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30-35,
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writes:Why is he ignoring me? What should I do? We are suppose to be good friends and I know he's had feelings for me for almost a year (he sent a lot of mixed signals though). He's had a habit of coming in and out of my life and has a habit of withdrawing from people. When I would ask him if he was ignoring me he would seem guinuinely shocked and assure me that he wanted me around. He was very caring, honest, and respectful. Granted, he was insecure and shy. Last time we spoke, he was hinting towards a relationship but I was not receptive and was a little upset that he would not open up to me completely. While apart we spent time talking where he had a random emotional outburst about how we never see each other much, something that was both of our faults. When I asked him to elaborate, he refused to talk about it, seemed embarassed, and wanted to see me as soon as possible to keep his promise. Because I was unavaliable we made plans to meet and speak later. However after accidently deleting him, he seems to have been ignoring my calls and text. He has not rejected my request (which I was assuming would mean he was rejecting me in real life) and has not accepted my request either. But I'm pretty sure he has seen it by now.What confuses me is that all of this has happened in only three or four weeks. Before that, he was extremely interested and a good friend of mine. Now, suddenly, it's as if he doesn't want me around (or other people for that matter, but he seems to be warming back up to them and still acting as if i've done something wrong).
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reader, Illithid +, writes (14 April 2011):
 For a minute, I thought you were a girl I know. You sound remarkably like the situation between me and a friend of mine. In my case, we've been friends for six years and I've had feelings for her nearly the whole time, but nothing's come of it. I drop many hints, but she's usually dating someone else so nothing happens. In my case, I'm pulling away to try and move on because I can't keep carrying a torch forever if it's not meant to be.
Do you like this guy? If so, tell him. If not, maybe he needs to clear his head so he won't chase you forever to the exclusion of women that would like him back.
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