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writes:I have a little problem. I have met my current girlfriend online and have known her for over two years now. We recently began seeing each other but she hasn't told her mom about me yet. The problem is that her mom hates chinese and I am chinese. She knows that if she told her mom, her mom would prevent her from seeing or talking to me ever again. She may even get her internet cancelled. She wants me to go over this weekend but her little brother would be there and she said he would for sure tell his mom. How can I get around this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 You can't get around the fact that you're Chinese. If you and your girl are old enough, however, there is nothing the mother can do. That is the way to go, in my humble opinion.
She has a problem with Chinese. Let her be. Just don't let that affect you guys.
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reader, Chippymunk +, writes (14 April 2011):
Chippymunk is verified as being by the original poster of the question She's 18 but has no job and lives with her mom. Her mom is very controlling and she tells me she gets yelled at for the smallest things.
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (14 April 2011):
Then, move on in your life! You will not be able to change the mother and how she feels. If you and this young woman marry, will the mother ignore your children who will be part Chinese? Think this over very carefully before it goes any longer.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 April 2011):
 How old is this girl, and why does her mom have so much control over her life?
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