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*_maldita
writes:My bf ask me to marry him 3 yrs ago but I said I'm not ready yet and I still want to live my life being single. I feel that he hated me for doing that so he punishes me all the time for being rude to me and not being appreciative. Sometimes I really regret turning him down twice. We could have had happy married life now but we are still together it's just that I felt less of his love. I was thinking if he would ever ask me again to marry him cause now I'm ready but seems to me he doesn't want too.. I don't want to ask him if he still wants to marry me or not because I'm afraid that he might say no and I'll be shattered in pieces.3 yrs after his proposal I grew as a mature person and am finally ready to settle down but I don't know if he is! Should I just ask him straight or wait until he ask me???But I'm afraid I will have to wait a lifetime for that...Or maybe I should just ask him to marry me instead... LOL!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, a_maldita +, writes (28 June 2011):
a_maldita is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well partly I'm taking the blame for some of his actions... If I have been a good gf to him he would have been nicer to me but I wasn't. Now that I'm trying to be a good gf he does not appreciate it at all. It seems he is blaming me for everything that is happening to us... I haven't directly ask him if he still wants to marry me or not. We have not discussed about that matter since then so I was thinking he is not interested anymore...I love my bf so much that I fear if I force him he would pull back and not understand me!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (27 June 2011):
 You most likely will have to ask him, he's been burned twice, but are you sure you really want to marry someone who "punishes" you?
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