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writes:I really like this guy. I could of swore he liked me. he would flirt with me all the time.He would sit by me in class.Sometimes he would put his arm around touch my hand.Then one day he asked me to ask out one of my friends for him.I was so shocked.Because I'm prettier than my friend but i doesn't mean anything i know.She turned him down.But they still flirt in class i think she likes him.But maybe he got mad because i asked him to hook me up with one of his friends.But i was only joking to get him jealous.I really like this guy.i'm wondering why he played with my emotions by flirting with me and sitting by me in class.And then all of a sudden he doesn't want me .Do you think i should tell him how i feel? Or should i just move on i really want to but it's really hard because i grew really attached to him.
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reader, cassie m  +, writes (14 April 2011):
i think you gave him the wrong impression when you asked about his friend. why dont you just tell him after you have asked your friend how she feels because you dont want to lose a friend and then see how it develops.
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (14 April 2011):
 'Maybe he got mad'??
I would say it's pretty much odds on he did and its now landed you in something of situation. I want to preface what im about to say by saying I get it. Your scared of rejection. Having said all that, and here I apologise if I sound a little finger wagging, you shouldnt have done that with his friend, I know you were casting out a line for a reaction but still it was wrong. I bet you werent just shocked when he asked you too hook him up, I bet you were a little hacked off too.
Having said that two wrongs dont make a right and he's now playing the same game it seems and worse, your friends feelings are now being messed with as a consequence. What to do? It seems obvious to me he doesn't truly like your friend and does you and the same is true for you. You need to talk this over and straighten this out now before this goes too far. If he ends up with your friend as a rebound from you then she will get hurt, you will and he will too. It will only end badly if you dont talk this over with him and sort out your own feelings for each other and its better done sooner rather than later.
Good luck.
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