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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 16 year old best friend, is pregnant and scared, I want to help her, what advice can you give me to tell her, in her time of need?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend is havGng a huge problem... shes 16 and pregnant.. i love her (as a friend) and id stay beside her and help her through the fiery gates of hell shes my best friend and id do anything for her but i dont know what to do to help her... please give me advice not... (77 words)

After our breakup, because I was seeing my ex, we are sort of back together, will he trust me in the long run, and do you think we will stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - about 5 months ago I was dating a guy..who at the time I liked, but didn't really take seriously because I was obviously stuck on my ex boyfriend/first love. While I was dating this other guy I was also seeing my ex boyfriend on special occassions mostly holidays. I know dee... (435 words)

My girl's broken up with me for the 3rd time after I told her a lie..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my girlfriend after about 8 months, but we had been good friends for the longest time. This hasnt been the first time its happend, its actually been the third. The first two times we got back together within a week of the break ups. This last time though it ... (342 words)

Fallen for an older guy. Could it happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I have an issue and i think i could use some feedback, and i'd also like some advice from men. I'm 17 and working at a radio station this summer, where i met a man with whom i work together with and i'm very attracted to. We spend a lot of time together and we ... (126 words)

How dangerous is breathing in helium?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is a weird question but is it real dangerous to breathe in helium from a balloon? Me an my friends did it for a laff but i read on the internet that it can make you really ill. Plz help, i'm worried now. x.x.x.x.... (50 words)

Crazy in love with my boyfriend and his brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, i'm just wondering if i'm crazy... there's this boy named jonathan. and i'm crazy in love with him. we havn't had sex because he thinks theres more to love than sex. i've given him aq blow job. on my own person opinion. his brother is a guy named victor... and i met him ... (118 words)

Girls just don't seem to like me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok first time asking something like this, but I dont know where else to go (not paying for a shrink lol). Im 23 now, and basically it seems like no matter what i've done my whole life women just arent interested in me in the slightest bit, and its starting to get me down. ... (623 words)

We broke up, got back together, cheated, broke up. Is this fixable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hyea!!well this is a long and confusing story but il try and explain anyway...my boyfriend and i had been going steady for three months quiet happily but towards the last few weeks i noticed him mentioning "single" and i said to him are you not happy so we broke up. i was ... (279 words)

Stuck between my wife and daughter and going insane. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age - Oh God, where do I start.....I am sorry to bore you all with my problem but I just reached the end of the road trying to mediate between my daughter who is 16 and my wife. I dont know what to do anymore. I have been married for a year and been with my wife for a total of 4... (374 words)

Love in cyberspace....and in realspace?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Firstly I'm a bisexual male. I've met another man online who I'm in love with. I live in Europe, he lives in America. We will be able to see each other next year. He loves me too, but he also has a boyfriend, also an online thing. They're going through a rough patch at t... (124 words)

Period / pregnancy bleeding drama...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My last period strated on the 23rd of june. I haded unprotected sex with my boyfriend on july 3rd and 4th. Then on july 8th i started bleeding light pink and then light red. So i don't know what it could be. What do you think it is?... (48 words)

Sex it over in minutes! How can I delay his excitement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Bf always gets too excited during foreplay that the sex is over within minutes and tips on how i pospone his excitement so we can 'go' for longer?... (29 words)

I'm finding myself physically attracted to other men. I don't know what I want to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we are pretty happy together with the exception of regular fights..However i don't seem to be as physically attracted to him as i always have been and lately find myself feeling attracted physically to other men..i don't ... (93 words)

Does anyone know anything about karate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am currently studying shotokan karate-do and im interested in another martial art preferably jujitsu or judo. something more grapling. do you think this will effect my karate training? or will i be okay cross training please help in any way you can thankyou chris... (50 words)

I want to blow his mind - among other things! Tips, please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any sure fire tips to giving the perfect blowjob? I want to blow my bf's mind! Cheers x... (24 words)

Can you catch genital warts if he wears a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

- Hello, just a quick one. Can you catch gentil warts from someone if they wear a condom? I am female and he is male. Its just that i have heard he has it but doesn't know... so obv. i want to be careful. thanks... (86 words)

It seemed great until he told me about his first love. Should I give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I started talking to this guy about a month ago everything seemed so perfect with us and he constantly said how happy he was with me and he thought it was a miracle that we were together (the normal things guys say that almost every girl believes) but the thing is that ... (219 words)

