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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have not been masturbating for very long. (about two weeks and it is with a rabbit style vibrator) I come very close but I find the vibrating is too intense so I have to stop! I have not had an orgasm before. I would like to but when I get very close to orgasm my clitoris becomes ticklish-painful and I feel very uncomfortable. If I had a urinary tract infection when I was little is that why I feel so uncomfortable with the strong vibrations? I know it is normal not to orgasm when a girl just begins masturbating for first time but I am so close and then very frustrated because it just stops and goes away. Please help?
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reader, bfriends  +, writes (30 November 2010):
You may enjoy a small 5 inch multi speed vibe for a bit of insertion or perhaps a multi speed bullet for none. The Rabbitt is too high tech for beginners. You will enjoy it in 2011. Good luck.
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reader, Estifany  +, writes (29 July 2008):
This is not uncommon at all. I started masterbating at a young age, I was 13 at the time (I am 27 and a virgin now). It was purely by accident. Afterwards I got really horny especially when I used to ride the school bus (and the bus used to vibrate). The clit is very sensative and sometimes direct stimulation may be too much. Other parts of your body are just as sensative especially when you are in an receptive mood, like you breast. I also find that visual stimulation helps because vibrators now do nothing for me. I've never used a rabbit before, I just stick with a regular dildo with vibration control and change your techniques until you find what is suitable for you. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't like oral that is why I ask this question. My vibrator is the only thing that gets me close enough to orgasm I just want it to finish! My arm becomes tired holding the vibrator in right place for a long, long time. I am getting sore in arms waiting for orgasm to happen. Is there any way to place the vibrator without having to hold it while still not being too intense with vibration?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 It is not unusual, the sensitivity of the clit changes, which is why the advice for good oral is to vary tactics and don't think you just dive in on the clit and stay there.
If it comes to much switch to indirect stimulation, rub your lips/hood instead, use penetration whatever works.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (29 July 2008):
 Turn the rabbit round and put the tickly ears facing your bottom not your clitoris you should still get an orgasm as if one vibrator can get the g spot its the rabbit!!
I cannot stand direct clitoral stimulation as i am sooooo sensitive down there and too found the rabbit ears interfered with orgasm. x
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