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writes:I'm studying Eng.,and he is my classmate, we both love each other, but he gets angry whenever i talk to boys, he also told me not to wear jeans, and also tells me that after our marriage i have to leave my job because I have to take care of his parents???? what to do ????? I'm not getting, i have agreed to all his conditions about not wearing jeans. As both of my parents are teachers, they would always advice me to work i.e to be independent but how can i tell him?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Philips  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 @ StarryEyes101: She's indian, and its common in that country to treat girls like that. If he act like a typical indian husband and controls you, act like a typical indian wife and refuse him sex and bug him about all his faults all the time.I think most people here will tell you to simply leave him. But what are the options after that?Sometimes life is cruel. Have faith in yourself, be strong. You are the only one to know how to handle your guy. I hope you find the solution soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Hai ya.. Its far better to let him know how u feel...if u say 'yes' to all his questions and wen one day he knows he ll realy get upset.. tell softly your way of thinking towards life..and how much you love him..
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (10 April 2011):
 WOW!Leave him. He's gonna control EVERY step of your life and you are only 18-21. Not wear jeans??? Please. That's absurd. I'd laugh in someone's face if they told me I couldn't wear jeans anymore! But... If you love him. Put your foot down. Tell him to stop the controlling and anger. You'll wear and TALK to who ever you want.Hope this helps
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