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writes:Why does the guy im seeing for a little under 3 years still in constant contact with all his ex gf and lovers? He texts sends pictures and talks to them daily. When asked he says I had a relationship with them and no reason to stop talking to them. No reason why its a daily thing why does he send his ex a picture of him via phone? Yea i snooped once and (looked at 2 sent messages and stopped) I am sorry I did he denies he sent her a picture and I dropped it at that and I have not ever went back to snooping and never will again. He will pick up my phone and think nothing of using it, but his phone and ipod touch w/wifi is off limits to me. Not sure anymore about this whole relationship he says he loves me but will not say the words I Love You to me.
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Hate to say this but your alarm bells are ringing and I can see why. Lets start at the top. He doesnt have to stop talking to his ex's, he's right there - on the other hand they are exs and shouldnt come before his current relationship which at the very best sounds like what is happening here. At the very worst, he's concealing something and I dont necessarily mean he's cheating here, he may not be, but he may be concealing feelings for one of them. Either that or he's simply not over it and there are unresolved issues there. Whatever the explanation this isnt fair and i'm glad you wont snoop because while you shouldnt you also shouldnt have too and thats the crux of this. He is giving you legitimate cause for concern and the final thing is especially concerning because he's merely reacting to what your saying, not positively affirming his feelings. You need to have this out with him because things carrying on this way isnt fair on either of you. You need to know where you stand and confront him with your feelings on the subject and seriously ask, is it working?Good luck.
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