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anonymous
writes: I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not because of that. I am sure he is probably a player. WHY was he so annoyed about me kissing him quickly on the lips when he went, but he was happy to want to have sex with me on holiday just the week before? Had we had sex, surely there should be some kissing? or dont some men do all that? I wish I knew why he had gone off me so quickly.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 July 2008):
Anon has phrased it in a vulgar way but has it exactly right.
If there's no sex in it then he doesn't want to know you.
You are well rid of him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (29 July 2008):
i agree with ANON lil harsh but it seems he was after one thing, and obviously he maybe thought you knew that women are ment to be mind readers so i have learned..dont waste your time of day hun their is someone much better out their than this waste of space.. lots of hugs aphexy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): To answer the question posed in your headline: because he's an arsehole who's only after one thing. For men, kissing implies scary, bad things like romance, commitment and effort, whereas sex is just sticking their dick in a wet hole. Aren't you glad he's shown you what a jerk he is so you can rule him out as a potential partner without wasting a lot of time. He's done you a favour: shown you his true colours right up front.
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