Does an abortion hurt under local anaesthetic?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and i've just found out that i am 8 weeks pregnant. I know without a doubt that I am going to have an abortion, my mind is made up about that one. I just want to know what the least painful method of abortion is as i'm terrified of general anaesthetic. If I am under ... (75 words)

He doesn't want a relationship, so would it be less painful for me to get out altogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age - I really became very fond of thuis man although I hadnt known him very long. But it can happen. However he has been honest and says he doesnt want a relationship but would stay friends if we wanted to e mail now and again. I find it hard always wondering how he is, if he is ... (153 words)

Is he trying to tell me he has no feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age - I was friendly with a guy for a couple of weeks and he wanted sex but I held back. We e maield each other a bit when we came home but nothing romantic or anything jsut plain e mails then he said unrequited love is the most painful of all. he hasnt e mailed for soemtime. I ... (90 words)

My boyfriend lied to me about his age twice! I need help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and we have a good relationship going on, but when we first met he told me he was going to turn 17, thirteen days after i turned 15 well i kept thinking he was 16 once we started going out, then on the month of our birthday ... (209 words)

He says all the right things to make me fall in love with him - Is he just trying to show he can get any woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met a guy a few months ago, who is really nice,and that I have a lot in common with and is saying all the right things to me to make me fall in love with him.I have one problem tho, when we alone it's just me and him and our chemistry and passion.He is always telling me ... (142 words)

He never gave me a real reason for breaking up. Why do I still have feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a man for a year and everything was good. We spent a lot of time together. It seemed that we couldn't get enough of each other. After a year of being together we started to have problems. Nothing like cheating on each other just disagreements. We also lacked in ... (410 words)

My boyfriend hits me. I need help but I can't get it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We had a very very different relationship. We were always fine, we argued alot but never anything more really. He is bipolar, very badly. He lives with his mom. He has been to a councelor but stopped going, he has medication but ... (235 words)

I want to test the waters to find out how much he likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a couple years ago through a mutual friend. We get along great, and whenever we are around each other there is good chemistry between us. I've been in love with this guy for quite some time now. How could I go about finding out if this guy is into me without ... (97 words)

I'm clueless! I asked a girl out and couldn't believe she said yes! Now what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I recently asked a girl out and I couldn't beleive it when she said yes. However, I don't know where to take her or what to do (I'm clueless!) So women, what would you want to do and where would you want a guy to take you on a first date?... (62 words)

Asexual? I'm rarely interested, and when I am I get rejected.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, M, hetero, virgin, and have never dated anyone romantically in my life. I'm rarely interested in other people, and when I am...I am usually rejected. Nobody I am interested in has ever been interested in me. I'm pretty successful for my age, but a total failure in... (102 words)

5 minutes and I'm gone...it's going to be a disaster with a woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - HELP!, I ejaculate much to fast while masturbating! 5minutes in and I'm gone, I try resisting(like stopping altogether), This works only like two times. But then when iv stopped i can still feel the semen getting ready to come out, At this point i try to hold it in, like ... (146 words)

Could I be happy with two different girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - is it possible for me to happy with 2 different girls? without them knowing. i dont want to lose the girl im with now. and the girl in my past is someone close to me and i dont want to lose her either.... (43 words)

What do you think about the situation with my ex? We are still sleeping together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been split up for about. A month now. We were living together before the break up and since he moved out we've talked on and off with some booty call. Last night he came over we watched a movie and he started talking more on depth of why we broke up. We ... (221 words)

Contact between us has been on and off.....am I missing out on something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. My girlfriend broke up with me just over a year ago, after 2 years together. She has now gone to uni. I still have her myspace page on my list of friends. But anytime I see her picture, I get this stinging feeling in my head. I think I want to forget her. When I think abo... (255 words)

Ex's in love with each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy I dated was really sweet and romantic.He sings to me and we often have romantic moments and sometimes we would make unexpected visits to each other's house to surprise each other.We are both single and it has been that way ever since we mutually broke up. We still love ... (93 words)

Was he always wanting me and I just never noticed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, this has been bothering me lately... I have a boyfriend, that from the begining of 6th grade, I've known him. We had an assignment, did it, and we still hung out. I helped him with Math, he helped me with Science. I secretly liked him, but I was unsure if he liked me. So I... (200 words)

