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writes:Its not that im scared of a long term relationship, but ive been goin out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and shes always seemed to be a bit posessive of my time.eg. if iw ant to go out ona lads night she would text me every ten minutes. she'd later claim that she was making sure im ok, really i think shes making sure im not hooking up with anyone. I could be way off the mark and maybe im misreading the signs but is it ttime for me to throw in the towel? iargue with myself daily weather to call it a day but deep down i love this girl. just wish she'd trust me more.What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you all, had a long talk with her, seems like maybe im getting the wrong end of the stick because she took it really well. goin out with the lads tonite. fingers crossed i see a change. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): You need to be honest with her. Your honesty is one of the greatest gifts that you give each other. There is nothing wrong with telling her how you feel. She needs to know that you feel a little suffocated by receiving text messages every ten minutes when you are hanging out with your friends. You also need to tell her that it makes you feel like she doesn't trust you. This will let her know that this behavior is not okay and makes you feel uncomfortable. If you want this relationship to work it is extremely important to keep the lines of communication open. Tell her how you feel, and both of you will be glad that you did. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): If your gf get the insecure feelings, there must be something that doubts her. Maybe it is your action or that is her way.
Talk to her, assured her. That is only if you love her.
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