A
female
age
26-29,
*atterytea
writes:Help please!For about two years I've been crushing on my teacher and he's always been dreamy and made me feel like I was floating just from a smile or a greeting. I never wanted anything more than just to see him at school everyday.Until now.A few days ago, some students found out from a video on the Internet that my teacher used to be famous. Now everyone in the school's giving him loads of attention and he himself has been stuck up and full of himself. He'll ignore me when I ask for help with the work and would rather talk about his past career. I simply can't bring myself to like him anymore. It's the first time since I met him that I've felt unattractive to him.But it doesn't end there!For almost the exact amount of time (half a year more) I've had a friend who's always been great to me. When we first met I was excited and I tried to make a lot of conversation (asking him what book he was reading, what he likes, etc) and he was quite aloof and would give me one word answers, but we're such good friends now and he teases me and we talk and joke around, whilst he's still a quiet and shy guy.A few days ago, coincidentally, all my girl friends didn't show up at school for various reasons (sick, field trip, etc.). Everyday at lunch I go with my girl friends to a nearby place to get coffee and donuts, but since they were all gone that day, I asked my guy friend to come with me. He was fine with it.While we were walking, (we live in Canada, so it's a bit chilly) he noticed I wasn't wearing a coat and asked if I was cold, I said I was but it was okay 'cause I always did it and "not wearing a coat can build moral fibre", but he immediately took his coat off and told me to put it on. I said I couldn't, and told him to put it back on. We went on like this for a few minutes until he suddenly wrapped the coat around me and held it on my shoulders.Then after lunch I had math, but he didn't have class that period and he came to math with me. I am not exaggerating when I say that everyone started teasing us. I wasn't bothered by it, but he looked uncomfortable, so I tried to get them to stop. He ended up leaving without saying anything, and I was like "You're leaving?" but he seemed to be in a rush or something, and didn't look back until he was at the door. I gave him a confused look, and he just smiled and left.And then from that day til now, he's been poking me on Facebook every hour or so. It's odd because he's not the type of guy to try to annoy people, so I can't help but think he's trying to flirt.And whenever I bring up the teacher I had a crush on to him, he usually looks uncomfortable.Guys, I don't have very much experience with the opposite sex, but you guys do, so can you please tell me DOES HE LIKE ME?And if so, should I go out with him? He's such a nice guy, my teacher crush is seriously dying away.Thank you all SO MUCH for reading all that! Thanks for the help too :)
View related questions:
crush, facebook, flirt, my teacher, period, shy, teasing, the internet Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Batterytea +, writes (11 April 2011):
Batterytea is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks both of you!
@female anon: Good idea, I'll keep an eye out for more subtle hints. Thanks :)
@male anon: Oh I never knew guys didn't like hearing about other guys so much. I'll keep that in mind. I think I'll have to drop him some hints. Thanks :)
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Okay, firstly you need to understand that guys, no matter who they are in respect to you, do not want to here about your other crushes. That's just not in a guys nature to enjoy hearing about other guys, but on the note of does he like you, I would say yes he does and he is like you in that he is inexperienced with relationships as well.If you really like him, and think he would make a good boyfriend then go for it. If things are to different between you end it before it goes to far. On the note of your teacher crush... don't even bother letting that get in the way of your choice to date your friend or not. (Most of the time) teacher will never even consider being with another student so it is really pointless. Your friend seems to like you so why not give it a go, and if nothing else you can at least gain some experience from the situation.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): It definitely seems like he might like you! Monitor it a bit more this week, like, see how he acts and stuff, and go from there. Good luck!:)
...............................
|
