Can a woman have sex with her husband and lover without giving anything away?
Q. I'm a guy of 54 years and was happily married for 19 years,there have been no Kids,which is the choice of my 44 year old wife (and mine).About six weeks ago I noticed my wife taking the odd call late at night and walking out of ear shot from me,this ...
A. 15 October 2009: Best of luck Thomas.... (read in full...)
I need advice about proceeding with my marriage plans.
Q. Dear Cupid: I have a dilemma. I recently got engaged to someone who I have been involved with for two years. To be honest, the person was involved in another relationship for a number of years when we got together but last year, things were ove...
A. 5 October 2009: My biggest fear is that if you let him off the the hook this time you are in essence giving him permission for this behavior in the future. If there are no repercussions for bad behavior then why not just carry on?... (read in full...)
Where to buy tasteful gay pride jewelry
Q. Hi So I've recently came out to people as being gay However I can't be bothered to tell everyone, and tbh I don't really know how to bring it up in conversation So I want to buy a small gay pride rainbow badge or item of jewlerey, something that...
A. 14 September 2009: You haven't truly come out if your family hasn't been told. You've only "selectively come out". Once you've told them your parent can order something online and you can pay him/her back. Speaking of back, hiding your sexually behind your parents' ... (read in full...)
Why did he deliberately have unprotected sex with me when he knew I could get pregnant?
Q. My ex (father to my daughter) and I have cultivated a friendship or so I thought after fourteen years of separation. As consenting adults we were involved in consensual intercourse. However, he purposely came inside me knowing I can get pregnant. ...
A. 14 September 2009: Why did YOU have unprotected sex when you knew you could pregnant? Gee Whiz it's a two way street Babycakes and at your age you should know that by now.... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my fiancee before I go to Iraq?
Q. so i suppose i'm here because im just at the end of my rope. i recently got out of boot camp and just got notice that i am going to iraq next week on tuesday. and i am aware i will be a different person if i make it back home . so i want to know, ...
A. 14 September 2009: Aww that is so sweet. Why not ask her what she wants to do? Two years is a drop in the bucket and she must love you very much if she agreed to marry you. Women have been waiting for their husbands, boyfriends, fathers, brothers, and sons to come ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wasnt paying me any attention when we had a threesome but now I think I want to try another one!
Q. so I'm bisexual female and Ive had the same boyfriend for over a year now. a threesome came up in our conversation about four months ago and we'd thought it be fun to try it with one of my friends thats a girl whos also a bisexual, we asked and she ...
A. 11 September 2009: There's nothing wrong with you. Threesomes should just stay a fantasy for you that's all. I think most couples would have a bad experience if they participated in one. I'm a believer in two's company but three's a crowd.... (read in full...)
My sister is having an affair. Should I tell her lovers wife.
Q. My sister has been having an affair for over a year now. They are both married although only content in their marriages. I want to reveal the affair to his wife but do not want to reveal my sister's identity because she has young children in the ...
A. 9 September 2009: Exactly why do you want to reveal this?... (read in full...)
Where can I find Mormon girls willing to have sex before marriage?
Q. Ok, so I'm a 24 year old Mormon guy. I'm not the best Mormon guy, but I do want to get married in the Mormon Temple. It is what it is. I started having sex when I was 20, and I have been with a number of girls that are Mormon as well, and I have ...
A. 9 September 2009: I think they are ordered by somebody to have a kid every year or so, aren't they?... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex boyfriend I am having worries after we slept together or should I just ignore them?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years split up around 3 weeks ago due to stupid things and my boyfriend feeling like he was under pressure from other sources. We have stayed in contact and over various discussions he has told me that what he did was a ...
A. 9 September 2009: I'd just ignore them and see what happens. Slow and easy wins the race.... (read in full...)
I need advice about proceeding with my marriage plans.
Q. Dear Cupid: I have a dilemma. I recently got engaged to someone who I have been involved with for two years. To be honest, the person was involved in another relationship for a number of years when we got together but last year, things were ove...
A. 8 September 2009: I'd put those marriage plans on hold. Trust is crucial in a marriage and you guys have zip. An apology from a guy who cheated ON you and who has cheated WITH you is pretty much meaningless if you ask me. The proof is in pudding.... (read in full...)
Can a woman have sex with her husband and lover without giving anything away?
Q. I'm a guy of 54 years and was happily married for 19 years,there have been no Kids,which is the choice of my 44 year old wife (and mine).About six weeks ago I noticed my wife taking the odd call late at night and walking out of ear shot from me,this ...
A. 8 September 2009: Wow, all I can say is that she will regret losing a man such as yourself. And this, when you are ready, you will have opportunity to live the rest of your life in perfect bliss with a woman who truly will appreciate you. All the best Tom.... (read in full...)