Any advice on how I can deal with this crisis of self-confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend which hurt me a lot but I was very lucky to find a really nice guy right afterwards. I like him a lot, but he just makes me feel so insecure that I'm having a really hard time being with him. I'm really smart, educated, attractive and h... (304 words)

His overprotective family is making him choose!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and his family have been there to invade our privacy the whole time. No matter where we go or what we do, they are always phoning him, even if he is about to see them, or has just come from seeing them. He is ... (230 words)

What do I do about a relationship that's starting when I know he's going away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a string of really bad relationships over the last couple of years but have recently met a guy I really get on with. He's a couple years older than me; I'm 19 and we've really just hit it off. We go out to coffee a lot, and meet up for days out, and then last night ... (132 words)

Is it better to stay in his life or give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has issues trusting people. I know everyone in his past has hurt him, but he never talks about it. Also, the girl he was engaged to before just left him for no reason. I want him to be able to trust me, but when I try to talk to him he always pushes me away. All he ... (100 words)

Are issues with my dad interfering with my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have soo many problems with relationships.. they dont last! we'll some people dont know what their problem is well i do! i have really big issues with trusting men because of my dad. he didn't want nothing to do with me since i was 3, i dont know why though and ive be... (217 words)

Can I move on from him if I see him all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend, but I am best friends with his roommate. I don't want our breakup to influence my friendship with his roommate, but it is hard to see him all the time. I also work with this guy. I still want to be with him, but I know our relationship ... (116 words)

I have feelings for my best friend...so should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My and a close friends have known each other for quite sometime and we love being around each other and talking. I believe I may have feelings for her but I'm afraid she doesn't feel the same way about me. And I don't want to freak her out, I just don't want to lose her. ... (63 words)

Treated like slaves!!! What is wrong with m family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what is wrong with my family.. we are all so different! i'm quiet and keep in all my feelings and hide my emotions my mum is VERY loud, outgoing, chatty and ALWAYS wants her own way and if she doesnt get it then there is HUGE fights in our house and shes ALWAYS righ... (323 words)

He knows how I feel so what should I do now?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship and i never approved of my boyfriends hobbies. i struggled to come to terms with it so i told him that i wanted to be alone. i said that i love him still but wanted to be by myself. he asked how long was i thinking it? i said i decided to break up just ... (91 words)

What pet names can you call a guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ... (15 words)

What steps can I take to protect my unborn child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help. I am pregnant by my daughter's dad. We've gotten into an argument. We went our own ways, I've changed my number, blocked him from my emails. He's not being supportive towards my pregnancy. He threatens to take me to court in which he gave up his rights to ... (71 words)

How can I convince him to "sneak away" with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, I'm going to the movies soon. The drive in. With my family, and my Mom says I should bring my boyfriend, since we're always talking, and teasing eachother, flirting, and all of that stopped since vacation, cuz our schedules are different. So I would like to know: How can ... (94 words)

Would it be bad if I kissed another girl while we are on break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently spilt with my girlfriend of nineteen months. She ultimately called it off although she said it was me afterwards, as i had written a letter the week before saying the relationship should end. I wrote the letter as I was extremely annoyed with her persistent u... (326 words)

I need ideas for my boyfriend's birthday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends 28th birthday is coming up at the end of august and I want to plan something special for him. We have been dating for almost 3 years (in October) and for my 22nd birthday in june he planned a trip to nyc. The only idea I have so far is going to niagara falls and ... (102 words)

How do I deal with the "dragging time" after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Dearcupid Members, thanks for clicking this post and for any feedback. I am 20yrs old and finding life really difficult at the moment. I had been with my ex-girlfriend for about 10 months and we both said we were in love. However we broke up just under 3 weeks ago ... (280 words)

I'm starting to develop feelings for my co-worker's roommate. Advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I have been seeing my coworker's roommate for a few months now, and by "seeing" I mean seeing eachother at events and parties we both attend and then sleeping together on occasion. We saw a lot more of each other when he wasnt working two jobs, but now that he is, I only see ... (182 words)

