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30-35,
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writes:ok im 19 and i just had my beautiful little girl in 2010 a year after i graduated high school with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years, BUT i still think and miss and i believe im still in love with the same boy ever since i met him when i was 13 years old. we have such strong chemistry whenever we are anywhere near each other. but i feel like it would be sooo hard to leave my baby's father and it would be soo selfish to break up my family and everyone would hate me for it, i want my baby to have both her parents, although i just cant get over my ex.ive thought about him every day and night for the past 7 years, what should i do?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 That chemistry? Where was it when you went out with another guy, had sex with him and carried his baby to full-term etc etc?
Couldn't this be a case of you wanting to escape back to more carefree days when you didn't have a "beautifull little girl" demanding to be fed throughout the night?
The problem you are facing is that when you are young you are not ready to make choices for the rest of your life but yet you got pregnant meaning that now switching boyfriends isn't just a girl changing her mind when the wind turns but it is going to affect a lot of people for the rest of their lives.
A child can be fickle a mother less so. You want two things, you can't have them both, so you got to make a choice and accept the consequences. Welcome to adulthood. It sucks. We told you you should enjoy your childhood years for as long as you could. But hey, now you can look forward to telling your little girl to not want to rush things and be totally ignored. Circle of life baby.
Growing up, learning you can't have your cake and eat it to and not throwing a temper tantrum over it.
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