I'm 13 and all my friends have a girlfriend except me!
Q. I a 13 year old guy. I want to know if it is wired that I don't have a girlfriend. All of my frIends do and I want to know If it is weird for me not to have one at this age. ...
A. 30 July 2012: I think it's weird to HAVE a girlfriend at your age. Weird and kinda stupid. You shouldn't be burdened with a relationship, you should be footloose and fancy free. Enjoy your youth while you still have it Buddy!... (read in full...)
I am crushing on a famous person, and I want to stop!
Q. Okay, so this is going to sound beyond crazy, but I don't know what to do. Please don't laugh.. So, I really, really kind of like a guy, but the problem with it is, he's famous, and I've never met him. He's a rapper, and I absolutely love his...
A. 30 July 2012: Still waiting for Johnny D. to call...... (read in full...)
What can I wear to hide my tummy? I'm a little chubby. Rest is presentable.
Q. Hey everybody! I would like some help. What can i wear on a date that will hide mt tummy the most? I have a flappy tummy. I'm chubby, got a nice ass. I'm about 1.7m tall. thanks. ...
A. 27 July 2012: Where are you going on your date?... (read in full...)
Tried for 18 months. Still not pregnant. What else can my husband and I do to make it happen? Please help?
Q. hi, we are trying from 1 and half year with my husband, we are trying for pregnant and i want to get pregnant soon, within 1 month.please tell me what else to try?....
A. 27 July 2012: Have you seen a doctor?... (read in full...)
It's early days for us. So am I worrying for no reason, over his reaction to me touching his phone?
Q. Am I concerned for no reason? Its fairly early days for me and another guy I met online but we have now met up 3 times (have known each other now for a couple of months). Last night we slept together he stayed at mine. He left his mobile phone ...
A. 27 July 2012: Absolutely ask him.... (read in full...)
She's my Dream Girl. But I'm consumed with jealousy over her past. Can someone help me resolve this huge problem?
Q. how do I stop thinking about my Girlfriends past and make sure its not the end of our future? I looked at many sites about guys on this subject but Wow all these dudes think they got it bad with like girlfriends having 3-4 partners more then th...
A. 25 July 2012: You need to look at all the responses our Agony Uncle Yos has given to the tons of retroactive jealousy questions we get here. He's our expert. Just know you are not the only person dealing with this problem.... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing? He cheated, and he asked me to tell him when I do forgive him?
Q. I found out today that my boyfriend of two years has been skyping another girl, calling her 'sexy', 'love', 'cutie', all things that he calls me, telling her she's 20 times hotter than me, that he'll think of her when he's in bed with me, etc. ...
A. 25 July 2012: I agree 100% with the little yellow chick. Cheating is cheating, whether it's physical or emotional. He doesn't even think what he did was wrong so his behavior most likely will not change and his apologies are meaningless. Watching him like a hawk ... (read in full...)
Always the friend never the girlfriend!
Q. Why am I always the friend and never the girlfriend? I am not unattractive and I seem to click with men very easily, but friends is all it becomes, what am I doing wrong?...
A. 23 July 2012: Not enough info. Do you flirt? Do you give off the "I'm definitely interested in you" vibe? Did you click the correct age bracket?... (read in full...)
I need to move forward but don't want to hurt my husband
Q. The one thing that is so diff. B/w me and My husband is he wants material things to make him happy. Always has. Yet these things just create more work for him that stresses him. I get happy from the close moments doing nothing that requires $. My ...
A. 23 July 2012: To be COMPLETELY spiritually and emotionally happy is a pretty hefty goal. Other than your husband, do you have people around you who think just as you do? ... (read in full...)
I'm having to chose between the gym to keep my body or my girlfriend!
Q. Here' s the thing. My girlfriend has been complaining of lately that I don't spend enough time with her. I can totally understand her argument because I simply have too much going on to devote a large majority of my time to her. I work full time, ...
A. 19 July 2012: Tell your girlfriend exactly what you just told us. Let her decide whether your muscles are worth her being alone when you are at the gym. But I would prepare myself for the worst if I were you. Or maybe you don't really care all that much anyway.... (read in full...)
Why does my 50 year old boyfriend sleep with his mother?
Q. Is it normal fort a 50 some year old guy to choose to sleep in the same bed with his Mom when there are other beds/sleeping arrangements available? My boyfriend makes a habit of doing this and I find it creepy....
A. 19 July 2012: Ha ha Cindy!... (read in full...)
Does this woman want to make love with me?
Q. hello friends,Does this woman wants to make love with me?I am 42 years old,my brother's wife, 52-year-old.touched the woman's breast from behind twice in elbow.In the second gave me to touch my elbow stroked her breasts.she did not give me any ...
A. 18 July 2012: Do you love your brother at all?... (read in full...)
I don't want to be married anymore! How do I tell my husband?
Q. i'm married and i'm not in love with my husbandi have know feelings for him anymore, when he touch me i don't feel anything...i don't want to be married anymore...how do i tell him that i want how of this marriage without being so blunt...
A. 17 July 2012: Why not separate for awhile and see how you feel? You may feel differently after you have some time alone to think.... (read in full...)
