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Can this be a relationship? He is straight and I am gay. He's a co-worker.

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Question - (26 September 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, *bawes writes:

i would like to ask help or advice regarding my relationship to my co-worker. i am so very confused about our relationship because between the two of us there is a mutual understanding between our friendship.

probably he knows that i care for him so much and i show love and affection to him and he is a straight and im a gay. please give me advice.

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A male reader, jbawes United States +, writes (26 September 2011):

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jbawes agony auntthanks for replying my question. .

i know but the essence of our friendship more thana friend,he is aware that im a gay but he never hesitant to show deeper friendship and he always telling me that has no gf. he spent time to talk to me.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 September 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntFriendship is a relationship.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (26 September 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntWhats your question exactly..?

He's straight... what more is there to say? You can't force yourself straight, just the same as he can't force himself to be gay.

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A female reader, Claraw1 Australia +, writes (26 September 2011):

Claraw1 agony auntIf he is straight I don't see that it can be a relationship as anything more than friends, he can no more make himself attracted to guys, than you can make yourself attracted to women. I would say value the friendship you have with him, and try to find yourself a man who is gay that can love you in the way you deserve. I hope this helps and that I understood what you were asking. Good luck, there is a wonderful man waiting to meet you.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (26 September 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntThere's certainly nothing wrong with two guys having a close friendship. HOWEVER, it would be naive of you to believe that you and this man can be other than "men-friends".... so you need to steel yourself to that reality.

Good luck....

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