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*tephanie1
writes:So I have had this guy friend, Alex, for a while and we never reall talked much at all until about a month ago. (we are both 16 by the way) He started texting me everyday for like a week and a half and then we kind of hung out. I just went with him to get his hair cut and then he took me home. Then the texted died down to none and no conversation at school other than saying hey. Then randomly; after a week of no texts, he texted me again for a few days. Then he came to my house on Friday night just to stop by on his way to his other guy fiends house. He played a song on Just Dance with me and then left. But then he texted and asked what I was doing on Saturday and I say "hanging out with yo u :)" and he was happy about it. On Saturday he put me off all day and then called me at like 6 and asked if him and four of his other friends could come over. I said yes, I had one of my other girl friends over too. We watched a movie and half of them left, leaving my friend and I with Alex and his friend. Alex has his own car and license. They were abot to leave but then me and my friend jumped in his trunk so he took us with him to where he was going, McDonalds. Then long story short, they ate it at my house, Alex confessed his like for me to the others while I was not in he room, they stayed until 12 and Alex almost kissed me and then didn't because he didnt know if I wanted him to or not. I wanted him to. Then we hung out just me and him on Sunday and played guitar hero, watched a movie, and went for a walk and just did random stuff for five hours, I had fun and liked him a lot at this point. Then he took me home and gave me a good bye kiss, our first kiss(: and then I REALLY liked him. But now, he doesn't hug me at school or anything, I asked him if he wanted to hang out again before I left for Florida for a week and he said "idk I'll try" which doesn't sound too enthusiastic to me. He has been a boring texter, not acting like he had a crush on me or anything. I really like him but he acts like we are just friends now. Is he afraid of a relationship or does he just not like me? What is up :(!! Sorry I had so much to say, a girls gotta vent
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reader, Stephanie1 +, writes (14 April 2011):
Stephanie1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, he just broke it off with me today over a text. But thank you for your advice
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reader, sly897 +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Stop playing games tell him how you feel. Get him to admit his feelings good or bad. I have lived a long time and have learned life is too short be open, honest and upfront always.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Either too shy or undecided.
Keep dating other guys, keep your eyes open, if he really wants to get to know you or date you more often, he'll call. Could be things going on behind the scenes you are unaware of. Keep your cool and give it time.
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