I'm getting depressed about these stretch marks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and currently have stretch marks on my inner thighs and are now gradually moving around to my outer thigh, they are so embarresing and i don't know what to do, i think I'm skinny at size 12, 5"8/9 and i have 34b boobs.. i can see them starting to move down and ... (107 words)

Is she cheating? Where did she get that half-used box of condoms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm losing my mind, my relationship is strange now, we've been fighting a lot in the past 4months to 6months and mostly because of two things, 1time a month sex and she is always talking about hot guys who work with her and this weekend we add sex, but she was off the pill, ... (219 words)

How do I make our sex life better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I can never seem to enjoy sex anymore, i have a son and ever since i have had him i havent enjoyed having sex. My husband and I's sex isnt very good, it only ever lasts 5 minutes tops. Do you think this is a contributor to me not associating sex with a good time, i always ... (65 words)

I lied to my friend. How do I make it better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well this year i made a new bestfriend. lets call her "shelly". anyway she already ahd another bestfriend, who we will call " jane". anyway i has the myspace of this girl (call her claire) who was the prettiest person ever, a few years older than me. i wanted to be exactly like ... (189 words)

My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on holiday soon and I am due my per... (227 words)

How do I fix my scruffy husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age - My husband's choice of clothing has got scruffier and scruffier and I find it embarrassing being out and about with him. As well as that, he doesn't change with the seasons any more as he used to, but wears long sleeved shirt, trousers, thick socks, a jumper and a jacket on hot ... (169 words)

I'm looking after my younger sisters and brother while my mum is ill, and I need some tips.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - this is nothing to do with relationships or anything but i need a bit of advice, my mum has been ill for the past few weeks, she has been in and out of hospital and is unable to do much. this means i have been looking after my younger sisters and brother, as my dad passed away ... (269 words)

How can I get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - dear agony aunt,im 28 ive been with the same 27 year old lady for almost a year and a half.we got engaged 9 months ago and now she has left me.our greatest problem arose from our sexual relationship because she promised her mom she would waite till she got married,we started ... (170 words)

I'm stuck in limbo with him, do I wait it out or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok maybe this self explanatory but I think I need some advice. Basically I knew this man for a couple of months, started as friendship and soon escalated to constant emails during work and texts etc. Eventually we got together and were seeing each other a month, everything ... (275 words)

Will a holiday romance work? I really want to change my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a really nice boy on holliday and spent the whole week with him, im now back home in England and can't stop thinking of him!! Im going down to see him in a couple of weeks as he lives down near London. I really like him but don't know how he feels about me and i know its ... (170 words)

How did you meet your partner?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well use to) partying. Im in a ... (82 words)

How can I tell him we need to have more sex if we want to have a baby?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I would love to have a child somewhere in the near future but we have one problem, we hardly ever have sex. If my period is late he gets all excited but I know that I cant be pregnant because we barely had any sex that month. Take last month for example, we ... (234 words)

Just how risky is the 'pull out' method?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My partner and I have sex all the time without using protection. I am waiting for my next period to get an implamon though (maybe). I'm also more then aware of the invention of condoms so this is not the advice I am looking for. What I would like to know is how risky ... (123 words)

Gut-wrenching attraction to another man - what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a year and have a 3 yr old son to my husband, I cant say that I have loved him since we have had our son, he is dificult, lazy and agressive and totally dependent on me, like a child. I work very hard in a very high pressured job and am starting to get ... (194 words)

Unconventional solution for love triangles - could it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - To keep it short,I am 23 and I like two guys. I love my boyfriend(one year older), we're together for over 2 years and we are living together for one year now. But one year ago I met the other guy (3 years younger), we became very good friends, we chatted and sometimes we met ... (326 words)

Can I get into trouble over something I haven't consciously done? I'm scared of my ex's threats!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a scary problem, me and my ex have been good friends since we split up, or so i thought,im well known for falling asleep in the middle of a conversation/disscusion/even an argument after a few drinks, what happened tonight i havent a clue, i know he was going on about... (370 words)

Spotting before period - a precursor to pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Now, some of you may have seen my answers to many questions before, but I'm more of a relationship-advice type person, I know nothing about anatomy, nor the biology of a human being. My girlfriend and I had sex [she was lightly spotting, which she's been doing for the pa... (174 words)

She ended the relationship because we started to argue and make each other unhappy, any views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend were together for a year and a half. About 7 weeks ago she ended the relaionship because over about 5 months we started to argue and make each other unhappy. She wasnt been herself anymore and felt like she was a bad person for doing things with her... (378 words)

