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writes:I'm attracted to this guy lets call him 'A' but he seems shy so he has never spoken to me but gives this impression that he is also attracted. Anyways, his friends with this other guy we'll call him 'B' who i've spoken to once and he hangs round with him a lot. 'B' is friendly with me and a nice guy who i wouldn't mind being genuine friends with, So I was wondering if i talk to 'B' more, that maybe i can somehow get to know 'A', or at least get him to talk to me.Since maybe 'A' might see me and his friend talking and then ask "oh you know her?" so he might take an interest and i can somehow weave in there to 'B' something about 'A' and then hope he tells him. It sounds confusing but i think it could work? It could get the ball rolling! What do you guys think.......
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reader, Odds +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Careful not to send B the wrong message. A lot of nice, friend-type guys can develop attraction for a girl once they get to know her, so be on the lookout for that, and don't give him the wrong idea.
That would be a passable way to get into A's social circle.
I know you want A to approach you and make the first move, but you'll have a much better chance of succeeding if you send him some signals directly, or even approach him yourself. Get "accidentally" caught looking at him, then look away and smile a little. Try to distance yourself from your friends if you're near him, to give himt he opportunity to approach you one-on-one. When he does approach, play with your hair, and if he makes you laugh, pat him briefly on the chest while you're laughing. He'll catch those signals.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Just don't lead B on. Making a friend to "score" his friend is not always the coolest way. But if guy B seems like a nice guy, why not make friends, as long as you are up front and honest about your "intentions" (being friends nothing more).
Also you could.... say hi to A when you see him around, even if he is shy, he might pick up the hint.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): yeah, go for it!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Go for it, if "A" doesn't pay any attention, at least you will have gained a new firend. What do you have to lose?
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