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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Please someone tell me what to doI feel trapped in a relationship with this guyI have a great family, but i cant move in with them because of my cat. My rented apartment is half his place too. He can stay at work if he wants to, but our whole flat is full of my stuff. Me (and my cat lol) have had our own place for the past 6 years... due to my gran's mental health, my mother has moved in with my grand-parents, so therefore - no room for me. My family would never want to see me writing this...... but they just cant understand why i just wont give my cat up. where my life is at the moment i feel like i'm putting up with this guy, just for somewhere to live... i'm trying to finish off my degree, but he keeps on confronting me and making me so upset, i cant concentrate... i dont even feel i can block it out. any advice at all. x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): I'm in a similar situation. Only it's my dog. I have no where to go if I want my dog. What I know I have to do is just straight up tell him how I feel, but I can't bring myself to do it. Well thats my advise to you. Tell him how you feel and find a small apartment for yourself and your cat. There is no sense in wasting your time on someone you don't want to be with. I'm preaching to the choir, but I hope you have more balls than me. There really is nothing else you can do.
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