He is asking me to marry him but his age is an imposing hinderance to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Iam 24 years of age. i have recently met a 42 year old man who is very kind, loving and considerate in evry possible way. However, the age difference between us makes me fear to commit to him. he is asking me to marry him but his age is an imposing hinderance to me. please ... (57 words)

My BF and I are happy together but I can't help thinking about my ex lover at times (he is married and still cheating his wife)...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - as I have posted here before, i fell in love with a married man who had two affairs out of marriage before with me. He said he was only serious about me and he seriously planned to divorce for me, he actually did ask her wife to agree to divorce, but she did not agree. Then we ... (325 words)

Help, I'm In love with my stepbrother!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My Mom will be getting married to a very nice man in March of 09. This man has a son that is 14, I am 13 and I REALLY REALLY like him, maybe evan LOVE HIM! I have never felt this way about anyone in my life, I have had several crushes before but never one like this. I don't ... (387 words)

Slept with a few girls but too scared to go to the clinic for a check?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've slept with a few girls, but too scared to go to clinic what should i do?... (17 words)

She won't talk to me, and I found emails to her ex. Is she using this as revenge?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girl friend had a love relation for about 2 years... we used to have small fights but inside we loved each other.. i knew about her ex boy friend we had couple of fights related to him as well.. we are in love with each other in deep love.. but recently we used to ... (404 words)

He probably doesn't like me. Should I tell him how I feel anyway?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a question about the relationship with my friend. I have liked him for over a year now. He's liked me in the past, but he might have moved on. He's not willing to date me, however. Or anyone for that matter. Afraid of commitment maybe? I've tried to just move on, ... (97 words)

What things should I know about relationships so I can keep this great girl?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im with this girl who im very attracted to mentally and physically. shes 17 shes smart and has a voice older for her age. we are bascially taking it slow. and its almost perfect bc like she said, i dont have to prove anything when im with you. like i feel the same way. n shes ... (123 words)

Could I still be pregnant if his pre-cum didn't get inside me?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this close friend had sex. i was a virgin and he wasn't. we both were clothed, but we had sex without protection. then he pulled out of my vagina. then he pre cam on the floor. can i still get pregnant if the pre cum never got inside me ?... (52 words)

Am I just being needy or is he being unfair?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I being too needy or is he being unfair? I have been dating a sweet boy for three months. (We known each other for three years, and dated for six months the first year...I don’t know just felt like telling you that.) Well the second month he got a night job and it took away... (248 words)

Should I be embarassed about this?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had anal sex with my boyfriend, and crap came out does this happen sometimes or should I be embarrassed?... (21 words)

Why can't I meet a guy who is not a liar, not into porn, not an addict or not into the bleached blonde, blow-up doll type, which I am not, am I just unlucky in love, or do I need a change of venue from southern California?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I am a 27 year old healthy, fun, athletic, sincere, hard working, (like to think of myself as) pretty attractive female. I live in Southern California and it seems like every man I meet is a liar, is an addict, is into porn (which I don't approve of), or else is ... (89 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed about my ex, how can I make him get over it?

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15 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I'm having problems with my boyfriend. In short, once he asked about my past, didn't like whet he heard, and now it's exhausting trying to reassure him, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells! My past is not bad, but he jus didn't like it - not like I had orgies, far from... (486 words)

Why doesn't he want to make it work? How can I make him come back?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello ... A Male and Female have feelings for each other. Been going out for 3 months intensly. They break up due to uncertanty and trust issues regarding past events that sent the relationship into turmoil. Text from other females found on his mobile with clear indication... (202 words)

He is a wonderful husband, does everything for me, gives me everything, we have a lovely child, I have no problems, except I don't love him, I try but I just can't, I must leave, why can't I love him?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im married for 4 years, We are doing fine, we live a simple life, and have a beautiful baby girl,,, i thought marrying him would be the best for me,,,i was wrong i was mostly unhappy of a lot of things he was nice he do everything for me, everything i want he gave me, his ... (174 words)

Our age difference isn't that big, how can I win this guy over?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ill make this quick. I met this guy, I liked him right away. He would always call me, and ALWAYS want me to go see him. When we hooked up, it got out pretty fast. People started talking and they told him that I was lying about my age. He got mad and told me, "I disrespected... (179 words)

Is he just being extremely nice?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost 2 years ago, I met this military guy in a delivery of some radios to his base. He was my contact but I had the chance to talk with him twice bfore he left. I didn't knew I like him until our second meeting where he fascinated me. He was flirty and super nice to me and ... (294 words)

I think he's into me, but he has a boyfriend, and I don't want to ruin our friendship!

