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writes: hey,I am 16 years old and i have fallen in love with this boy in my class who has a girlfriend who give sme dirty looks and is pratically my enemy now, everyone hates her, she is so insercure wen he is around me. the thing is he keeps on talking to me an asking me to go out with him when everyone knows his checkin this other girl. He knows that he best friend has liked me since ages and he gives him tips on how to impress me!when he's the one ho talks to me and gives me signs and he kissed me a couple of times.I'm confused!I not that type of girl! but on gradution day he was really upsetand said he'll dump his girlfriend if I say yes and that he maybe going to my college. if I see him what should I say? his friend is going to the same college!And I don't wanna be the girl who breaks his heart!!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (4 July 2006):
 If he's prepared to treat his current girlfriend like that, what does that say about him?
Do you want to be treated the same way? Why would he treat you any different? If he thought you were more special than her he'd have left her for you a long time back. But he didn't.
Especially given he's going to head off to college, I'd say stay away from him. If he really did love you he would have split up with her straight away. Right now it sounds like he's 'covering his bets' so that he'll end up with a girlfriend either way. This is not the sign of good boyfriend material! Handle with extreme caution, chance of having your heart broken = very high.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 July 2006):
 I'd play the field here, you can go out with either one of them whenever one of them asks you. Have some fun, why do you have to limit yourself to just one guy? Don't prove that youth is wasted on the wrong people...this is your time to kick up your heels and just enjoy life. Good luck!
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