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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is the etiquette of oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is probably a question that will get vastly different answers, but I have been curious to know the answer to the following question: What is the etiquette of oral sex? When you go down on a person, do you expect to kiss them after or do you run to the bathroom to br... (120 words)

Is my cousin trying to get sexual with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My cousin is staying with the family and I, but what should I do about his adittude when he is around me? When he pisses off he will think its okay to poke or tickle me i dont like that at all, i mean its nothing sexal but last night he was looking at porn now im really ... (181 words)

We just got together but we won't see each other for another month! I don't want to nag him, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv only just got together with my boyfriend after we started talking on a dating website. We met a few days ago and it was fantastic, the best date iv ever had and we spent the whole weekend together. i think hes amazing and he says the same about me. We both go to the same ... (306 words)

I have a feeling something is wrong, do you think I could be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am on birth control and I have never had an issue with it, I have been on it for about a year now. I went to visit my boyfriend this past Thursday, and I had taken the pill that day as usual. Friday I forgot to take it, we had sex twice. Saturday I realized I forgot ... (166 words)

My father is visiting from another country and embarrases me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My father is from another country and is visiting me for the first time. He has never met any of my friends or in-laws etc so it will be the first time. However I am mortified about my father and the fact he embarrasses me constantly and I am so wary about him meeting people I ... (360 words)

How can I get the kid I tutor to open up? He's very quiet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I'm tutoring this kid. He's 15, I'm 19. I met him through my therapist (also a patient). He told me he needed lessons and asked me if I'd be interested in doing so. Sure I was! Extra money that I don't have and experience, as I want to be a teacher. While I've had two les... (160 words)

Is this oral sex or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - If a girl kisses the shaft of the penis and not the tip, is that considered as oral sex or not.... (21 words)

Is a quiet girl more likely to dump you than a loud one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Is quietness a sign of boredom? My gal is really quiet so I cant tell what shes feeling like... my question.... is a quiet girl more likely to dump you than a loud one? ... (39 words)

My boyfriend is away for a couple of months, and I found some suspicious emails from a woman. I don't want to accuse him unnecessarily, what do you think?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My partner of 4 years has taken a couple of months to do a round-the-world trip, following a life dream... he asked me to come, but I knew he needed to do this by himself, and he thanked me for giving him his freedom, and said that he wouldnt abuse it - he knew it was a ... (401 words)

I'm worried about getting cervical cancer by having sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am afraid of having sex again because of thinking about cerival cancer what can i do? ... (19 words)

Hmm... How do you play hard-to-get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've been with this guy for about 4 months now.. He hasn't been with me that much recently. I have a hunch that he thinks I'm clingy.. I want to know how to stop him from thinking that. If you guys think I should play hard to get.. Can you give me some tips on how ... (70 words)

I lost my girlfriend to a computer game, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I think i may have lost my girlfriend to a computer game called second life. we just broke up about a month ago. I didn't think anything of it until about two weeks ago. She spends every waking moment on the game for the last three months, ignoring her duties around the house, ... (170 words)

Can you masturbate if your hymen hasn't been broken

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can you masturbate if your hymen hasnt been broken... (9 words)

My roomate has a girlfriend but he wants sex with me. Is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend and I have slept together a few times. I talk to this boy everyday. We get along great, trust each other and have not once argued. We tell each other stuff we would not tell anyone else. He just recently started seeing this girl. Well he wanted a roommate and I ... (164 words)

She decided she needs her own space, but I love her and now I am lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with the same girlfriend on and off for almost five yesars. We have been "seperated" for almost a year and she has wanted to be back with me but I had alot of problems and just couldnt get myself to go back to her. Even though I see myself with this girl forever and ... (488 words)

Do you think her male friend is jealous of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Today my girlfriend(call her jessica) went out with her friend (call her sara).I didnt mind that i wasnt going because it was just her and her really close friend so i am fine with just the two of them. So im talking to her on msn and i find out that other friends(call them ... (338 words)