Husband insists on going clubbing without wife - why
Q. So here's my problem in a nutshell I believe my husband is having a midlife crisis and I don't see a way back from this - so any advice will be appreciated. We are both in our forties and some months ago he started going out with his friends on ...
A. 17 July 2012: Oh yeah he's up to no good. Tell him to knock this nonsense off, and if he doesn't, then give him his walking papers. Mid-life crisis my big butt. YOU give him a real mid-life crisis. Best of luck girlfriend.... (read in full...)
Went out with a colleague who has a girlfriend just as friends, and I got upset with myself for enjoying it so much! What can I do?
Q. i really like a guy i work with. the other day we went out as friends for a pizza and movie. he treated me so well that i got so upset and he ended up hugging me for 2 hours. im ashamed to say i really enjoyed it. i was feeling extremely low as i ...
A. 16 July 2012: I'd listen to our Honeypie if I were you. You are too vunerable around this guy if you are alone with him. Stay in a group or stay away until his status changes.... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 6 July 2012: Once again we have a poster who isn't really looking for advice, but just wants reafirmation for what she intends to do anyway.... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: hiccups... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: Just tell him to call you when he's single and leave it at that. ... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: Just tell him to call you when he's single and leave it at that. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him, I want us to be exclusive but he has a partner
Q. I'm at my wits end. I've been having an affair for 3 years. I am separated from my husband. It started out as just sex with this man. However, It has developed considerably, especially in the last year. We have talked about being together. He sai...
A. 5 July 2012: So what's the ETA on your divorce?... (read in full...)
What is going on with my FWB?
Q. Hi sorry if this will be long I am totally in love with my former fwb we met 18 months ago and the first few weeks were amazing he made plans where we going to go for meals and mentioned going on holiday n things like that my daughter met him as he ...
A. 5 July 2012: I'm sorry but I think you should consider this a closed chapter. I wouldn't try to contact him anymore. As much as you liked him, he isn't the guy for you or your daughter.... (read in full...)
My husband always has to run the show
Q. How can a man say he loves you and yet say such awful things? Is it a lack of self control? My husband thinks his job is do all the solving, planning, thinking and decision making. Whereas, I came from a family where the husband and wife worked as a ...
A. 2 July 2012: How long did you guys date before you married? ... (read in full...)
What are my options? He will not be social. Tells me to go alone. Trust is shattered. Help!
Q. After being married for 12 years and two little children, I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out of this marriage. He has always been anti social making excuses about why he doesn’t want to go to gatherings and then saying I...
A. 2 July 2012: Time for a separation. You both need the time living apart to do some soul searching and to clear your heads. I'd arrange it ASAP if I were in your shoes.... (read in full...)
Is it fair for my partner to blame me for looking at his emails when I found out he's cheating again?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years. We have an 8 month old daughter together. We were starting new and moved recently to a new state because of a job opportunity for him. A few months ago I noticed him acting a ...
A. 29 June 2012: He's a manipulative scum-sucking dirtbag. Pack your bags and the little baby duds and move back to your family and friends until you can get on your feet again. And make sure you get child support from the asshole. You can pull yourself out of this ... (read in full...)
My older friend targets younger girls. Should I talk to him about it?
Q. Hello all, I know this opinion may be controversial, but here it goes. My friend just graduated from high school. He's a really cool guy and all but he always goes after girls who are 13 or 14. This is weird to me. I don't mind age differen...
A. 28 June 2012: Oh it will be brought up to him sooner or later either by an irate parent or the cops. You might however tell your friend that the general population in most prisons look at pedophiles in a most unpleasant light.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to only want sex?
Q. Is it ok to only want sex? I mean I see that women are often irritated because the new guy they just met only seems to be interested in sex. What's wrong with that? ...
A. 27 June 2012: That's exactly why prostitution is the oldest profession. Hopefully you live where it's legal and you don't pick up any nasty surprises.... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a married man and don't know how to handle things
Q. I'm in a tough situation. I'm seeing a married man. I've known him since I was around 14 years old, I've also been in love with him since the day we met. We had a fling back in high school. After high school, I took off and left the state. He ...
A. 27 June 2012: One born every minute...hey OP, I have bridge for sale, you interested?... (read in full...)
Is a guy always serious with a girl he calls his girlfriend?
Q. If a guy has a girlfriend, is it possible he could be with her casually and not seriously and maybe for sex and companionship but not true love? Is it possible she is NOT the one or that he will be with her long term? If he is so happy with her, ...
A. 26 June 2012: He wouldn't be with her if he didn't want to be. He might just be a flirty kind of guy, don't put too much stock in it. And don't help him cheat on his girlfriend if he turns out to be one of those creatures.... (read in full...)
Asian men and White women.......
Q. Well as an Asian i have got a very important question to all the white girls and I am pretty sure other Asian men need the answer.So here's my question do white women like Asian men? and if the answer is yes please let me know the things that mak...
A. 26 June 2012: Can this Asian man cook?... (read in full...)
I want to fit in but I don't!
