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*ophie(L).
writes:I dont know where to start. but i've been with a boy on and off for just over 2 years. I love him! But i suffer from depression and everytime im in a relationship with him, my depression takes over an it always ends. We decided to leave it and just stay friends. So now, we're best friends.He knows i still love him, i still have feelings for him. But he always tells me about these other girls that he likes and it makes me feel sick, thinking about him with another girl! We're over and i need to accept that theres no more me and him but i just cant do it! I dont want him to leave my life, but theres no other way to get over him. Can anyone help me please? i cant go on like this much longer!Thankyou xxx
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Sophie,
So, its not him per se? Is this feeling just around boys or does it occur in other situations?
Hmmm well I think what needs to be done is the origins of how you feel and why you feel this way need to be found.
A councillor should have been able to do that. Have you been to the doctors too?
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reader, Sophie(L). +, writes (15 April 2011):
Sophie(L). is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen my depression takes over It just doesnt feel right! I cant explain it, but when im with him it really doesnt feel right. The same with all boys.
I tried councelling, but nothing can get me out of depression. Any ideas on that aswell? Thankyou.
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (14 April 2011):
Ok, what happens when your depression takes over? Do you mean insecurity or just general negativity? The fact he tells you about other girls is a bit cruel to be honest. I know you have feelings for him but thats a very cruel thing of him to do.It seems that way yes. Yes you can, I can however tell you that until im blue in the face and it wont make a blind bit of difference if you dont believe it. You need to use this opportunity to work on yourself, to climb out of this depression and build a life for yourself. Its not going to be easy but you can do it. People can help but you have to be advised there is only so much any other person can help because you have to do some of the heavy lifting yourself. Good luck.
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reader, inhibited +, writes (14 April 2011):
 You've answered your own question. You need to severe contact with him completely and try and move into a whole new routine.What have you done to try and conquer your depression? Can you tell us a little more about that?
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