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a gay male and I am 18 years old. I have a friend who recently helped me accept myself for who i am. Anyway, me and him have shared some past experiences with each other. Not serious. But since I met him I have been highly attracted to him. And now that I have gotten ... (266 words)

I am 14, never been kissed, boy, I like is taking me to the mall, and wants to kiss me, I am afraid to kiss him, what can I do, to not be so afraid??

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 14 and ive never been kissed... there is this guy i really like and im going to the mall with him in a week... he told me he to kiss me... i want to kiss him but im scared... (41 words)

She has a problem with commiting to a relationship, because she is afraid she might cheat on me, she is not into public displays of affection, as I want her to be, how do I get her to commit and be more outgoing?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey every one....ok, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 5 months now, partially off and on cuz we r both really busy people. she has had a bit of a troubled past, with boy friends cheating on her, and about being bi for a year... yes ok we are both only 17 but ... (262 words)

I need advice from a female, as to how to "squirt", anyone have any information, they can share?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i know how it feels to have an orgasm, but i want to learn how to "squirt" i've done some reading and they say it's a natural feeling to hold back...but how do i let go? i've seen it in porn but they're professionals. ... (44 words)

He won't let anyone in, is a liar, will not talk about his past, want to help, don't know how, he wants space, should I give it to him or keep trying??

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating this guy who is a compulsive liar and won't let anyone close to him emotionally. he won't talk to anyone about his past and told me he needs space. i want to help him deal with his past but don't know how. Is it better to just give him space or keep trying?... (57 words)

Have a best friend who I am in love with, trouble is, he is in love with someone else, I want to be out of the whole thing, because I can't have him, and he wants the other girl, what can I do to get away from him?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Pls advice me on breaking wit my best friend with whom i had fallen in love.He was not aware of this.This guy s in love with another girl.But s loving me when he heard i've fallen for him to make me happy.I don feel he s truely loving me.I had tried a lot to get rid of h... (127 words)

I am confused and I cry a lot, don't know if I still love my boyfriend, we decided to separate for a while,miss him, but not sure what to do now, please help me?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and we have a lot of fun together. He is basically the ideal boyfriend. He really cares for me and would pretty much do anything for me. But for the past couple of weeks I have been rethinking our relationship, and if ... (161 words)

My husband accuses me of masturbating in my sleep and, and he yells at me, now he wants to video tape me while I am masturbating, it is causing major problems because I don't want him to do it, what do I do, we are on the verge of divorce??

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15 July 2008 (F)

age - My husband just recently started to accuse me of masturbating in my sleep. This causing major problems in our marriage. He now is requesting I allow him to video tape while I am sleeping. I know I am not doing this because when he has yelled at me for doing this I was not ... (108 words)

We have been in a long distance relationship for a year, we love each other, told her I want to marry her, found out from a friend, she had another boyfriend, for six months of the year we were together, she broke up with him, I now have serious trus

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a distant relationhsip with a woman 4 yrs older than I am and the age difference was never a factor. Because we are 230 mils away, we made it a point to see each other every weekend for 1 year without a miss. We love each other very much and I had been telling ... (221 words)

My boyfriend was very loving, we had sex, he invited me to dinner with his family, all in the last week we were together, then bam, he said he didn't want a relationship, don't want him back, want to try to understand what happened, can anyone shed s

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15 July 2008 (F)

- I'm 19 years old. My bf recently broke up with me but I didn't see it coming because right up until the very last night we spent together he was totaly leading me on. He lead me on by talking about our future, making more plans, sleeping with me, inviting me to family dinners ... (352 words)

I got beated up, until I was bleeding, evidently because I am gay, my friend who witnessed it, went to the principal's office, and told, when I asked him not to, why would he do that??

