Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: Google these yourself: Austism, Aspergers or ADHD...and study hard, why make SVC do all the work?... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: I agree with Tish's idea, I think he is UNABLE to answer these questions rather than unwilling.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: I said "yes" to my husband 37 friggin' years ago. Flawed logic indeed and last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Heck fire, I'm can't even type.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Heck fire, I'm can't even get the last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Well Trisha, whatdaya say? He just wants to make it real for you. Ask him for some upfront money, you know for travel expenses, maybe a trousseau, etc... just make sure it's a cashier's check......... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Tish, I know where to find you....... (read in full...)
He's a monster who treated me horribly, will they have a happy ending? I feel sick!
Q. Dear everyone. I'm in bits. I have been with my ex for about 3.5 yrs(off and on) and for the past 2 months he had grown increasingly distant. I knew he had been working alot but he never had time to see me, yet he still said he loved me. I had seen...
A. 16 August 2012: I gotta remember to hit that refresh button...... (read in full...)
He's a monster who treated me horribly, will they have a happy ending? I feel sick!
Q. Dear everyone. I'm in bits. I have been with my ex for about 3.5 yrs(off and on) and for the past 2 months he had grown increasingly distant. I knew he had been working alot but he never had time to see me, yet he still said he loved me. I had seen...
A. 16 August 2012: I highly doubt that there will ever be a happy ending for any poor girl who hooks up with this loser. Consider yourself the fortunate one, YOU won't be wasting anymore of your precious time. And get yourself checked out for any diseases this scum ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: ...sigh... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Ahem, last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: Ok, NOW I have the last word.... (read in full...)
I want him to get a divorce so we can marry. Why does his wife keep trying to get his attention? I want her gone.
Q. im living with a man twice my age. yes he could be my daddy. but i love him. he works hard, cooks for me, cleans. and i dont have to work. the problem is is that his wife is still in the picture. she just wont get the hint, that he loves me and n...
A. 15 August 2012: From your update (I guess it was you) it sounds like you just have to wait for the divorce to become final. So sit tight.... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 23, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little muscle a...
A. 15 August 2012: I love skinny men. They may not be muscular but they are wiry.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: I want to have the last word.... (read in full...)
I'm feeling uncomfortable with my boyfriend's reaction to what I wear.
Q. Hi guys So I'm feeling uncomfortable with my boyfriend's reaction to what I wear. I am a doctor and at work I wear scrubs. He came to see me at work the other day and then said he could see my bra (the strap was showing so I pulled my top back ...
A. 14 August 2012: I think this is one of the early signs of a control freak. Be very aware of any others that will most likely pop up. You must be completely firm about letting him know that you control what you wear and when you wear it, not him.... (read in full...)
Am I being to insecure? Do you think he is thinking of me as more like a FWB?
Q. Am I just being insecure? Been seeing a guy for a few weeks. At first I could tell he was really interested. I have known him for years as an aquaintence, through friends and always thought he is a really nice guy. I didn't know he liked me this way ...
A. 13 August 2012: Knock off the sex and see if he still is interested in hanging out.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: Tell us a little about yourself, big guy. Have you dated a lot and are just tired of it or have you never dated and are afraid of it? And don't shout.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: I can think of something else that's bound to "wither away", into a stubby little nub most likely........ (read in full...)
Does it mean anything that he takes Forever to reply to my text messages. Is this indicative of anything?
Q. My question is REALLY starting to get to me. Been texting this guy for a while now, he suggested we swap numbers etc. We like to flirt and the like and it seems as though something may be starting between us. Our texting is conversation about v...
A. 9 August 2012: Hey I have a novel idea: Instead of texting why not call him and have an actual conversation?... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship but he turns me on!
Q. Theres this guy I've worked with for about two years now. He is super sweet and been really supportive towards me about my recent break up. I don't want a relationship yet but when I'm around him e just turns me on so much. Like he accidentally ...
A. 8 August 2012: Just keep reminding yourself over and over again that you don't want a relationship just at the moment. Rubber band on the wrist kind of thing. Unless of course deep down you DO want a relationship.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents to go off on the holiday without me? I'm so hurt by her comments!
Q. I have a rocky relationship with my mother, neither of us are a innocent party here really. Im 21 and just recoverd after a tough year involving a family bereavement. Our relationship has never been easy really, we sometimes really don’t get along. ...
A. 8 August 2012: Don't go on vacation, stay home and get ready to move out as planned. You can spend the time with your friends and your boyfriend. I remember when you wrote us about that suitcase gift and we all said you need to move out. I'm glad to hear you are ... (read in full...)
Consumed with guilt and shame over Paternity issues. How do I move on?
