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writes:I'm 25 years old and i just started a new job not too long ago, i have a huge crush on my boss and i dont know what i should do about it. we talk very friendly at work and get along great. he even bought me coffee one morning when i was coming into work. he is very easy to work with and we even joke around with each other a lot. the other day he was showing me how to count stocks in the stockroom and he had made a joke saying he was going to go home to watch the hockey game and said to me "do you wanna come hang out?" and then replied "oh yeah i forgot ur working tonight". although hes my boss does anyone have any advice for me? does it seem as if he likes me too or no?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 October 2009):
 Like CaringGuy mentioned, office romances can get pretty sticky especially after they end. You may need to think about getting a new job and then see if your boss is willing to pursue a relationshop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): hes 29 years old and he is not married.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 October 2009):
Yeah, I'd like to know too, is he married? Also how old is this guy?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
There will be some here who say go for it. I'm not one of them. First of all, how much do you really know about this guy? Bosses have a great habit of having their cake and eating it. Oh yes, he probably does fancy you, but is he married, or does he have a girlfriend? Also, a lot of office romances don't work outside the office, then it ends up that very awkward at work. No end of people have tried office romances, office affairs and even left their husbands and wives for someone at the office, only to find that it was the worst mistake of their lives. My advice to you would be to enjoy your crush, but to avoid anything unless one of you leaves and you can actually get to know each other out of work, where there is less pressure. You dont' want to be used and then end up in trouble at work.
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