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writes:I met this girl who genuinely likes me, made the first move, and such...I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings. I believe relationships shouldn't be unrequited.I guess some things really drag me down, because she really complains a lot, as much as I like hearing what anyone's problems, what's bothering, and being the absorbent wall....this is more than what I can handle if it's almost 24/7. Maybe this is the worst that it can be...I'm also dealing with her allergens to citrus acid, semi-OCD and eating restrictions, vegatarianism. Music taste too... Wow, that's a lot. It's mostly the complains, negativity effect. I've always been more focused on the good and glass half full.Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (10 May 2012):
 Wow, if you're having to work so hard at trying to developer feelings for this girl, then she isn't the right one for you. Relationships start with an infatuation, a desire to get to know the person, and feelings develop naturally, over time, as a result of spending time together.
Just because someone likes you, doesn't mean you are supposed to force yourself into a relationship with them. Move on and find someone you share common interests with......someone you are compatible with. :=)
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reader, N91  +, writes (10 May 2012):
 Doesn't sound like there's any chemistry. You can't force yourself to like someone, sounds like it'd be better for you to leave this one alone, when you genuinely like someone, you won't have to put effort in for it to happen.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 May 2012):
 I wish Johnny Depp felt the same way you do about unrequited love.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 May 2012):
 Do you like her? Quick, yes or no. There's no wrong answer.
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