Q. I am so ashamed of what I have done. I have been in a common law relationship with someone for about 20 years. Very rocky relationship with him suffering from drug addiction. Long story short I had an affair with someone from my past it went ...
A. 8 August 2012: Look at the answers from a similar queston today ;
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-him-he-isnt-the-father.html... (read in full...)
Is he having a mid-life crisis? Is this not love?
Q. Because What would a man his age want with a woman like this? Ok well my Ex and I we are split up for about 5 months . We still tells me about his life , and for the past 3 months he is constantly talking about his friend he met for the first time ...
A. 8 August 2012: Ahhh it appears that green-eyed monster has reared it's ugly head. You can give all the "advice" you want but I'll bet it will fall on deaf ears. It may be love and it may not but he seems to be having fun.... (read in full...)
How can I forget him or is there a solution to make him forget his first gf?
Q. I broke up with my bf recently because i found out he's still in love with his first gf. Iv tried all means to forget him but i cant wipe him off my heart. Iv even blocked him, deleted his contact, i go out with my pals but everything reminds me of ...
A. 8 August 2012: A chemical solution?... (read in full...)
Should I tell him he Isn't the father and risk losing him or keep it from him?
Q. Ok I hope this doesen't sound too shallow...I recently got pregnant with an ex who is a complete and utter ass as well as verbally abusive to me. Shortly after the break-up my best friend introduced me to a friend of her's who is the sweetest most ...
A. 8 August 2012: You might have been able to fool the guy 30 years ago when DNA testing was expensive and rarely done but now a days no way will you get away with this. I imagine DNA testing will be routine in the very near future for many medical procedures so the ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell her that I like her?
Q. About six months ago i met a girl in a club. We clicked instantly and had a great time together. Unfortunately she had a boyfriend, so i didnt make a move on her (that was the only thing holding me back). We still spoke to each other on and off ...
A. 6 August 2012: You could tell her that you'd love it if she looked you up the next time she single again. But you better be prepared for her reaction, which may not be very favorable.... (read in full...)
Husband will only have sex if we use sex toys
Q. My husband will only have sex using sex toys. He then asks me to masturbate him to relieve him. The problem is I feel like this is unnatural. I mean as a woman, I have to use my imagination and fantasize in order to respond, which means I'm not ...
A. 6 August 2012: Have you always had sex like this or is this a new wrinkle in your relationship?... (read in full...)
Why would my ex go behind his new wife's back to talk to me?
Q. ex bf's new wife told me she didn't want us talking to each other, she called me. But my ex said it's not a problem and he will talk behind her back. Why would he go against what she wants??...
A. 6 August 2012: So if he asks you, will you have an affair with him?... (read in full...)
Did my ex-girlfriend cheat on my birthday with her other lover?
Q. My ex of four years and I just had a nasty break up. I outed her of her cheating ways and hyper-sexuality due to bi polar and other mental illnesses. Months ago, I found out about an affair that she had with someone that she met on craigslist, last ...
A. 3 August 2012: You are going to drive yourself mad if you dwell on this any longer. Let it go Buddy.... (read in full...)
What do you do when you realize the relationship isn't going to work?
Q. What do you do when you realize that your relationship probably won't work? I love him so much but I fear he is too selfish to change because I have asked him to do more things with me, try something new, etc. I get really sad due to disappointment ...
A. 3 August 2012: A promise like that at your age was bound to be broken, and rightly so. If you aren't happy then do a nice clean break and move on.... (read in full...)
Why would my ex go behind his new wife's back to talk to me?
Q. ex bf's new wife told me she didn't want us talking to each other, she called me. But my ex said it's not a problem and he will talk behind her back. Why would he go against what she wants??...
A. 3 August 2012: He's looking for trouble. Don't be a part of it. Just be glad he's an ex, I feel very sorry for the new wife.... (read in full...)
Will she come back to me? what should I do?
Q. our first day of love was 23 feb 2006 she use to study at class 9 and i class 12.our relation was 6 years 6 months long n she used to love me more than i, we were like in a living relationship and we had in june 2012, we used to date in parks, ...
A. 1 August 2012: Well Buddy I think this ship has set sail. She won't be coming back, she's married now. You need to focus on moving forward with your life. Each day will get easier if you stay busy, hang out with your friends, and meet new people. As much as it ... (read in full...)
Do I show my friend the proof that her boyfriend is cheating on her or not?
Q. I am in a bit of a hard situation here. I have a male friend, and I recently found out that he is on a swinger site, and is meeting random people for sex. Now what he does is his business and normally I couldn't care less, except he has a ...
