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writes: When should our anniversary be? We knew each other online for ages before eventually meeting. We were supposed to just meet as friends as I had a boyfriend at the time, but we ended up getting on so well and ended up kissing and I realised I had to leave my boyfriend (who I had been having endless troubles with for ages) for him straight away, which was the best decision I ever made. Anyway, its been two months and we were pretty much serious about each other from the day we met up, knowing we wanted and had to be together! Would it be weird to have our anniversary as the first day we met and got together, even though I still had a boyfriend at this point...Otherwise it would be two weeks later which is the next time we met, even though things were pretty much the same then...
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 When I met the woman who eventually became my first lover after my wife died, she was still engaged to another man, although she broke the engagement three days later. I always counted our "anniversary" from the time we first met even though she was technically not free at that time.
We met first on line and had been writing to one another for about three weeks before our first date, so I got a vague idea that there was something going on (in fact, right after our first kiss I asked her "are you sure you're not married?"), and that was when she told me about her engagement.
So yes, count it from the first time you met.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (29 July 2008):
 Seems like the first eye-to-eye contact sounds like a milestone... I would vote for that one!
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