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female
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anonymous
writes:I've been dating this guy for 2months, its going well, last week we spent friday,sunday at my place and monday, tuesday at his. We had a plan goin out places on fri and saturday that same week. On fri he called and canceled our plan but said maybe well do it on a saturday instead? I said I don't know and he asked if I was mad and I just clicked. Couple hours later he txted me and again asked "are u mad?" I didn't reply that whole day until saturday.. I txted back " no am not mad, I just didn't want to discuss that while ur on ur busy with other plans" and till now, he hasn't respond to that text or even called me.. Its been 4days now.. What's going on.! I don't want to contact him either since I was the last person to text him, I need a response, right.. Then we can go on about talking what the issue is. But seems to me that he doesn't care, but at the same time he might think I don't care...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): Be honest you were mad at him... I know because what you did is what I would do. Difference with your relationship is knowing each other for 2 months isn't long enough for you to know each other so well that he can tell you are mad at him even if you say you're not. You're both still at an early stage of getting to know each other so I'd day give him some space. BTW I agree with you that he should contact you as you were the last to text him BUT don't let it drag out too long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): Texts can lead to misunderstandings; I think you should ring him and discuss it. If you are mad, admit it - sounds to me like you are. Why are you mad? Was there some agreement you would see each other certain days? Maybe it is getting too intense for him... you will never know till you two talk.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 June 2011):
 Aren't you a little old for these high school games?
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