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26-29,
*illieafrica0101
writes:Hello. Im 17 and I go to a college and recently one of my lecturers has been acting weird towards me. I mean weird as in flirting with me. Firstly he is 28. He is in nearly every one of my lessons and because college is so relaxed we sit around a lot talking. Over these last few weeks we have becoming closer and closer and we talk like friends. In the class he always chooses to sit with me and my group of friends and he laughs at basically everything I say. He has told me alot about his personal life, as have I and we are always joking around. He is always teasing me and we have our own private jokes that we laugh at all the time. Recently I have noticed him looking at me when im talking to someone else and sometimes i just catch him staring. His eyes always meet mine and he is always interesting in everything I say and he really listens to me. He remembers everything I tell him and we always talk like friends. He doesnt actually teach the class, he is just a mentor that helps us but most of his time is spent with me even though i don't need the extra support. He compliments me alot and always notices things about me that he doesnt with other people. If something happens in the class or he has some gossip he will always come and sit with me to tell me it. During the past 2 weeks or so he has started to try to get closer to me. For example when he sits next to me he will always rest his legs on mine and if we are walking along the hall he walks really close so that our bodies are touching. It seems he always tries to be with me alone because if something not that important needs doing he will try his hardest to go out of the class with me and he always asks me how im feeling. He notices when i feel annoyed and asks me what is wrong. We are literally so close, we even take the mickey out of the other students. In the class today, he was saying something to the teacher and i heard him say billie really loud so i looked over and realised he had been saying something to him about me and they were just staring and smiling. When I go for break with my pals he walks with us and always talks to me. He is actually flirting with me and i kind of flirt back. The only thing is that he has a gf. What shouldI do?
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reader, R1  +, writes (22 January 2013):
 Well you could split the two of them up then run away from college and live happily together, but that sounds completely mental so maybe just try and find someone else, enjoy the flirting but see it for what it is - harmless fun.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 January 2013):
 Whether he's a mentor, assistant professor or a full professor, it doesn't matter, he is NOT allowed to date or have a relationship (other than strictly teacher/student) with any student at your college. And since he has a girlfriend already I doubt he will risk losing his job and future credibility over a fling. Settle for the friendship chickie and look for love somewhere else.
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