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writes: What can i do to put the spark back into my relationship.Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and we have just been through a very rough patch, in which we argued a lot, and a lot of hurtful things were said.We are over it now, but we seem to have lost some of the spark we once had.We have a little, but now we are lacking in it:)I am 17 and he is 18 (so we can't go to many places)Is there anything that we can do together, to make our relationship a little bit more exciting, as we have a limited amount of money, but no where near as much to go on holiday and stuff with. I love him with all my heart, and he tells me over and over again that we does too.But i'm afraid we'll settle down TOO Much and become like a stereotypical married couple (boring and moaning all the time).I get on with his friends very well, but mine are too immature to do anything with really (we both think that) if that helps.Thank youu xx
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reader, cupidus +, writes (15 April 2011):
Mmm.. it's great that you were able to get over a rough patch and stay together. Congrats on that, you're an exception.
No money to have fun maybe the missing spark. Are you both working? You'll have to get creative, and that can be sparkfull in itself. Maybe start a business this summer washing windows together or something. Put your talents together and do something to bring in some money for a great weekend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): Ouch!! Getting the spark back when you are 16 and have been together only a year? Try being married for 20 years and having no spark!!! No disrespect but if you are having trouble keeping that spark alive now you are headed for a lot of trouble if you get married to each other and fast forward 10 or 20 years down the road...
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