We broke up, he has a new girlfriend, does he still think of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hi so went out with this boy we spent so much time together like 24/7 that we started arguing..i said thing that i shouldnt and mugged him off..so we broke up..he wouldnt go anywhere i was and would stare at me and tell people he hated me..we said we loved eachother after 2 ... (85 words)

What is worse, regret or rejection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age - I have always feared regret more than i fear rejection, but the rejections are mounting up I'm wondering if it would be best not to tell people i fancy them when i do, what d'you think?... (36 words)

He broke his promise when he looked up swinging parties and porn again, how can I trust him in our future marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Just over a year ago i found text messages on my fiance's phone. There were about 20 texts. The texts indicated arranging a meeting with another woman. The last of the texts sent said 'I wont tell, if you don't.' My fiance had never mentioned this woman before. I was very hur... (726 words)

He has made my life misery....but does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Below is the site of my pervious situation http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-shows-all-these-signs-he-likes-me.html My situation continues, so Jack (the man I like) he invited me to a meal, so I went. He invited all his mates and my mates well the one’s who he hangs a... (794 words)

Can I win back my boyfriend after he cheated and get things back the way they used to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So..hello. Recently, My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 year and about 6 months and before that on and off for about 6 months..we've been though alot for that amount of time. Cheating on his part. and I lost my virginity to him. But now, there was a big mistake ... (240 words)

How do I move on if he won't let me go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated my husband for two years and we have been married for one year, so a total of three years off and on, much of which was long distance. During this time he has cheated on me with 2 different women, had an inappropriate relationship with his ex wife (nothing physical ... (236 words)

Why does he back off? I'm so confused....could it be because he's depressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Around 6 weeks ago i was seeing bloke from work for a short time but he had some problems and said he really liked me but felt he would let me down as he has slight depression and has good and bad days and is still getting over his ex. Anyway we stopped seeing each other things ... (344 words)

How can I get over my ex when he seems to be over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my boyfriend and i of two years broke up suddenly when he had a "breakdown" and had to move out of state where he grew up all his life.... i took him to the airport and he called me when he had a layover but i missed his calls and he never called me again. its been ... (318 words)

He wants to stop seeing me because I will not commit to a relationship. I don't want him to go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I a 28 years old and have been in and out of relationships since i was 14 but i can't seem to settle for what ive got and always mess fings up I have just recently come out of a relationship and have had to move back with my parents for the 3rd time!! I have a really good... (205 words)

We argued a lot and now we're on a break. I don't want to lose her. Should I go and speak to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi people, I'm a 24 year old guy from London, and have been having a few problems with my girlfriend of 5 years, which is really making me feel depressed. The first three years of our relationship was just like any other... there were good times and there were arguments. ... (391 words)

The thought of getting caught really turns me on!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

22 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - the thought of getting caught really turns me on when were having sex, i know it sounds really strange. when me and my boyfriend are having sex, i prefer to do it like, in his bedroom when his parents are in, or in his car, where its risky, i dont have any idea why?! does ... (66 words)

Males point of view: He says things have flopped, could this mean he still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm dating this guy. I'm 15, hes 16. Things are not the same anymore as I haven't seen him as much. He said things have now flopped/failed between us. Before I told him I liked him he used to do all these cute things to get my attention and maybe get me to like hi... (296 words)

Have I sacrificed too much for this illegal alien with possible ADD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in 2000 I was a senior in college and met a man from a developing country, 7 years older than me. We fell intensely in love with each other, in a way I've never even remotely felt with anyone else. The relationship had so much of what I was looking for - passion, fun, ... (933 words)

Is my wife just down or is there something more to this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age - I've worked for 23 years and recently laid off my wife hardly wants to have sex and leaves 45 minutes early to work..she eventually said, she will break down to someone because she keeping everything inside. We are having hard time finaully. Is talking to someone. Is she just ... (50 words)

He's a great father and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I did have a talk with him last night and he said he wants to be with, he just wants all the fightin to stop.BUt see he has a kid from a previous marriage and it is very hard getting along with his ex. HE always does what she wants over me, and it hurts. I know he doesn't want ... (120 words)