I still have strong feelings for my boyfriend but all this family drama is too much!
Q. This summer has been a lot of fun with my boyfriend but now that we have been spending "too much" time with one another, according to the adult they are very agitated. Now neither his parents nor my parents are cool about our relationship and caused ...
A. 8 September 2009: Sorry but I can't make hide nor hair out of your posting. Did you hit the wrong age bracket? Why would your parents and their opinions about your spending too much time with your boyfriend even come in to play? Tell eveyone to back off and mind ... (read in full...)
IF he loves me so much would he still want flirty texts from another woman?
Q. Re update on text cheating husband. Thanks for all the constructive comments but nobody answered the actual question I posed..... If my husband loved me as much as I'm sure he did (and still does) and was so full of regret, do you think it is ...
A. 4 September 2009: I think you are making yourself crazy about all these "what ifs". You really need to get some real help, Honey. Our speculations and guesses are not going to help you. Please consider setting up an appointment with a qualified therapist. We ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's interested? If so tips please?!
Q. I'm currently a senior student at school and today I've been noticing glances from this cute guy in my class. About 6 times actually in a 30 min period. He sometime kept looking at me but sometimes quickly looked away. When I laugh he would look at ...
A. 4 September 2009: Sounds interested to me, go up and say hi to him.... (read in full...)
Where can I find Mormon girls willing to have sex before marriage?
Q. Ok, so I'm a 24 year old Mormon guy. I'm not the best Mormon guy, but I do want to get married in the Mormon Temple. It is what it is. I started having sex when I was 20, and I have been with a number of girls that are Mormon as well, and I have ...
A. 4 September 2009: You could stand out in front of the Temple and pass out flyers. Do the Mormaons have like a newsletter? Maybe you could place an ad. ... (read in full...)
Does your body change after first time sex?
Q. Okay I know im 17 and all but I hear so many things and I can't tell if its bullsh and it or not dose your body change after having sex? If so how Do your breast get bigger Hips expand(I think it dose duh!) What happens? Thanks for the h...
A. 2 September 2009: The only thing that changes is that now you have a big grin on your face. ... (read in full...)
My married, younger boss has started taking an interest in me..help!
Q. Im 41 single never been married, no childern, and have just started really enjoying being in my 40s. About 3 months ago I landed a fantastic new job. but, 10 year younger married boss has now started showing interest. late phone calls at night ...
A. 2 September 2009: You really know what you have to do and that this relationship MUST not go any further. Do not be available for those late night phone calls that's what answering machines are for, make sure you keep your distance from him so he can't have those ... (read in full...)
Update on text cheating husband...
Q. Hi everyone, This is an update on the situation with my text cheating husband which I posted about a few times. We have recently returned from a cruise which was completely marred by 'her' and spent nearly every day arguing because I kept b...
A. 2 September 2009: You are obsessing over this. I think because he broke your trust and slammed your self-esteem to the ground you just can't help doing this to yourself. It's time for some professional help. You need to get past this or one of two things could ... (read in full...)
Once a cheater always a cheater? Found a phone number in my husbands pocket and called it.
Q. I have no one to talk too,this is how I found this website.I don't know for sure my husband is cheating, found phone number while doing laundry. I called it, it was a female,she did'nt know what to say,one lie after another.turns out she works for ...
A. 1 September 2009: Sorry Babe. I don't know what to tell you except as cheaters go, he's pretty bad at it. Talk about a paper trail! If you do decide to split I hope you take him for every cent you can. And tell the SOB to do is own laundry from now on.... (read in full...)
My dad died, how can I get my mum into a new relationship?
Q. My mother is alone after my dad passed away, I want that she should take up new relationship. How to make her agree to go ahead and find some one for her? I can't talk with her as i feel embrassed. Please suggest?...
A. 1 September 2009: How long has it been since your dad died? Maybe she just isn't ready yet.... (read in full...)
My boyfirends ex cant get over him, and I want her out of our lives
Q. My boyfriend has this one friend (that is a girl) and they used to date. It never got serious with her because she went crazy on him and tried to get pregnant by him. Anyways, me and him briefly broke up then recently got back together. We are...
A. 1 September 2009: Does she work with him or live near by? I mean why doesn't he just cut her off and never talk to her again? Can he stop all communication with her because that's what's called for here. Once she figures out she can't keep putting her foot in the ... (read in full...)
Issues with vaginal farting!
Q. I have been having issues with vaginal farting. Every morning i seem to wake up and have queefing episodes regaurdless if i had any type of sexual activity the night before. If i wake up in the middle of the night it will happen then too. i dont ...