A. 1 August 2012: Send her the link to the site. I know I would want to know if I were at risk.... (read in full...)
My ex and her friends have turned my new girlfriends life into a living hell
Q. Okay so I dated this girl for a while and we even got engaged. We broke up because I made a horrible mistake. I wasn’t attracted to her and I didn’t love her, I proposed because I thought it was the right thing to do. When I realized that it was ...
A. 1 August 2012: Not sure what advice you are looking for but I would just cut off the ex entirely if I were you. No contact. She's just hanging by a thread anyway. The ex and her pals will quit pestering your girlfriend when they realize they aren't getting ... (read in full...)
I need to broaden my social circle
Q. Today is the 1st of august, and i haven't hung out with a friend since the beggining of july. I rely on one friend entirely too much for my social life. I realistically have about 3 friends i can call up and hang out with. And one friend has been...
A. 1 August 2012: Is there some volunteer work in your community that is open to 15 year olds? Staying busy and helping others is a great solution when we are feeling down. Look into it.... (read in full...)
How can I get over this crush?
Q. I'm actually going crazy! I've had feelings for this guy for soooo long! we have some history, and i recently found out that he used to have feelings for me. It's impossible for us to be together though, although i sometimes wonder whether he still...
A. 1 August 2012: Well then you are right, you can't be together for a few years. A 4 year age difference at you age is more than a gap I'm afraid, it's more like a canyon. My best advice is to stay busy, see friends, just occuppy yourself. In a few years if you are ... (read in full...)
Are my masturbation habits normal?
Q. SO this is embarrassing.... but i was wondering how often do normal women masturbate? cause i am 16 and i think the level at which i am at is not normal. but idk, cause its not really something you just causally talk about with ur best friends. i ...
A. 1 August 2012: 1-3 times a day is on the high end in my opinion but if you have the spare time it's normal I guess. I'm glad you want to wait on the sex with your boyfriend however. Lots of time for sex in the future when you are a little older. Just relax and ... (read in full...)
Every time I invite her to do something she's busy. Is she just not interested?
Q. Hello, I met this girl a 2 weeks ago through a mutual friend. That night i took her number and told her we would do something soon enough. A few days later we went out and we had a blast, I ever ran into another friend of mine who saw us toget...
A. 1 August 2012: Quit trying the same day get togethers. Ask her out a couple of days ahead of time.... (read in full...)
How can I get over this crush?
Q. I'm actually going crazy! I've had feelings for this guy for soooo long! we have some history, and i recently found out that he used to have feelings for me. It's impossible for us to be together though, although i sometimes wonder whether he still...
A. 31 July 2012: Why is it impossible for you two to be together?... (read in full...)
I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!
Q. My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the ...
A. 31 July 2012: This one of those "are you better off WITH him or WITHOUT him" kind of situations. I totally agree that he isn't going to change his modus operandi. You need to weight things up and make your decision.... (read in full...)
He seems to be putting himself where I am, but not in a creepy way
Q. i work in a relatively large company.there is one man that works within the realm of our large department that makes me curious about him. from the start he has asked co workers to get my personal status and how many kids i have, closed my office ...
A. 31 July 2012: As long as both of you are single, I'd ask him if he'd like to go out for a drink or coffee after work sometime. Take it from there.... (read in full...)
How can I squirt?
Q. dear cupid, here recently, my guy has started working his way up to the point where he can "fist" me. while it hasn't always felt like the most pleasant thing in the world, i have reached the point where i actually really, really enjoy it. on...
A. 30 July 2012: got 'em triple-crossed now...... (read in full...)
How can I squirt?
Q. dear cupid, here recently, my guy has started working his way up to the point where he can "fist" me. while it hasn't always felt like the most pleasant thing in the world, i have reached the point where i actually really, really enjoy it. on...
A. 30 July 2012: I'd like to answer your questions but I'm too busy crossing and recrossing my legs........ (read in full...)
My guy has never cheated on me but I give him the 3rd degree after he goes out!
Q. I have been with my man for almost a year now, we get along pretty well and love each other very much. the one problem that has occured repeatedly is me not trusting him when he is out. i have no basis for this except my past seems to be constantly ...
A. 30 July 2012: This kind of behavior gets old real fast, try your best to refrain from it before your guy gets fed up and walks. Practice makes perfect so start now.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and all my friends have a girlfriend except me!
Q. I a 13 year old guy. I want to know if it is wired that I don't have a girlfriend. All of my frIends do and I want to know If it is weird for me not to have one at this age. ...
A. 30 July 2012: I think it's weird to HAVE a girlfriend at your age. Weird and kinda stupid. You shouldn't be burdened with a relationship, you should be footloose and fancy free. Enjoy your youth while you still have it Buddy!... (read in full...)
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