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My lover said he'd contact me when things returned to normal. Its been 4 months! I can't contact him

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Question - (28 January 2013) 7 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2013)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

my lover told me not to text that he would when things get back to normal so i respected his wishes but it has been 4 months and I still haven't heard from him i am the kind of person that has to understand the reason behind things. i would rather get hurt by the truth no matter what the truth is instead of constantly going over it in my head.. its driving me crazy. my question is what can I do to help me get past this when i can't to to or text him. i tried email and told him how i felt and to please tell me something but he hasn't responded back. what do i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2013):

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thanks to all of u for sharing your thoughts.. i really appreciate it.. i am going to close the book on this.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (28 January 2013):

Denise32 agony auntIt's obvious - or should be by now - that he isn't GOING to contact you. You sent him an email and got no response......IF he is married, you're better off without him - "marrieds" are off-limits to others, don't you know?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 January 2013):

eyeswideopen agony auntCome on, tell us, your "lover" is a married man isn't he??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013):

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thank u for sharing your thoughts i think i need to stop driving myself crazy over it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013):

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thank u for sharing your thoughts. i just want it off my mind.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013):

I think that it's probably time to accept that he isn't going to respond and move on. Because he's not responding to you and its is as you put it is driving you crazy then you need to draw a line under it answered or not because then you will be able to move on. And but dont block them out let them come and it might be abit hard at first but let the thoughts come and then distract yourself and move on. Because if you dont then you would be forever waiting.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 January 2013):

eyeswideopen agony auntI guess you'll just have to sit around and wait until he can sneak away from his wife for a few seconds. That is as long as you are willing to settle for just those few stolen seconds. Your choice.

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