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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have worked to keep a distance from a bad relationship. We broke up, I know it is right, she was sapping me of everything and I became very depressed, and still am.The thing is I have an unhealthy obsession with her. I have not contacted her for weeks and she has not contacted me. But I literally ache like it is a physical pain to talk to her and to remind her that I exist. I know she has moved on already---she has many guys in her life always asking her out----and I want her to know I am still alive and I want to hear her voice and I want to not be so alone....I know it sounds pathetic, but she is like a drug to me that is very bad for me yet I am having trouble in the withdrawal from it. How do I stop myself from going back???
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 I would like to know why you broke up and what she was sapping from you and how you got depressed while in the RS before I can answer this obsession. It might not be an obsession, it might be, ok here goes. Love.. yikes.
But I can't advise on Sapping..
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reader, lovehurtsbutitgetsbetter +, writes (15 April 2011):
Ok wat u shud do is try something different, ask a grl out youve known for a while, go on a few dates explore your options instead of focusing on just her
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reader, HoneyEyedLatina +, writes (14 April 2011):
 I can relate to you on this one because I've been in a relationship like that with the absolute WRONG man. He was much older than me and had more baggage than the Chicago O'Hare International Airport! I did not want to leave him but my life was so miserable with him! Trust me it will get better. The only thing that helps heal the pain is "time". I know it seems like it's impossible because you are still obsessed with her but you will look back at this one day and realize that you made a good choice. Somewhere out there is the right girl waiting for you. She will love you and treat you right and you will get high off of her just like this one. You deserve better sweetheart and don't ever forget it.
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