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writes:So , When I Was 15 I Was In A Relationship With This Guy Who Was Also The Same Age As Me . After Three Months Of Being Together , We Broke Up . But After Several Months Of Not Talking He Decided To Text Me . So We Been Texting For About A Year . Then At 17 We Both Decided That We Wanted To See Each other To Catch Up And See How Eachother Was Doing . So , He Came Over To My House And We Ended Up Having Sex . And This Has Been Going On For Over A Year Now . I'm 18 Now Soon To Be 19 And Throughout The Year , I Have Gained All My Feelings Back Towards Him . I Want To Tell Him How I Feel But I'm Too Scared To . I'm Not Too Sure On How He Would React To Me Telling Him But I Want To Tell Him To See If Maybe There Is Possible Future With Him . However , I Don't Know How To Tell Himm ... At All!!!! He's Actually Coming Over Tonight And I Kinda Want To Tell Him But I Dont Know How !!! How Can I Tell Him ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): Definitely tell him because you could regret it if you don't. But don't force yourself because to do it if you feel really uncomfortable at the moment. Instead maybe a bit later on when it pops into your head and you are feeling more comfortable.Hope this helps.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 January 2013):
 Do you have to MANUALLY capitalize the first letter of each word or is that a font with which I'm not familiar?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 January 2013):
 Will you be graduating from high school this Spring?
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reader, Jazzyy +, writes (24 January 2013):
Jazzyy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You , And I Know I'm Just Scared That All It Is , Is Just Fwb
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): So you are just having sex, and you could call this a FWB relationship?
Well if you want more and dont want to be a sex object I suggest you have this conversation, about what exactly do you mean to him.
If he cant define it or is not emmotionally into you , then its time to stop being a sex object to him. You can either clear the air or live in fear of losing him and be a FWB. You also must understand that if you are just sex, when he does meet someone that he falls for, you will be history. Its up to you to decide what happens next and be prepared to hear the worst and if he says he loves you, you win either way.
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