Do you think I should tell her how I feel about her? I want to do this right.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, I have been really good friends with this girl that goes to the same uni as me. As we got to know each other I asked her out for lunch one day and walked her home etc. I never dated her then because she had just broke up with someone and I wanted to give h... (328 words)

What can I do to get revenge on this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - pls someone should tell me how to suffer a guy just to get back at him. what do i do to revenge? i saw a picture of a girl i suspect him to be with and some outgoing and incoming calls from both parties. he denies it and said he just wanted to show his friends the face of his ... (77 words)

Do a person's true feelings come out when they get drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone would like your opinions please, do you believe that when somebody is a bit drunk their true feelings come out, does the fact that inhibitions are dropped make it easier for someone to say or show how they really feel. Thought it would be interesting to see what ... (57 words)

I'm trying to get pregnant. I need some advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to get pregnant really bad but my tubes is tied but i have read plenty of time that people still got pregnant without the surgery is there anybody who would no what sex moves would help me and what pills to get me and my boyfriend know what i am doing so this is not ... (67 words)

I get turned on by porn. Am I normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I get turned on by watching porn and reading kinky stories. I live with my boyfriend and we ahve a healthy sex life but I almost always have to fantasize about someone else or just being in a different environment to get turned on. At work, I go online to read about kinky sex ... (120 words)

He says he likes me and wants to date me, but keeps getting back together with his ex instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy but there have been problems and things that have come in the way, he was datin this girl for months then they broke up and he said i liked him as number 2 , then i was number 1 but after this he got back with his ex then they broke up again a few days later and ... (136 words)

Can a marriage work when two people care about one another, but don't have 'chemisty'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I had a very short "dating" experience, we went straight from meeting to moving in to marriage. We didn't take the time to get to know each other and it has been a very long, challenging road just over the past year. We both admit that we just don't "click" we ... (133 words)

If you love your teacher should you leave them alone and let them go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is loving this teacher and i don’t she’s gay but she’s obsessed with her…and the teacher has just left and she’s just depressed and heartbroken.. She’s asking me if you love a teacher should you Let Them go??? Please post your thoughts.. ... (53 words)

We've messed eachother around for 3 years, but he now wants to move on. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up a week ago, he went out with someone else coz he was told that i cheated on him but i didn't we only started hanging out again recently coz he broke up with his gf. we always get along, we are genuinely in love and evn though we've been through hea... (232 words)

He gone cold because I was ill and couldn't see him. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE weird with him and me. ... (377 words)

What advice do I give to my friend about her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My friends boyfriend is messing her around - they got together a year ago, they've had their arguments, like all couples, and they've broken up more times than I care to think!! Two Thursdays ago she said he dumped her because she was, in his words (according to her) 'bad in ... (84 words)

Struggling to know what to do about this girl who's in love with her ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Doc Love My name is andrew - I'm 36 years of age - divorced and have been single now for 4 years. In that time I have one 18 month relationship and have dated quite a lot of woman ( when I mean dated - what I mean is that I have taken a lot of woman out for dates ). I'm... (1508 words)

Biology question - can you get pregnant from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - can you get pregnant if he fingered you and his finger had cum on it but the morning after you got your period, and then.. while you were on your period u had sex? ... (39 words)

We've had a complicated over cautious relationship - what do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, the more opinions the better please, this one has me stumped! I started seeing a guy around mid April, we were boyfriend/girlfriend but keeping it quite casual as I'd just come ut of a long relationshipo and he's often busy with work and is cautious himself as we've both ... (198 words)

Health question about teen boy masterbation...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - today i was masturbating and nothing happened except clear stuff came out. what happened?... (14 words)

I've been a faithful girlfriend for years - why am I tempted by this new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a long term relationship and can honestly say Ive never even turned my head at another guy in the 5 years we have been together but recently a guy at work has caught my attention and Im confused. I have only known him since december but he is such a nice person and ... (199 words)

