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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am very close friends with this man and his wife. i f ever i am having a problem, they are there for me. we re in this group, and there is this very nice girl in the group that became my friend. she was in the group with them longer than me. she is also quite younger than me. m approaching 40, she, late 20's. we became like sisters, especially because we same similar illnesses, and we are both single and funny.anyway, i have been noticing lately, that my friend (the husband), never really talks with her or does any activity with her. its always me and the rest of us in the group that he gives attention to. i just came, and i am involved in many activities that he puts together. but i rarely ever see him interact or invite her. she's so nice and classy girl, very kind and sweet; never had a boyfriend; not the flirt type. but, he has a very different attitude towards her, and so does she towards him. when i am with him, he never talks about her, although i talk abt her a lot. only his wife and me and the rest of the group likes her. why is she being treated so differently by him?I rarely see then talking, and when i do they, you can cut the tension with a knife (like they want to get away from each other) They barely look at each other. he seems condescending towards her sometimes. i am not implying that he should spend time with her. all i am saying is, he treats the rest of us, including other females friends, like myself, way better than he treats her. I am asking about this because over a long period of time its becoming obvious. I did not want to make a big deal of it and ask him in case he would be uncomfortable with the subject.(He's our group organizer)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno. she's was and is not into him or any other guys, i'm pretty sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): Maybe she has a thing for him and he doesn't want to encourage it.
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