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Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he does not care nor notice and I hope to find a female 'friend'. Am I heading towrds the big 'D' or u think is "normal"?

Ayudame!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntI agree with Tish, you both have let your marriage wither and die. If neither one of you is willing to make the effort to bring the marriage back to health then it's time to split the blanket, and in your case that means for the second time. Think about it.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntSounds like the big "D" to me if neither of you seem to be working together or particularly concerned about the other's happiness or well-being.

Why did you get married? Do you care enough about him to try to make it work? Figure that out, then try to fix it if you care enough or I guess you can observe the demise of a relationship through uninterested eyes. Your tone certainly sounds flippant enough.

Good luck.

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