Will masturbating stop me from having kids when I grow up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - does masturabatng stop me from having kids when i grow up ... (13 words)

I've just found out his passwords - do I sneak a peak at his emails?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having another moral crisis in my relationship, and dont know what to do... I've known my boyfriend for aboutfour years, we've been in a relationship for nearly two. Basically at Christmas last year I saw he had messaged one of his ex girlfriends saying he missed her and ... (515 words)

How much time do I give him to sort out his mid-life crisis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What is a wife to do when husband doesnt know what he wants. Believe he is going through midlife crisis. Whats time to think things through can tell me he loves me some of the time not all the time. Says he doesnt want me to give up on him and that he really wants it to work ... (85 words)

If I watch gay porn and heterosexual porn, am I gay? How can I stop thinking about boys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi am i gay if i watch both kinds of porn or does it happen to any person and how can i stop im confused and is there anything ican do to stop thinking of boys thank you... (42 words)

I had a fight with one of my friends 6 months ago, and now everyone has dropped me like a rock. I don't have anyone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, I got into a fight with one of my friends. It was our first...and last fight. I started arguing with her because I was bringing up the fact that I was feeling ignored and replaced by this other girl (who is a real jerk by the way). You see, a few years ago my ... (246 words)

Is it just love on the rebound? Am I looking for something more serious than he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm really confused. Theres this guy who i have been getting to know for the last couple weeks. I really do like him and he says he likes me. We were gonna wait for tuesday which is today to actually go out.. but the last couple days things havent been the same... him ... (152 words)

I love her. I don't know how to tell her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We are just friends but I love her. She was my best friend but I fall in love first time I saw her. I don't know how to tell her. I'm sad and if I don't tell her I'll die :(... (45 words)

Is he genuine about having a relationship or does he just want something from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so Im a girl, Im 15 and my problem is with a boy, who is 18. Ive known this boy, lets called him "Josh" for little over two years now and we are really, really good friends. We text each other all the time, enjoy each others company and have such a laugh. I like him in both ... (297 words)

My friend goes crazy when she is drunk and says nasty things about me that aren't true. I'm really upset by all of it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Ok my problem is that i have a friend. She is one of the nicest people when she is sober but drinks wayyyy too much and goes crazy, sometimes its funny she doesnt do anything bad just dances and things like that but recently it has taken a bad turn. A week or ... (372 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend I still love her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my girlfriend about 2 years ago, and i still love her but i dont know how to tell her cause we go to diff schools. thx for the help.... (33 words)

I truly believe he is "the one". He said he doesn't believe in "the one". I feel used.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend since march 07, last night i asked him does he believe in 'the one' which he replied 'no', however i do believe in one and truly believe he is it. I know he loves me but for some reason i know feel used and don't know where to stand. ... (65 words)

He doesn't seem to make the effort, and then gets angry when I don't. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi y'all! I've been on and off with this guy for a while now,he tells my friends that he likes me and i see it too. However, he never makes it a point to get to me and gets angry when i take long to contact him. Why? Can anyone tell me? ... (52 words)

He's 44 and she's 19. Is he a pervert?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age - the man i am sleeping with, wants an open relationship, i am in love with him so go along with it just to be with him. Now he tells me hes met a 19yr old girl and wants to see her again cos they have a connection - he's 44! does that make him a pervert... (56 words)

My boyfriend moved out of state to play football. Should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i really love my bf but he treats me bad and moved out of state for a year just too play football my friend are telling me too break up with him but i cant im too attached ?wat shud i do ... (45 words)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months and we do have a happy relationship, but my boyfriend still won't have sex with me! I have tried to be alluring and sexy for him but he just never seems interested in me. I'm still a virgin and i feel really hurt that I'm not as ... (100 words)

I keep having trouble talking to my ex boyfriends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been good friends wiht one of my ex boy friends since we broke up. I talk to him almost every night, but i keep wanting to tell him i love him and play those games we use to play like "you hang up no you hang up" I am married and while i cant say we are the happiest in ... (144 words)

