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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months now and after a month i knew he was the one and he felt exactly the same, i didn't see him for a week and so was really was looking forward to seeing him at the weekend but when i got to his house i instantly felt wierd i didn't want him to kiss me or anything and Im very sex oriented but i turned it down and i got really funny feeling and thought i may have fallen out of him, we went out to see his grandma and then i was fine, i wanted to hug and kiss him i felt like i usually do, but now i can't stop thinkin about how i felt and Im really scared, i literally haven't been able to stop crying and i can't see him for another week and i don't know what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, inhibited +, writes (11 April 2011):
 I don't think it's totally unusual to miss someone less than you anticipate or to slow start when you see them again.Don't obsess over the idea of being with this guy, let yourself feel whatever it is you’re feeling and if your feelings really are diminishing for him then that’s just what was meant to be, as painful as it might be to accept.5 months isn't the longest of relationships frankly so just take it a week at a time for now and try not to make what happened recently into a massive deal in your head.
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