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41-50,
*unnamuck
writes:Hey im starting to like a workmate ..thing is im really shy and so is he and im not good with picking up signals at all so any help with be great :) a few possible signs this week stirring me up saying this other guy was my bf even though its not true ,and im like no i dont have a bf , im single !!! just wondering if that was to see if i was single or was he just doing it to be smart ...he always comes to me asking for my help and stuff, he tells me i do a great job in what i do and always thanks me a few times if i help him ..the other day hes like im going to nickname you princess and always calls by my full name cos i hate it lol, hes so your an allycat then how much you paying ???? dunno what that was all about but yeah ...we both flirt and stir each other up lots but im not sure if hes just being nice or hes generally interested .. also i really want his number but im really shy and cant build the courage to get it ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): Theres always banter at work, you spend alot of time together,its good to be able to have a laugh so I would take it as thatDon't rush into anything as it could be awkward as he's a colleague, he knows your single so may ask you out sometime but don't ask him for his number. Facebooks less personal perhapsPersonally I don't think mixing work and dating is ever a good idea, it can lead to all sorts of bad situations if it doesnt work out, but thats up to you
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 IF you are too shy to ask for his number, what would you do if you actually got it? Have you thought of that?
I would honestly show down, take the time to get to know him (as much as you can at work). He may be an office flirt, or he may be interested in you.
Also dating in the workplace can cause a lot of awkwardness.
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