A. 1 September 2009: Are you sleeping on your back by any chance?... (read in full...)
Somebody to talk to when she has nothing else to do?
Q. Ok readers, i've got this little problem. I first started gettin to know a women over the net, it was all great at first, contact 24/7, she refers to me as babe, sexyful, and says she's misses me when she hasn't been able to chat to me. Thing is, we ...
A. 1 September 2009: I calls 'em as I sees 'em. It's an ONLINE/TEXT romance for crying out loud, if she doesn't reply then I guess it's not rocket science to figure out she's not all that interested. It's not like you've invested a whole lot here, let it go and find ... (read in full...)
Husband hit me while drunk and I no longer love/respect him
Q. I have been married for 18 years, the marriage has always been alittle rocky but for the most part ok. A few months ago when my husband was drunk he hit me in the mouth. He has since stopped drinking and is rather very nice but I no longer love or ...
A. 1 September 2009: So a smack in the chops gives you permission to commit adultery, eh? Don't be silly. Just get the difficult divorce. He's most likely going to drink again and, if you tick him off, he again might take a swing at you. At least I'd separate if I were ... (read in full...)
We fight and fight and fight... and love.... and fight, and fight some more - Please help
Q. Hi there, long message coming up. Im feeling quite depressed, so i'm probably going to sound like someone blabbering senselessly. Please read my message and try to make sense. Ive been in a very loving relationship for about a year no...
A. 1 September 2009: Things can get really misconstrued by email or texting. The subtle voice inflections aren't there. A joking tone can sound criticising instead. Add all those with a long distance and bam bad pizza. If you can't phone her I would just try cutting ... (read in full...)
How can I get the relationship with my daughter back on track?
Q. I have a 27 year old daughter who left home and does not speak to my husband, myself and my son. She does speak to my twin sister and my sister does not share what is going on in her life and that has made my sister and my relationship rocky. My ...
A. 1 September 2009: Something is missing here, what makes you say your daughter had a rough life? Just the fact that you when behind her back to get information on her activities doesn't jell with her reaction. Why won't she speak to her brother? Her step-father?... (read in full...)
Why has my bf started calling me by my surname?? I find it a little odd!
Q. my boyfriend has started calling me by my surname - like 'alright smith' - just think its a little funny - what does that mean?! ...
A. 1 September 2009: He probably heard somebody do this and thought it was cool, if it bugs you then tell him to knock it off. ... (read in full...)
Somebody to talk to when she has nothing else to do?
Q. Ok readers, i've got this little problem. I first started gettin to know a women over the net, it was all great at first, contact 24/7, she refers to me as babe, sexyful, and says she's misses me when she hasn't been able to chat to me. Thing is, we ...
A. 1 September 2009: So you are another person who comes here, not for our opinions but to just hear what you want to hear. Well I'm sorry but from what you written, it doesn't look like she's all that into you. I just wrote "yep" because it sums it up nicely and ... (read in full...)
Is my girl using me?
Q. Ever since i let my girlfriend move in with me she has changed so much. When we first met she was active, sporty and outgoing but ever since she moved in with me she has changed so much. She don't goto the gym anymore, she never does housewor...
A. 1 September 2009: That's exactly what you should do, and in those words. Be firm.... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period since xmas...and I can't be pregant...is there something wrong?
Q. I dont really know how to say this.. im not really good at telling people things so here it goes... every girl is ment to get their periods monthly right? well thats wat someone told me... i havnt gotten mine since just after christmas. i thoug...
A. 1 September 2009: First off you shouldn't be embarrassed about talking to your mom about this, menstual cycles happen to every female on the planet. Secondly it's very common, especially for young girls, to have irregular cycles. Most of the time the cycles work ... (read in full...)
He seems to want a celibate marriage
Q. Ok, so here is my situation. I am 26 and my husband is 30. I have been married for 8 months. In the beginning of our relationship my husband had problems *performing*. I just gave him love and support and tried to let him know that I loved him no ...
A. 1 September 2009: The anonymous aunt is right on the money, I'm also betting he's gay. A marriage with no intimacy is not a marriage. Get out before you complicate things with a turkey baster child. You've only wasted 8 months, don't waste anymore time.... (read in full...)
I want sex all the time!
Q. I first off I know that this is not a medical site but I am too self conscience to ask my doctor about this. I have a bf and we have a great relationship (been daing for 18 months) our sex life is beyond wonderful, but during the last 5 months or ...
A. 31 August 2009: Whew! I thought you would just ask for her address.... (read in full...)
Ladies preferences on men: Hairy? Or Not?
Q. This question has probably been asked before but anyway here goes: Ladies; do you prefer your man, lover, partner, FWB, to be: A) Hairy B) Slightly Hairy C) Shaved D) Completely waxed and hairless all over including BCS....
