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Boyfriend is ready to lose his virginity to me, but I'm not ready! What am I supposed to do?

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Question - (9 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm a virgin and a teenager. My boyfriend is also a virgin but he's ready to lose his virginity to me. But Im not ready. And he gets sexually frustrated. What Am I suppose to do?

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A female reader, Ciara293 United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2012):

if he cares for you enough he will understand and wait.

Honestly dont rush into things if your not ready, plenty of other girls would have given in to his 'pressure' but im glad to hear you havent! This shows your mature and have good morals! The time will come!

Good luck and Let me know

Ciara x

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2012):

Tom Obler  agony auntYou are not ready say no. If he says he may leave then so be it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012):

"What Am I suppose to do?"

I can only advise you what NOT to do: absolutely DO NOT compromise your self-respect, standards, morals and values for any guy for any reason.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (9 May 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntJUST SAY NO

and if he can't respect that and he bagers you then you need to consider ending it...

if you are not ready and you know it (and BTW GOOD FOR YOU!) and he can't respect that then he's not ready for a relationship.... respect is critical.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 May 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'll just bet he's ready! Ask him if he's right-handed or left-handed, then tell him to use it.

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