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writes:I had sex with three guys unprotected the past 3 days drunk. I know they're all clean since I know all of them. My question is even though they're clean, can I contract a std from bodily fluid with 3 different guys in a short period of time. or some type of sex infection? I really need a answer.
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (10 June 2012):
how do you know they are disease free? just because their appearance might be good doesnt mean they cant have something, also people with a STI dont come with a sign on their head informing you of this.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (1 June 2012):
1 - You never know if someone is "clean," no matter how well you think you know them. Is likely the last private thing anyone will ever share with you. Only way to really know is on a test result.
2 - If you're absolutely sure, please see #1.
3 - If you keep sleeping around like that, you WILL catch something. Only a matter of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): STD testing isn't all it is cracked up to be. It doesn't even include Herpes checks unless the doc can blatantly see an outbreak on you.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (1 June 2012):
 The answer to your question, no. You cannot contract an STD from anyone who does not have one if you have unprotected sex with them. But unfortunately, you don't know for sure if these men do or do not have STD's - you only "know" them, not their STD status.
My advice is to discontinue the reckless behavior of having unprotected sex with ANYONE unless you are absolutely sure they are clean (and you really can't be 100% sure)! In about 6 months, you should see your doctor and have them order all STD's blood tests to make sure you didn't contract anything. After you know your status (and hopefully you're "clean") - carry condoms with you and insist your male partners use them.
Hope this helps.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 June 2012):
 if they don't have something for you to catch then you can't catch it.
however it's been shown that women with multiple sex partners are more prone to HPV than women with only one or two partners...
the bigger issue is why are you doing this?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 June 2012):
 And yes, that's how I type when I'm sober...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 June 2012):
Aren't you a little long in the tooth to be asking this very obvious question? Maybe you'd best stop the bender and get yurself sober and refocused.
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (1 June 2012):
 The reason why you are at risk for an STD when you have multiple partners is because you are exposing yourself to possibly a big number of people. Sure you had sex with 3 guys, since they agreed to do this with you without protection, how sure are you that they have not agreed to have sex with 3 different girls each of them? Then these 3 different girls, how sure are we they did not sleep with 2 different guys each or 10 guys? You see the endless sharing of bodies and the risk and exposure gets bigger and bigger.So, knowing that they are clean is not enough. STD can't be transmitted out of nowhere from a person, but the fact that they might have been exposed to a lot of people might make them a carrier of a disease. That's why in a monogamous relationship, STD can be ruled out if both of you only exclusively have each other and are tested negative of any disease. Even a woman who suffers from a yeast should not even sleep with her partner until she is cured coz the infection will just only keep bouncing back between them. The 2 of them should get checked and cured before continuing their sexual activities.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (1 June 2012):
You cannot catch a sexually transmitted disease, if all the guys you have had sex with are free from infection. Unfortunately, however, you can’t be sure of this: sometimes people can have an STD without symptoms, so they think they’re clean but there’s no guarantee of that. It’s best to get yourself checked over anyway. Unprotected sex with multiple partners not only puts you at a high risk of contracting an STD, but of becoming pregnant too. Stop drinking so much and sleeping around like this.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): If these guys had unprotected sex with you, who else might they have had unprotected sex with? Knowing them does not make them clean. They have their own private lives just as you have yours. For example. Do they all know you slept with three of them within days without protection? Probably not. All you can say for sure is that you KNOW they have sex with girls without using any protection! That is not a good thing. Best get a STD check up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): Can you catch something from having sex with three "clean" guys? No, but are these guys clean just because you "know" them, also no. I doubt that your having sex with 3 men in 3 days has a combined cumulative effect either on your chances of getting an STD...wearing a condom might though.
Sounds like you should go in for an STD test and stop worrying.
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