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*bawes
writes:i would like to ask help or advice regarding my relationship to my co-worker. i am so very confused about our relationship because between the two of us there is a mutual understanding between our friendship.probably he knows that i care for him so much and i show love and affection to him and he is a straight and im a gay. please give me advice.
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reader, jbawes +, writes (26 September 2011):
jbawes is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for replying my question. .
i know but the essence of our friendship more thana friend,he is aware that im a gay but he never hesitant to show deeper friendship and he always telling me that has no gf. he spent time to talk to me.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 September 2011):
 Friendship is a relationship.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 Whats your question exactly..?
He's straight... what more is there to say? You can't force yourself straight, just the same as he can't force himself to be gay.
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reader, Claraw1 +, writes (26 September 2011):
 If he is straight I don't see that it can be a relationship as anything more than friends, he can no more make himself attracted to guys, than you can make yourself attracted to women. I would say value the friendship you have with him, and try to find yourself a man who is gay that can love you in the way you deserve. I hope this helps and that I understood what you were asking. Good luck, there is a wonderful man waiting to meet you.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 September 2011):
 There's certainly nothing wrong with two guys having a close friendship. HOWEVER, it would be naive of you to believe that you and this man can be other than "men-friends".... so you need to steel yourself to that reality.
Good luck....
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