A. 31 August 2009: So q please share with us: Do you take a razor to your netherlands? And one more question, why oh why do we get this question every single dingy dang day?... (read in full...)
If a girl says 'thank you' after you've been on a date, does it mean it's over? And how do I ask a girl from school out?
Q. [Mod note - two seperate questions were from the same poster, so I have combined both] Q1: im gonna ask this girl out. im 15, shes 16. I know her from school. Ask her out at school? If I do ask her out at school it cant be nothing super huge o...
A. 31 August 2009: Q2 Saying Thank You after a date means she has manners. It's just being polite it doesn't necessarily mean the kiss of death.
Q1 Try to get her alone when you ask. Don't be so cute that you come across as being looney. Just ask her to go out for ... (read in full...)
Somebody to talk to when she has nothing else to do?
Q. Ok readers, i've got this little problem. I first started gettin to know a women over the net, it was all great at first, contact 24/7, she refers to me as babe, sexyful, and says she's misses me when she hasn't been able to chat to me. Thing is, we ...
A. 31 August 2009: yep... (read in full...)
How can I get the relationship with my daughter back on track?
Q. I have a 27 year old daughter who left home and does not speak to my husband, myself and my son. She does speak to my twin sister and my sister does not share what is going on in her life and that has made my sister and my relationship rocky. My ...
A. 31 August 2009: You need to tell us what happened to cause this riff in the family.... (read in full...)
Making comments about when I was skinny..now he ignores me!
Q. my boyfirend made a comment the other day about my weight. He said I looked so good when I was skinny. The other night I was eating a piece of chocolate and he said your never going to lose weight if you keep treating yourself to sweets. He used ...
A. 31 August 2009: Just curious, how much weight have you gained? Are you healthy?... (read in full...)
I want sex all the time!
Q. I first off I know that this is not a medical site but I am too self conscience to ask my doctor about this. I have a bf and we have a great relationship (been daing for 18 months) our sex life is beyond wonderful, but during the last 5 months or ...
A. 31 August 2009: Anytime anything interferes with your quality of life, there's a problem. I'm afraid you will have to just overcome your embarrassment and talk to your doctor, there is medication that can be prescribed to curb your libido. And if Uncle Phil or q ... (read in full...)
He can be selfish and occasionally womanizes -- how can I move on?
Q. How do I move on from my 8 1/2 year relationship? I am 44 hes 48. I'm so exhausted and depressed I don't know what to do. I would love a new start somewhere but feel stuck. Afraid to make too many changes because of the economy. My kids are grown ...
A. 31 August 2009: Yeah, I wouldn't be able to tolerate that either. I think it's safe to say that this relationship is just not making you happy. Tell him this, if he still doesn't want to commit then it's his loss but I certainly wouldn't wait to begin that new ... (read in full...)
How honest is too honest?
Q. Is it ever okay to tell "white" lies in relationships? How would you respond to these questions? Have you ever liked one of your female friends? Have you ever fantasized about being with another girl? Have you ever fantasized about someone el...
A. 31 August 2009: Those questions fall under the category of "I've got you now you SOB" or in other words "So have you stopped beating your wife?" Any answer can spell trouble, if asked one of these questions just say you refuse to play that game. As far as your ... (read in full...)
I think my step dad may be cheating on my mom
Q. My mom has been married 4 a while now and i never liked the idea of marrying some one other then my dad soo now its been 9 years and i have gottten over it but now i feel my stepdad is cheating on my mom and don't no 4 sure but it sure does seem ...
A. 31 August 2009: It really is none of your business, it's strictly your mother's and step-dad's. Wives have an uncanny ability to feel that "cheating spouse" vibe. Sometimes for their own reasons they ignore it. If indeed your step-dad is cheating and your mother is ... (read in full...)
We want to tell that we caught them smoking but we are afraid!
Q. Help! My best friends older brother and his friends were smoking, we knew it. We decided to find out of we were right. Then we accidentally walked in on them!! There faces showed it all, plus the cigarettes on the ground and the smoke. They were...
A. 31 August 2009: Why do you have to tell? Nobody likes a tattletale besides this falls under the "mind your own beeswax" in my estimation.... (read in full...)
Ladies preferences on men: Hairy? Or Not?
Q. This question has probably been asked before but anyway here goes: Ladies; do you prefer your man, lover, partner, FWB, to be: A) Hairy B) Slightly Hairy C) Shaved D) Completely waxed and hairless all over including BCS....
A. 31 August 2009: Please tell me a man of your age is not truly pondering this deep question and that you actually hit the wrong age bracket...please... (read in full...)
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