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15 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I get pick on a lot because people think I'm gay (which I'm not) the "popular" kids shoved me into lockers, beat me up. One day I talking to my friends (who hadn't ditch me to be popular) until those guys push me into a locker and I started bleeding. One of my friends had ... (83 words)

Plain and simple, I need intercourse, I am on birth control, no kids for five years, if it works, my boyfriend does not want to worry about pregnancy, so no sex, I want sex, how do I persuade him to comply??

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half, and we have not had sex. We've messed around and done different kinds of sex. He has told me that he is extremely paranoid about pregnancy and he honestly can't help it. I've been really patient and I've been on many ... (126 words)

I want my ex in my life, because I could see myself marrying him, but I met this new guy who I feel extremely comfortable with, don't know if I love him him or am infatuated, torn between the two, what shoul I do?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm torn between two guys. One is my ex who I met 3 years ago, we dated for over a year, and have broken up and gotten back together 4 times. The other is this guy I met at a club. I met him about 8 months ago and instantly was attracted to him because he is cute and an ... (203 words)

Could someone give me a few exciting ideas, on what to do, for a Hen's Night for my newly engaged girlfriend; she has a baby and she is not into male strippers, also any ideas on engagement and wedding gifts?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! My best friend just got engaged and she's asked me to be matron of honour! I'm realy excited for her and looking for some exciting ideas for a hens night. She has a baby and not very interested in being surrounded by male strippers or the like. Also maybe some ideas on ... (57 words)

We are both 15, we love each other, have had sex already, he has a job, and he wants us to have a baby, when we turn 17, I am not sure about this, please give me advice about having a baby at this age"

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! well my boyfriend and i akready had sex for the first time a month ago we are both 15, i am really happy wth him there isnt one day he doesnt tell me he loves me. well last night we were talking, he started a conversation about how he wanted to have a baby once we turn 17 i ... (115 words)

Want to do something special for, or with my partner, on a tight budget, any suggestions?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm just looking for advice on special things to do for or with my partner (on a tight budget) just to suprise him. Any ideas? We're both 22 and only realy get to spend nights together as we both study and work through the day.... (46 words)

We used to be much closer, calling each other all the time, now I call her 10 times she answers 1 time, what has happened, am I only there for the times she is lonely, please help?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with her for a year now. We were doing so great. We talked to each other a lot. Everytime, I called her, she is there waiting. It rang the most 2 times, she pick up already. Recently, she always missed my call and rarely text me. Usually, she will text to say good... (205 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I am very atttacted to a co-worker, I want to kiss him, please help me?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my b/f for a few months now. We have an apartment together and really understand and love each other. We used to work together until I got transfered to another branch. Now I have developed a crush on another co-worker who is married. He seems to flirt with me, ... (109 words)

Gay, not out yet, and in love with a straight guy, don't want to harm his reputation or, face rejection from my friends, please help??

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am thirteen years old and I am in love with a boy who I am almost positive is not gay. I want him so badly but to get him I would have to come out, which would mean certain rejection from "freinds" I am sure this is not a phase because I have been in love with this boy 4 ... (95 words)

When I want to have sex, it seems I always have a need to go to the bathroom, is this normal?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - sooooooooo embaressed to ask this but uhh whenever i get horny or get turned on i have to use the bothroom i mean is there something wrong with me? cuz my boyfreind been a waiting and i want to to but whenever i get turned on i need to go to da bathroom help?... (54 words)

I caught my cousins smoking! What should I do?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well i went on a trip on a family reunion then i went to ya know hang with my cousins but the bad part is i caught one of them smoking im shocked oh yea 2 of my cousins were smoking thats horrible and disgusting now every time i see them i see big words that say smoker what the ... (73 words)

I have this very strong desire to have a baby; my partner says he's not ready. I did have an abortion over a year ago, when I was with another man and I wasn't ready then...

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im 22 years of age, I will finnish sutdies in events management at the end of this year, and I have strong desires to be very successful in my career. I also have very strong desires to become a mother. Over a year ago now, I had an abortion. I hardly new the father, ... (149 words)

Please tell me ~ how do I deal with my insecurities and learn to relax?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy likes everything about me...but I am so insecure with how I look, coming up with intelligent conversations, and speaking my mind...so how do I deal with my insecurities and relax?... (32 words)

I need help to help my Mom make the right decision. My Dad hurt her a couple of weeks ago and now we're living with my grandparents...