Does he want to be more than just friends with benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... I have been talking to this guy for the past two or three weeks... When we first talked we decided that we were going to be friends with benefits and nothing else... I feel like I might be starting to want him as more than just a fwb... Recently, we were on the phon... (219 words)

I seem unable to carry a baby to full term. What are we doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im almost 20 years old and have had 3 miscarriage with my husband in the past year.we lost a set of twins at 7 months in sept of last year and than lost another when i wasnt even 12 weeks in january 2008 and just lost another at 9 1/2 weeks july 3rd 2008 i was wanting advice on ... (102 words)

How can I get over my grandfather's death?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What would u do if u count get over ur grandfathers death even if its been a year? I kind of dont want to get over it but it makes me upset and i take all my fustrations out on my girlsfriend. Would would u do?... (47 words)

I found out that my fiance' has slept with his ex-wife. Should I forgive him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After a long suffering separation and the legal issues, my fiance' is getting his final court date for a divorce in September. However, I was nosy and looked in his email. I found out from the email that he has sent to his divorce lawyer, said to him that he has slept with h... (334 words)

What is so appealing about the women in porn? And how can I feel better about myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I know this is probably asked around a lot, but I just can't help but feel awful. I've checked out porn, and while yeah, some porn starts have downright UGLY faces, make squirrel like sounds (how can you guys get off to that pitch?) and most have awful hair and make up... t... (280 words)

I really like him, how do I tell him without him thinking I'm kidding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This started this year, IV known him for like my whole life. He is one year older then me. I have no clue what to do I rally want to tell him how I feel but I don’t know how. He comes over to my house all the time and sleeps over. He is so nice to me, whenever I’m around ... (115 words)

Should I leave her alone now that she is free from my ignorance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend of almost five years and I just recently broke up. We had a rocky relationship, that was mostly due to my taking her for granted. I always had a problem telling her that "I love you", i don't know why. I truly do love her, and always have. what I want to know ... (121 words)

Anal sex hurts me too much but I want to make him happy. Why doesn't it hurt other girls as much?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now. we have done pretty much everything in bed. except anal, he has asked to before, and says he wants to try it, so we tried. and i find it hurts way to bad.we have tried on more than one occasion.i want to do it to ... (86 words)

Is what I said years ago making him believe I want to have sex with him?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question just popped into my head after thinking about a situation at least five or six years ago. A long-distance male friend of mine and I were talking about sex (we were in middle school at the time). He's been very sexually active for years, including then. We were tal... (201 words)

I tend to only look at my girlfriend's breasts. I think I like breasts too much!

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've recently been worried with my eye for "chests". When I'm with my girlfriend, I tend to only look at her chest area. I must admit she has DD cups and for a 17 year old, that is big! I think I like breasts too much and start fantasizing about her "juggs". Is this normal?, am ... (67 words)

My girlfriend wants me to go down on her. How do I proceed?

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is great! I love her and want to stay with her for a long time! Problem is she wants me to go down on her. My concern is: how do I proceed?, do I need anything before doing it?, how do I do it?, and does it taste good? thx!... (52 words)

I moved in with my girlfriend a week ago and we haven't had sex since! Help!

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now since we were in college. She just got a job in a new town, and we got an apartment living together for the first time. She moved in about a month ago, and I was supposed to move in during mid August when my job ... (548 words)

He told me he loves me but I don't know if he means it. How do I tell?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i told a guy that i love him so much and at first he didnt say anything but then he told me that he loves me, but i am just not sure if he really means it or not, because i thought it would be easy for him to say after me saying it. how do i know if the guy really loves me... (106 words)

I'm attracted to lots of guys but I fantasize about women, am I bisexual?

