' as he calls it which is just bringing up things about me and him like just things that are on my mind that are worrying me and things. but this time it was just how he always seems to dismiss what i say so say i say 'you ... (393 words)

My boyfriend cheated, and I'm the one who ends up apologising for my jealousy! No more. Advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - boyfriend cheated on me in the past twice and begged me for his forgiveness, telling me how much he love me an all that. So i did because i do love him back. But now weve had problems with trust since then and he wanted us to have some time apart. During this time apart he did ... (211 words)

I've had sex several times and still no pleasant sensations, why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what is wrong with me? i've had sex about 7 times and i still haven't felt anything good. my boyfriend is on top and i just lay there. we also tried me on top and him behind me but it hurt for some reason. my cherry is popped so that can't have anything to do with it. his penis ... (87 words)

Is it less likely to get pregnant while you're on your period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me any my boyfriend have been ready for sex. we've done it a few times. i know we're ready so don't even say i'm too young. but anyways, we had sex when i was on my period. he used a ultra thin condom so guess what? it broke. and i don't know if i'm going to get pregnant ... (115 words)

I found out that my girlfriend likes lesbian porn. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi,i found that my girlfriend like lesbian porn.me too!well i asked her if she ever masturbated alone and watched lesbian porn?she said yes.but is shy about it.the other night i thought id treat her and told her to watch some lesbian porn.she likes brunets most.she watched some ... (169 words)

What is "talking dirty"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a rather odd question... When people say "talk dirty" (during sex), what does that really entail? Dirty as in gross? Could I get some examples? One of my exes once asked me to, but I had no idea what to say!... (50 words)

Can you sense real love after being with your partner just a few months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I Feel real strongly with my partner and I trust her 100%, she is so amazing and keeps me happy. I love everything about her! Can you sense real love tho being with your partner few months?... (37 words)

He was my 'first', but I found out he's seeing someone else. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I use to see to see this guy sometimes and you know he was the first guy that kissed me and all of that you know so I was really having feelings for him but we didn't use to see each other very often so one time we met after a long time we hadn't seen each other we were making ... (102 words)

Do I choose romance, compatability... or neither?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - There's this one girl, and she and I are so compatible that you'd think we were made for each other. We typically have urges to watch, eat, and do the same things at the same time. When we need to work as a team, we're like a well-oiled machine... But there's no romantic ... (246 words)

His mistrust issues are making things impossible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been with the guy i love for a year and a month on july28. all through our relationship its been great and yeah arguments here and there! but is was never this bad and it dint really bother me! but now every time he calls my office or cell and i dont answer right away ... (236 words)

My boyfriend and I are fighting all the time! Now...I may be falling for someone else. What do I do?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello loves. i adore this site, and leave feedback/advice quite often...and since i have h$ung around for so long, admiring all the wonderful advice i read dialy...i figured maybe some of you can help me with my problem for once... see here is the thing. me and my boyfrie... (280 words)

How can I tell if I like someone more than just a friend?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend told one of my guy friends that I get attached too easy...then I was thinking about it and I think its true..I talk this guy but I am not sure if I like him more than a friend.I told him that I liked him but then afterwards I started wondering if I really do like ... (99 words)

What do guys think about when they masturbate?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and I've been married for 5yrs. My husband and I have had many issues over my feelings and his about masturbation. I'm understanding to a point and I would really like to not be a bitch about this but I'm having a hard time coping with some of the issues we have. What I ... (104 words)

I'm really sad that I don't love my wife anymore. I was hurt at work and she doesn't support me!

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24 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - been with wife 18 yrs, we have 4 kids,15,12,7,4.luv them dearly.but don't love wife anymore.nothing about her.i was hurt on the job? no support finanical,with the kids. want work,except part time.feel very let down by her.living off settlement,feels she will never help.should i ... (45 words)

I have strange bites all over me after having sex outside with my boyfriend. What is it?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this question aint really got a relevensy to this whole site, but some in a way! Lol well, tuesday night me and my boyfriend were in a field, chillin out and all that, and ended up having sex there lol but yesterday (wednesday) i seemed to have got these insect bites all ... (172 words)

Being a lesbian is my worst nightmare so how do I prevent it?!

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm 17 years old and I'm pretty certain I'm a lesbian. When I was 12 I realised I was bi-sexual, but when I was 16 my feelings for men gradually grew distant. I wasn't happy about being bi-sexual, but I dealt with it, I even came out to everybody. Being a lesbian is my ... (113 words)

Why do I fall in love with Scandinavians?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound strange, so bear with me on this one. My sister was involved in an international goodwill type show, and there was the most adorable Swedish boy there with whom I instantly fell in love. Even to this day I still remember his name. Sure, infatuations kee... (143 words)

Why did my boyfriend and my friend betray me? I caught them together!

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24 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my friend get in a fight. We said something shouldn't have. Later that day I went a party with my boyfriend. My boyfriend said needed to make a "phone call" . In 30 minutes my boyfriend disappeared. I got worried and looking for him. I upstairs and his voice and someone ... (99 words)

How do I tell him I want kinky sex?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for bout 3 years and we have really good sex. Always great sex but the thing is i want be be more kinky like being tied up and stuff like that but i dont know how to tell him cuz we have awsome sex and i dont want him to think stupid but i just like ... (73 words)

Would he have changed had I mentioned the things that were bothering me?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost 6 months. I wanted to get together and do it, but it happened over the phone from him. He was a good guy and always tried do nice things for me. I couldn't seem to be happy with whatever he did for me or tried to do for m... (204 words)

We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?

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24 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever forget it, but that was six ... (268 words)

I'm starting to lose faith in relationships.

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24 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm losing all faith in relationships. My last girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend of 8 years. I've now been dating a girl for the last year and we've had our ups and downs like every relationship some of it to do with jealousy on both ends. She and her best friends ... (155 words)

My boyfriend kicked me and my daughter out after I lost our baby! Why is he like this?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ive beenwith my boyfriend a few months and he had my little girl and me move out of county with him then i got pregnant. he was very happy then i lost the baby he got angry and told me i had until the end of the month to take my daughter and go and if we have no where to go ... (136 words)

Can you have an STD if you're a virgin?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have an STD when you're a virgin? Beside crabs and scabies and such. Just curious...... (19 words)

I'm thinking of meeting up with an old flame, but we're both in relationships.

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in contact with an old boyfriend from high school via email and telephone over the last few months and he has made it clear he is interested in me and would like to meet up. i feel the same about him, he is a really sweet guy and i care a lot about him already. the ... (181 words)

Any other ways besides hand jobs, blow jobs and intercourse for him to cum?

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hellooo just need some advice on the sexual front... ive recently got together with this guy and we are slowly moving onto more sexual activities... i havent slept with anyone and dont plan to do either (well before im married anyway) so we are doing other things and its r... (131 words)

Confused with a great guy who blows hot and cold...

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24 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy I really like and we have got together twice now - but both times we were a litte drunk. There has been no sex involved as I've explained I think a lot of him, and want to wait and see how it progresses. We talk very openly about each other when we ar... (163 words)

I think I'm in love... please help!!

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24 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone and anyone in particular anyone who could pleeeease give me some advice. I'm a 30 something male who i believe is desparatly in love,i mean the real deal! Let me explain..about 2 years ago,i met a girl at work and from the moment we spoke,i felt something straight... (347 words)