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my family is kind of going throught a rough time rite now. a couple weeks ago my dad hurt my mom and now im living with my gradparents with my mom my sister and my brother. i dont know wether to be mad at my dad or not. i refuse too see him because im scared of him. Also my ... (214 words)

I'm not used to expressing myself, so how do I open up?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a great boyfriend who wants to know what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling all the time. I'm not used to expressing myself and I fear if I do, I might scare him or I will cause problems when things are great. So how do I open up to him?... (54 words)

How do I let go of this relationship once and for all, get my confidence back, and just love my new boyfriend even though he doesn't have any money and neither do i?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my abusive ex boyfriend 9 months ago. I went in debt living with him because he made me pay for groceries when i didn't have the money to. i wasn't helping pay his mortgage on a house he had owned long before he met me, so he thought that was fair. anyway, when ... (512 words)

Do you think I should 'come out'?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Should I come out of the closet? I'm thirteen and live in a community that mostly hates gays. But i just feel so bottled up with no one to talk to. should I tell my best freind? I don't want our freindship to end. He's also a super Christian. I feel like I want to expl... (65 words)

How do I go about dating the girl everyone hates?

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who most of my friends dont like. She knows I like her. I dont know If I should ask her out or just be friends and not risk losing my other friends. What should I do?... (39 words)

My fiance started making out with his ex...he knew I was in the same room!

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15 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My fiancé went to his ex-girlfriend's place. He says their "just friend". It never bother me that they "friends" until now. Later he called asking me to pick up because his drunk and couldn't drive himself home (we're living together). When I got their his ex told me come in. ... (102 words)

Should I lose my virginity to him? I don't know if I want to.

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend loves me (and i know he does) and i love him too, i'ts just, he is not a virgin, but i am. He wants to have sex, but i dont know if i want to tho. I dont know if he wants me for my body or for me. I just dont know if i should give my virginity up to him!!!!!... (64 words)

He's saying he'll give me all his love 'til the day I become someone's wife. What shall I do?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all My boyfriend is in love with another girl. I want him to be mine. We were great friends for 2 years. He thought i don't care him, well cos i was very rude to him from the start to hide from him that i'm in love with him. He was shocked to hear i'm in love with him. He... (154 words)

How do I let him know he is doing a good job?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I let my boyfriend know he is doing a good job when he fingers me without saying anything? I can tell he's nervous and I just want him to calm down..Help!... (33 words)

I love the path I've chosen and the decision of moving was certainly one of the best things I've ever done, but the emptiness and anxiety is killing me.

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15 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - This is not necessarily a relationship question but i need help and google led me to you so here it goes. I'm 19 and studying abroad since September. i'm from a warm and summery country and am now living in a cold and rainy one...but for some reason only now this is really beco... (201 words)

Please help me find something that is comfortable, that won't ITCH ME!!

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem wearing bra's and I'm so frustrated. Everything I wear seems to itch, even the softest cotton. I've tried every kind that I know of...the only kind that worked for me was a 100% cotton sport type bra from venus I think, and now they don't make them anym... (68 words)

I often wonder why I can't seem to find the right man. In a few years I'll be too old to become a new mother.

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a twenty nine year old nurse and mother of a 7 year old son whom I just adore! I have a lot going for me including looks, intelligence, and witt. I often wonder why i can't seem to find the right man. I would love to someday get married to the love of my life and possibly ... (125 words)

My girlfriend is now willing to have anal sex, now I need some advice, please.

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15 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All, Well i am 27 and hve a gf. I want to do anal sex and i am kind of crazy for that. I like to see movie with anal sex, also i discuss the same with my gf. First she was not ready but now she said YES over the phone. Whenever we met she just start saying that next tim... (174 words)

I can't keep lying to my boyfriend. I still love him. I know I do. Please help

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15 July 2008 (F)

- Ive been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now and i have never been tempted by anyone else. However, I met someone at college about a week ago and we clicked instantly. We exchanged mobile numbers and msn addresses and have been talking every day since we met. We have bot... (208 words)

What is the deal with this? Is this guy a jerk or something?

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15 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey something really funnny happened. I moved to florida two years ago, I used to live in New Jersey and I knew a lot of people up there. There was this one guy whom I knew as an friend but we never really hung out. Suddenly on facebook, he asked me when I was coming back up t... (180 words)