Q. For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...
A. 26 June 2012: Why does this post sound so familiar? Have you posted this before on this site?... (read in full...)
We had sex on first date, deal breaker?
Q. I met a guy the other night through friends and he was fantastic. Great looking, well educated and smart. We are about the same number (attractiveness) and went to the same college. I asked him to do something towards the end of the night and he ...
A. 26 June 2012: Maybe yes and maybe no, you'll have to wait and see. However, in the future I certainly would not have sex on a first date if I were you, that eliminates the possibility of a right off the bat "deal breaker".... (read in full...)
My husband belittles me
Q. Ok so I think my husband is belittleing me but I also think he just gets mad ezly as well...I'm not 100% sure but heres an example So my husbands mother wanted to have a small bbq with her fam (my fam now) over our house..so we did n I invited ...
A. 26 June 2012: If I were you, I'd stop using my crock pot if my husband kept throwing it in my face. And I wouldn't let my mother-in-law cook in my basement, tell her to use the kitchen like a normal person. By the way, do you have a spell checker on your ... (read in full...)
My head is going in circles, is my wife cheating?
Q. hi im 54 and my wife is to , this is killing me we have sex once a week now and for some reason she wont let me suck on her nipples like i use to never real got that rough where it leave scab on the base of her breast where the nipple start to ...
A. 25 June 2012: My husband asks me if he notices a bruise, cut, or whatever on my body. Why can't you ask her how she hurt her nipple?... (read in full...)
Marriage makes sense because of my military situation, but my parents won't approve
Q. Me and my girlfriend have a somewhat unique problem. We have been going out for roughly 8 months now, and dated a few years ago for about a month. We were good friends in between those years. I am in the military and we have been dealing with the ...
A. 25 June 2012: My daughter was dating a soldier and they were sure it was the real thing and would love each other forever. He was to be deployed over seas and because you get extra money if you are deployed and married, he almost convinced her to elope and tell ... (read in full...)
Will my ex go back to his ex wife? Can marriages work after such a long separation?
Q. I wrote before about my boyfriend being reluctant to divorce his wife that hes been seperate from for two and a half years. He was involved with me for the last ten months and she was involved and living with a guy for the whole duration of the ...
A. 23 June 2012: Do not waste anymore time on this guy or wondering about HIS marital future. It's time to focus on your future. Consider it a lesson learned and one you will never have to learn again.... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I'm a priority in his life right now, has our relationship run its course?
Q. Hi there everyone, I have asked a couple of questions on here before and the advice has been great, so thank you. Unfortunately, I now need advice again as I am stuck as to where to go in my relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We are only ...
A. 21 June 2012: Why don't you go with him occasionally? That way you can get to know his friends and not feel so out of the loop? You mentioned that he wouldn't invite you but I would insist on it. You don't have to go every time but just occasionally. And just ... (read in full...)
I want to ensure my long term relationship will last. So what are your thoughts on my theories on what might work?
Q. this is a question going out to all the ladies out there who are in love with their partner. 1) do you prefer your partner to be more dominating/controlling in the relationship or 2) do you prefer them to be more distant and less controlling,...
A. 21 June 2012: I thought this sounded all too familiar, nice catch SVC!... (read in full...)
Have I done the right thing by asking this younger man to come over to my house?
Q. Having met a much younger man who I have no doubt is a JAck The Lad and am well aware BUT he looked at me several times in a fancying way. He e mailed me to say he has a short summer contract in the same area as where I live (a few miles away). ...
A. 21 June 2012: Agreed. As long as you can't be arrested for statutory rape, what have you got to lose?... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time, but worried what my boyfriend will think of me naked!
Q. Hi everyone :) Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex for the first time this weekend, and im completely ready in every way except that im really insecure about my body. Im a bit chubby and im worried he'll be totally repulsed my me and not want ...
A. 21 June 2012: Are you SURE you are completely ready in EVERY way? Doesn't sound like it to me.... (read in full...)
The ugly guys get the girls!
Q. What's the deal with gorgeous girls dating ugly guys? I'm a 20 year old male and VERY good looking. I'm not big headed about it, just stating what is an objective fact. I can say this and still claim to not be big headed, as I don't feel proud...
A. 21 June 2012: I asked my husband, "Honey, why is it that the ugly guys, such as yourself, get the gorgeous girls?" And he said,"Shut up".... (read in full...)
How do I tell the man I love the awful truth about my past?
Q. When I was 12, I found out that I was the unfortunate result of my mother's adultery. My "dad" was disappointed and extremely disturbed by it. Growing up I had always felt different and I was never given the love I felt my 2 half sisters were and it ...
A. 21 June 2012: You said yourself you need to seek professional help and we agree. You need to love yourself before you worry about whether someone else loves you. Baby steps.... (read in full...)
Have I done the right thing by asking this younger man to come over to my house?
Q. Having met a much younger man who I have no doubt is a JAck The Lad and am well aware BUT he looked at me several times in a fancying way. He e mailed me to say he has a short summer contract in the same area as where I live (a few miles away). ...
A. 21 June 2012: Just curious, what kind of age difference are we talking about here?... (read in full...)
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