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writes: After dating a guy for a few weeks and having him spend the night, I realized I forgot to tell him I had herpes. I have had it for 25 years and take regular medication to keep from having outbreaks.. so I know it seems impossible, but I actually forgot I had it. I have never given this to anyone. When I realized I forgot to tell him, I told him immediately he walked away saying he needed time to think. I haven't heard from him in two weeks. He is a nice guy and I am a nice girl, in all other respects. Sent him an e-mail with no reply, yet. Anything I can do to further apologize? I would like to date him again.
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reader, nicolexue  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 it's your fault! But i think few people with tell others the herpes. they will choose to dating on STDromance..com
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2006):
 Stop trying to contact him. He'll be back if he can deal with your herpes. If he can't then there you are. It's your duty to remember to be upfront with it next time. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2006): You forgot to tell him? Jesus.
No wonder he has run away from you. I suggest you put this down to experience and in future disclose your sexual transmitted diseases before becoming intimate with someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006): hey,
i think you need to give this guy time to come to terms with it. just play it cool, dont hound the bloke and see what happens. at the end of the day, it was a honest mistake to make and im sure he will see that in you. so dont worry!
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reader, kelbell +, writes (7 July 2006):
 do u really wonder why he stopped contacting u? my guess is that he feels betrayed!wouldnt u? even if u keep it under control its still something probably relatively unknown to him. in a lot of situations when std's of any type are involved people are often scared or worried for themselves. The only thing i could say would be to give it time he may come around. always hope for the best and prepare for the not so good. lOvE, pEaCe, AnD aLl ThAt JaZz ~`*kEl*`~
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