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - How can i tell if I'm bi? I'm not attracted to many girls but those who i am i have fantasies about and i look at female porn. I'm attracted to lots of guys but i don't have fantasies about men and i don't look at gay porn.... (48 words)

We're going to different colleges and I'm afraid of what it will do to our relationship. Should I visit a palm reader?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship since fresham year of high school. We've been on/off, but everytime we get back we both feel like our relatioship is better and stronger. We both learned (at least i know i did) from our mistakes. We're both going to diff colleges. I know maybe too ... (206 words)

I don't trust my ex when he says he wants to be friends. Do I mention this to him?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my younger brothers have taken up extra curriculars that I once was involved in during my youth; which is not the problem. As they are involved in the same circles that I once was they often come upon people from my past; most recently a sort-of ex. And recently that ... (235 words)

I feel like my friend has forgotten me.

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm heartbroken because I feel like my best friend has abandoned me. Why do friends forget about each other sometimes? Is there something wrong with me? My best friend and I are both in different countries and have really busy lives, and I don't expect him to give hiswhole ... (164 words)

How can I deal with a boyfriend who is on anti-depressants?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for almost a year now. I love him very much, and I am scared that this relationship is falling apart from his recent depression. We have had wonderful moments together. However, things have not always been that great due to the fact that he has panic ... (534 words)

I'm attracted to my cousin. Is this normal? What should I do?

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm attracted to my cousin. Shes my first cousin through marraige, but I've known her before my parents married. We always hit it off and she has a great personality. However, I'm also physically attracted to her and I don't know what she thinks of me. I know she likes me as ... (116 words)

I want to be with this boy, but my religion doesn't allow it. What should I do?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 20, the boy i like is also 20. he likes me. i like him. he has hinted he would like to be in a relationship with me by saying things like 'see if you were my gf you'd have something to do' or 'if we were a couple...' he's also tried to get me to go out with him..... (541 words)

I'm getting fed up with my sister's ex. What do I do?

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22 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My guy friend and his girlfriend (my sister) broke up (a month ago) because she cheated on him with his best friend (their not friends anymore). He has been driving me crazy by calling ahead to ask my sister is here. If she is he'll make up reason saying why he can't come by ... (112 words)

How can I remind them every now and then that I AM a girl and not just another dude?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the situation... I'm the typical guy's girl... you know the one who always hangs out with guys all the time but who isn't really the tomboy? Yep, that's me. But here's my dilemma... I'm going to this new school this year because I just moved and I want to hang out... (275 words)

Should I pawn his gift for money? I could always buy a fake version of what he got me!

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there people. Well, i broke up with my ex like, nearly 2 months ago now, after being together for almost a year and a half, and i was just looking for opinions really, he bought be a gorgeous real gold, real diamond heart shape ring for christmas, and its worth quite a bit, ... (179 words)

He NEVER calls/texts me but treats me like a princess when we are together?!

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is confusing me, and I'm begining to wonder if he's really just not that into me. We've been together for a little over a month, and when we're together he treats me like a princess. He's very affectionate and sweet. But then as soon as he leaves, it's lik... (392 words)

When will my shy boyfriend ever kiss me?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Im a 14 year old girl and i have been going out with my boyfriend for exactly a month. the problem is he is really shy. he tells me he wants to kiss me but any time we have a chance he doesn't. we went to the movies last we and kissed me on the head when i we where cuddling but ... (68 words)

The married man I'm seeing hurt me the last time we had sex. Should I break it off now?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been having an affair with a man in another city. We only see each other about once or twice a year. When I saw him this year he seemed distant and when we had sex he hurt me. When I told him it hurt he seemed to thrust even harder until he came. He apoligized ... (102 words)

I fear I may have fallen victim to an online predator....help me please, should I meet him?

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old male and i recently met an older man off of a forum. It wasn't a dating forum or anything, and we started off as just friends, just talking about stuff. On my account it said i was 21 (I had listed my age as that to be taken more seriously by the other ... (207 words)

How do I find my birth father?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have a problem, im 16 years old and i dont know anything about my birth father. not even a name. im not adopted. i try to ask my family especially my mum but they just seem to go quiet and change the subject. all i want in my life is to know who my birth father is, i do... (119 words)

How come all my dates from online turn out to be LUNATICS?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been internet dating on RSVP for 12 weeks now and have been on 6 dates. Each of these people i have gotten to know with several IM sessions, phonecalls, emails and sms chats. The thing is every single one of these people have been an absoloute lunatic, have not looked l... (262 words)

I really like her, but I don't want a good friendship to be ruined.

