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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I dated a guy for a 3 months and we officially stopped talking end of February. He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me anything serious right now. if it turns out I was looking for that he didn't want to hurt me, if I did want that. He asked if this is it, and I said yes, I guess it is bc I wanted something consistent in my life, regardless of the title... (I didnt need to sit around waiting for him to decide what he wanted.) We didn't talk for a month and last week I messaged him to see if I could come by his work, because I needed my tires changed. He said of course and I went by his office and everything was cool. We talked, hung out and caught up and he was looking at me the same way he looked at me when we were dating. It was hard for me to even look him in the eye. We said goodbye and now I dont know if I should contact him again to try to start things up again. I'm hesistant, bc I don't want to get hurt and what's the point? If he wanted me he would initiate it right? boys I need your help. Would you want a girl in my position to contact you? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Hi there. He doesn't like you that way but probably thinks you are a nice girl but not someone he can picture as a girlfriend. You can contact him and go out with him but just know it won't go anywhere so don't do it if you want him as more than a friend or sex buddy.
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