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*arah29x
writes:hey people,i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend who i love very very very much and i've been with him for ten months. the problem is he is really paranoid that i'll end up fancying the guy i used to have a crush on (because he's quite good looking and all the girls fancy him)i like the guy as a friend and nothing more and have no feelings for him but i'm quite close with him and we hang out a lot which comes across as a bit "flirty". i keep on trying to tell my boyfriend that he should get it out of his head (that i'll end up liking him again) but he can't seem to.this brings me to my question.the thing is that i dream about the guy i had a crush on a lot i mean a lot but i hardly dream about my boyfriend. in my dreams, the guy i used to fancy, we're always touching and hugging and going on adventures and almost kissing.i'm so confused because i never even think about the guy i used to like i think about my boyfriend all the time yet the guy i used to fancy just pops into my dreams. i mean i dunno what to do about the dreams and i'm scared maybe the dreams mean something i honestly don't know what to do. what if my maybe my boyfriend is right and i might end up liking him again.opinions, help and advice would be greatly appreciatedthanks xx
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 I don't believe in dream interpretation, but if you do, then those dreams are happening because of unresolved feelings toward your crush.
You may want to spend less time with him (the crush). Your boyfriend's insecurity is partly irrational, but partly rational. He knows about your past feelings too, which will not help give him any confidence here.
You need to prioritize who is more important to you, and choose. You may think your flirty friendship is casual and innocent, but it's not. Deep in your heart you know that, and so does your BF. That's why he doesn't like it and is so insecure about it.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Does your boyfriend talk about this a lot? Like a lot? That could explain the dreams, because it'd constantly be on your mind.
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