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 12 yr old male. I have a VERY good infact shes my BEST friend and shes almost 11 I really like her and im not sure but i think she likes me. She comes over to my house to play games watch movies ETC. She calls me almost every other day and she shares personal stuf... (115 words)

I get turned on by girls, am I bisexual?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 20 and been with my boyfriend for lil over 3 years.i love him and he turns me on but i really enjoy watching lesbian porn and girls gone wild.we watch it 2gether but i kinda get mad for him 2 watch it but i dont say anything.anyways am i bi sexual? I really want to make ... (124 words)

I want to makeout with him, how do I let him know?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i wanna makeout with my boyfriend but i don't know how to let him know. can anyone help me??!! we've been goen out for bout 3 months and we've kiss like little pecks on the lips but i wanna makeout with him and i don't know what to do. like if i should tell him or like give ... (69 words)

He said he wanted 'it all over me', what did he mean?

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22 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I (18) was talking to my boyfriend(19) and he said he wanted 'it all over me' i know im 18 and should know this, but what exactly did he mean?... (30 words)

I'm not interested in this guy, how do I let him know I was just flirting?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, i will be the first to admit I am a BIG TEASE! I love the attention I get from men. Guys at my work flirt endlessley with me, and I LOVE IT. I flirt back all the time but it's kinda a big game for me, I really just love the attention, i have no intention of having any type ... (401 words)

I'm in love with a woman I can't have, I don't want to hurt anyone else!

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - What do I do? is started back in December of last year with a co-worker. I had an affair, it was just about sex at first, we are both married so I thought I would never fell in love with her but I Did. In Feb she ended it with me saying she had to much to lose, and I went off... (337 words)

Should I tell my best friend I love him?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend is 15 n im 13 now, we had a thing for each other last year but when be asked me out, i got nervous and said 'no' i feel really bad cuz i loved him and said no. We still love each other he has told me that he does and i'd love to be able to say it back i know we're ... (96 words)

How can I stop being so needy?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of nearly 3 years said to me today, "if you don't stop being so needy i'm not going to want to be with you anymore".. he has a point i am very needy and if he doesnt reply to my texts i call him asking why, and i'm constantly fussing over him and stuff. i really d... (83 words)

I'm clueless as to how to ask this girl out. Little help?

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22 July 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I met this girl at work and I think she's awesome. We shoot emails back and forth sometimes like 80 a day, we take breaks together and have had a few random "date" nights. I definitly know there is some kind of connection, becuase shes been emailing my little sister getting ... (161 words)

Help! I have a week to choose between two girls.

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22 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am currently Dating 2 girls at once, I hate this situation..It's kind of complicated...I only want 1 GF but I can't decide between the 2...Here's the background: I dated gf1 for 8 months (pretty decent relationship) She cooled off and she broke it off...2 weeks later St... (323 words)

He's all over the place! Can we work this out?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up almost a month and half ago after being together for a year and a half.for the last 3 or 4 weeks we had still been sleeping together and he still seemed concerned about my life. Last night he came over like usually and we had sex then we fought he thought I ... (269 words)

He says he wants to focus on his career for now and get back together later. Is he just playing with me?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month and a half ago, by boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me. Long story short, our relationship started off with us seeing eachother only once a week, for about 4 hours, each time because of my job. I left my job and moved in with him because I had no where ... (455 words)

How do I stop him accusing me of something I've never done?

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22 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we have lived together during the entire relationship.for the past 6 months he has accused me of cheating,left me for days at a time then had me come and get him,ive gotten him out of jail,stopped talking to my friends,quit going ... (84 words)